In-laws, Children and Daughters

In-laws, Children and Daughters
Prayer for Mother-in-Law


"Berlin..."


"Based on the son-in-law, you can't do anything right!"


"I've told you before, you can never cook properly. What's wrong with your brain?"


Berliana's feelings were sad because of her mother-in-law's treatment but she couldn't do anything. Can only be silent and pray so that he can be strong and strong with his current state. She did not want to complain about this condition to her husband, afraid if you say a cowboy and pitted the sheep between the mother-in-law and her husband. Because all this time the mother-in-law was always rude and berated her even though she did nothing wrong.


Berliana is self-conscious if in a marriage relationship, there are many things that must be faced. One of them is the relationship with the family of his partner. There are times when we will feel comfortable and harmonious in relationships with the family-in-law, however, there are times when the relationship does not go well. As Berliana feels today. She was already a wife who was feeling ill treatment from her mother-in-law.


The bad treatment that Juwita, his father-in-law, had done to Berliana had already happened for some time. Berliana felt sad and hurt because she did not understand why her mother-in-law could treat her like that. Berliana never made a big mistake that could make her mother-in-law become angry and treat her harshly.


However, despite feeling hurt, Berliana could not do much. She felt very limited because she was afraid that if she complained to her husband, it could make her husband and mother-in-law become involved in unnecessary conflict. Berliana felt that she could only keep quiet and pray that she could survive and be strong in this situation.


"Until when shall I bear this useless you?" yelled Juwita growled.


"You always make mistakes and mess things up. What are you really doing?" this question actually does not require an answer, because Juwita can see how Berliana is cleaning the floor.


"What can you do well? Every time I see you, I feel disgusted!" The corner of Juwita's lips was attracted cynically.


What Juwita said is very disturbing emotional and psychological Berliana. The worry and pressure he felt sometimes made him feel depressed and anxious. She felt that she had to put herself in a situation that made her uncomfortable just to avoid a bigger conflict with her husband.


Juwita is a very stubborn person and it is difficult to speak well. He often takes action without thinking about the feelings of others, especially against Berliana. This made Berliana feel unappreciated and neglected. He also has a daughter, who will later become a wife and daughter-in-law of another family.


However, as a wife, Berliana must strive to find a way to better cope with this situation. He must learn to be more patient and not easily provoked. This will help him to stay calm in difficult situations.


However, of course this is not easy to do by Berliana. Mama-in-law Berliana is a stubborn person and difficult to talk to properly. This left Berliana unsure if she could resolve this conflict with her mother-in-law.


'Oh my God, what should I do?' berliana inner scream.


Shortly after, there was another shouting of Juwita who was cursing. "You always make stupid decisions. What will happen to our family if you continue like this?"


Berliana narrowed her eyes hearing the voice of her mother that she did not understand, what the words meant.


"You're always wrong. I feel like I can't trust you to do anything."


"Every time you do something, you always make a mistake. I'm tired of all this." The complaints are said Juwita, without any mistakes made by Berliana.


"You know nothing. I don't know how you can be a good wife to my son."


Berliana could only cry and apologize to her in-laws but was instead ridiculed all-out, very sad and heartbreaking. "Sorry, Ma."


Berliana felt she could do nothing but cry and apologize for feeling so humiliated and unappreciated. She had tried her best to fulfill the wishes and needs of her in-laws, but still she had always been ridiculed and insulted by her in-laws. Berliana felt desperate and did not know what else to do to make her in-laws satisfied and did not curse her.


"Cuihhhhhhh! I don't want to."


When Berliana cried and apologized to her in-laws, her in-laws added to Berliana's pain and grief by issuing ridicule and ridicule that was very cruel. Her in-laws seem to have no compassion or empathy for Berliana's feelings and just want to control and exploit her.


"You are indeed a wife who does not care for the household. What you're doing, having kids just can't!"


Berliana felt she could no longer hold back her tears, she tried to keep her patience and hoped for a miracle to happen, that her in-laws would feel sorry for her and change her behavior. However, her in-laws were increasingly cruel and mocked her more loudly, making Berliana feel even more humiliated and feel no value in her in-laws' eyes.


His feelings and heart were in great pain, and Berliana felt very unfair for not being able to do anything to improve her own situation and circumstances. He felt trapped in a circle that made him feel even worse and helpless. This made him feel desperate and did not know what else to do to overcome the problems he faced.


"O Lord, I ask You to give me strength and patience in the face of my abusive and heartbreaking mother-in-law's treatment. Show me a way out of this situation, and teach me how to stay calm and respect myself. Dear God, please make my mother-in-law more aware and accept myself as the daughter-in-law and wife of Mas Kenzie."


"O Allah, the Most Merciful Lord, I ask You to give me peace and strength when I face the ill-treatment of my mother-in-law. I ask You to open my mother-in-law's heart so that she can accept myself as her daughter-in-law sincerely and without prejudice. Dear God, give me courage and fortitude in the face of this situation."


"O Allah, in these difficult circumstances I ask You to give me strength and fortitude in the face of all the challenges that have occurred in my life. I pray that my mother-in-law will understand and accept me as a daughter-in-law and wife of Kenzie. O God, give me the courage to face this situation and pray that all these problems pass quickly."


"O Lord, I ask You to give me strength and confidence in the face of the harsh treatment of my mother-in-law. I ask You to open my mother-in-law's heart so that she can see my worth and accept me as her daughter-in-law sincerely and without prejudice. Dear God, I ask You to keep our family relationship harmonious and happy."


"O Allah, I ask You to give me strength and patience in dealing with this difficult situation. I pray that my mother-in-law may accept myself as her daughter-in-law and honor me as the wife of her son. O God, I ask You to take care of and protect our family relationships and give us happiness and peace in our lives."


"Aamiin yes rabbal alamin..."