
One day before my wedding day, my brothers came from the border crossing between West Java and Central Java, all the families gathered at home,in the evening some close relatives came to help cook for the Thanksgiving after the wedding ceremony was held tomorrow morning, only 100 servings were prepared for the buffet tomorrow. In the morning all the dishes were served at the long table of the living room, while I and Aditya mas from half-five in the morning had left for the salon,with simple makeup on padu padan right with white kebaya that I sewed three days before the day H.
At 06:30 my mother approached me to the salon where I was in makeup this morning.I felt a great sadness but I was trying to be okay, and the mother took a public transportation that passed the salon and headed to KUA, it did not take long we also arrived at the place on the way.
My brothers and sisters are already in place to attend the wedding ceremony that will be held soon.
Today, Thursday, July 25, 2008 mas Aditya will edit me as a wife martyr in the eyes of law and religion.blue haru approached in the deepest recesses of the heart, the, the dominant sadness pierced into the deepest heart, let alone having to see the Aditya mas who were alone without parents, relatives and family who accompanied to witness this sacred event.
Yes Allah strengthen us to be able to accept this reality, hopefully behind all this there is happiness waiting for us.
I received the marriage and marriage of Reyna Mutia bint Efendi with a dowry of a set of prayer tools in paid cash, mas Aditya smoothly expressed the pledge of the marriage contract with the syah...echoing in this room, all those present to witness our event, shed tears of tears in my struggle with Aditya to be strong up to this point.
As soon as they arrived at the house of the brother who did not participate in the wedding ceremony in front of the house, they all greeted me with a description of tears,I rushed into the house and followed Aditya and my other brothers.
"Welcome, don't you know the law if you want to get married today?, I just smile and say, intentionally let's surprise", I strengthen this heart and try to look okay... many neighbors who came just to congratulate me for my wedding, and all the same that was thrown from the mouth of the neighbors who came to approach, why not invite" he said.
Half an hour later the fathers of the neighbors invited for the Thanksgiving event began to arrive, after everything was present then the event was started by a scholar who was appointed by the father to lead the running of this thanksgiving event.
Thank God today's event is smooth without any obstacles.
All brothers are still gathered in the middle room while eating the remaining dishes, there are also some who are busy taking care of the rice box that will be distributed to relatives who are unable to attend, and distributed also to the nearest neighbor.After praying isya alhamdulillah everything is in order, the furniture in use has been neatly arranged in place, the room used for the celebration was neat as ever, the room used for the ceremony was neat as before,the house also looked quiet again not as crowded as this afternoon,all the families in this house are already in their respective rooms to unwind because of the many jobs that were done from yesterday until after the magrib just now.