
Kumandang adzan dawn echoed, I immediately woke up rushing to the mosque prayer congregation, home from the mosque directly help clean-up the house, take water for cooking, last nyari firewood to deket times, and finally,once my sisters have gone home to school all there is only a father in the living room and mother is still busy weeding vegetables to cook.
I approached my father and sat down next to him.
"No one wants Adit to talk about.!, may you forgive and give your blessing to the decision Adit took sir.
This is entirely Adit's own desire without any coercion from Reyna's family sir, I came back here to beg the blessing of father and mother to marry Reyna, I'm going back here to ask for the blessing of father and mother to marry Reyna, hopefully father and mother do not complicate the decision I take this sir.I take this decision with a lot of consideration not only concerned with my own ego, but I also think about the state of our family this sir. Adit has been looking for work here and there, but the result is 0 big, in our city this may be the opportunity to get a job is very difficult sir, Kalo in Reyna area there is a great possibility to get a job, there is a big chance to get a job,I decided to marry Reyna for that reason sir, if Adit's status was clear so Reyna's husband I was not awkward, and embarrassed to live there, too, and not be a burden of the mind is also fit to find a job there sir." After revealing everything I looked down, waiting for an answer from the father.Just the silence between us, heard the father took a heavy breath, then spoke.
"Adit you understand, understand very well for the decision you take, honestly western it feels to make the father decide, what answer you should give to you, what answer, you know for yourself what the state of our family is like, not the intention of the father also obstructing your wishes, what complicates your decision, but you can understand right?. now marrying someone's child costs Adit, want the money from where we make a meal a day just have to slam the bones of this father, not to mention the cost of your sister's school, you're really confused."Just this time I had to see my father shed tears, there was pain in his chest.
"You really are with your stance now you can not do anything else Adit, you can only pray the best for you, for your life in the future". There is relief in the heart of hearing the words of the father just now.I hug the old body of the father who began to be fragile inedible age... "Thank you sir, pray Adit yes sir may make our family happy in the future", then I rushed to the room, and prepare the requirements to take care of the birth certificate.
"sir Adit pamit yes want to take care of the birth certificate, kalo returned home still noon want to directly take care of the marriage license, I also greet the father.
"Bu Adit wants to take care of the birth certificate first.. assalamu'alaikum,", while greeting my mother passed away to the place I will go today. hopefully launched, will be released, at ease the affairs of this servant, Alloh. I accompanied my friend Karno by riding his motorbike.it did not take long we finally reached the place I was headed.