A Sugar Baby
Son-in-law Chat
"And, forgive Lea yes. If he's still a kid sometimes."
Leah's mother said, when she was finally invited to meet by Daniel and also Lea. Daniel and his mother-in-law were sitting in the corner of the bakery. While Lea and Adisty also Ellio are choosing the bread and cake they want.
Coincidentally Adisty was invited by Lea. At the college, Lea said she would meet Daniel and Ellio at her mother's bakery. So Adisty decided to come. Ariana has an appointment with Hans.
"It's okay, ma'am. Emang Lea was also a child, still of that age. Want to be forced to be any adult, will not be able to. Let him be a normal adult, as time goes on." replied Daniel.
"Everything needs a process" he continued.
"Mommy was just worried. You're a grown man, and you meet a lot of grown women out there. It's not nice to hear you're made comfortable by the grown woman you met, and eventually Lea you leave behind. Because of its nature that is still so. Sometimes I see he likes to answer your advice, ask to be obeyed his wishes. I feel like I failed to educate Lea."
This time Daniel smiled, even chuckling.
"Lea was mature enough for her age, sometimes" Daniel told her mother-in-law.
"On some sides he's an adult. But sometimes he also acts like a child. I love to snicker, answer what I tell him, and like to whine at me. I try to understand him from a psychological point of view. Since childhood he had no father that he could make a place to indulge. He only met his father now. So it is natural that his attitude towards me is sometimes so. Yes, I understand it while I teach slowly and try to give a good example. The best reason for this advice is to set an example. Not just demanding that people like this and so, while we ourselves do not exemplify, do not reflect."
Mother Leah heard everything Daniel said.
"After all I want to kneel Lea how else?. Should he be as perfect as a character in fiction?. Who behaves like an angel, meek, full of poetry and parables to the husband. I think it's too much bullshit and it's only in novels or fairy tales."
Leah's mother laughed, and so did Daniel.
"Don't you?" ask Daniel to the woman.
The mother-in-law nodded her head while still laughing, and Daniel resumed his words.
"In reality, the married person must be equally understanding and give each other space to grow and develop. We can't change a person's character or nature or attitude, just because we're already tied to a marriage."
Mother Lea nodded her head again.
"Often we hear, "You are married, you must become an adult. Here, that's." Ever heard of that kind of renderer mom?"
"Yes." replied Leah's mother later.
"When maturity is very much needed time is not a little. Maturity cannot be forced just because we are married. Marriage is not a way to change a person's character. Except for worship, finances, habits like drunkenness and hurrah may be changed. The matter of one's own nature and attitude or character is very difficult. If you do not want to marry someone whose attitude or nature we do not like, yes do not marry that person. Marry the one we like his nature and attitude."
"Yes, like a mother example first. I wish my husband was like someone's husband. The good, gentle to the daughter of the wife, do not like to gamble, strong to make a living for the family. But I married the wrong man. Just hope she turns into what you want and it can't."
Daniel took a breath and watched his mother-in-law.
"It's also Lea, ma'am. From the beginning of marrying him I also realized that what I was dealing with was a teenager. Sometimes I get out of control too. I was angry, I snapped him. And turn around so he knows me. Give me time and space to be angry with him. That is my lack, I know that. He alone is of that age can accept all the shortcomings I have. My time cannot accept his shortcomings. Must demand he's perfect."
"If you want to talk about the shortcomings of a wife or husband, there will be no end. In the end, we have to accept each other. But back again it's about character. If the husband likes to hit, have sexual deviance, spend money on gambling and cheating, do not provide a wife and children well. It must be abandoned. So too with the wife. If the wife is proven to sleep with other men, treating the husband harshly like animals, evil and so on must also be abandoned. But if you still want to survive, survive the fight."
Daniel said with a laugh.
"But Leah did not forget, right, her obligation as a wife?"
Daniel looked at Lea from a distance with a smile. Then he looked back at the in-laws.
"Sometimes if I'm sick, he'll wait for me in the morning. She didn't even sleep, Mom. He diligently masakin me, cleaning the house, preparing and cleaning my work equipment, suddenly he came to the office and brought me lunch. I think that's more than enough. What else would you like to try?. Less as a husband?. Just die."
This time Daniel and Leah's mother both laughed. Lea is seen talking to Adisty and Ellio after paying. They sit down and eat and drink at a table.
When Ellio almost finished his bread and left a lot of chocolate. Lea stared at the bread, making Ellio feel guilty.
"That must be great, that part."
Ellio widened his lips and put them in Lea's mouth.
"Hmmm, it's really chocolate." she said later.
Leah took some more of the same bread and gave it to Ellio.
"Now, make it instead."
"Yes free Lele, you change this much but the best part of chocolate you eat." Ellio grumbling. Adisty laughed, while Lea grinned.
"Hehe."
"No longer koq om, just don't look the same I'm part of the chocolate." continued the woman.
So Ellio took a loaf of bread, then glanced at Lea like a child who was afraid of being snatched away by her food.
Daniel and Leah's mother, who saw this, both laughed.
"Thank you for loving Leah, and thank you for taking care of Leo."
Daniel smiled at his mother-in-law for the umpteenth time.
"Sama-sama ma'am." she replied later.