LOVE IN THE VIRTUAL WORLD
QUARRELS 3

True to Arin's estimation, for one week more Yuda silenced him. Never even eat at home. But Arin did not care, because he wanted to teach Yuda a lesson, and hoped he could realize his mistake. Even if you are not angry, Judah's attitude is not sweet in the least on Arin, so what is the difference with this angry Judah, Arin thought.

If you are angry, you will be silent for days. He did not think that it would be sinful for a husband to silence his wife for more than 3 days. Judah who always issued his powerful weapons, that in his religion, a man is the leader, and a wife should obey him. Yet Judah's attitude does not reflect that of a suitable husband in religious teachings. Not being gentle with a wife, and not thinking about how to treat a wife well. All Judah thought was that he was a husband, no matter what the order of a wife, he should not dispute it.

That is why it is so important to know clearly about the rules in religion. Not just learning things that are liked and beneficial to yourself, where the intention is only to be used as a strong reason and strengthen himself to always be in the upper hand when fighting with his wife. In Islam, everything has rules. Also angry with a partner. Everything if only known half of it will eventually become misguided and will do as he pleases.

Arin seemed to have given up on the situation. His patience stock had already reached a critical threshold. His heart and love that has been divided is like giving his strength to dare to take a big risk on his marriage.

Arin began to be able to make peace with the situation he was facing. No longer dizzy with Yuda's indifferent attitude to him. They live under one roof, but they live alone. What Arin was thinking about right now was Flo. The important thing is that Judah is still responsible, and Arin still does not neglect his duties as a wife. His communication with Brian that continues, can forget all the problems of the household.

" How many days has Rin been??"

" Yes since my return from here."

" Astagfirullah hal adzim!! One week more Rin!!"

" If I don't count it wrong, then." Replied Arin casually while fondling the food provided by his brother.

" You have to give up Rin. Apologize to your husband!!"

" Who else is mbak?? No!!"

" Get's Rin!!"

" No way!!"

" I've been beating for years, even I've been like the footwear he keeps on stepping on. But where's mbak? Not that it changed, but he just felt bigger and bigger, as if I had nothing in his eyes."

" Rin.if you wait for Judah who is defeated, until the year of the monkey also will not he will give up, you can actually bring your household on the verge of destruction. You know Yuda, he can do anything for his pride."

" Yes, if he wants that. It's like I'm the only one who has to defend my household, and he's not. In a household if only one person who is struggling and not balanced with his partner, free mbak. Someday it will be ruined too."

" Huuusss...What the hell are you??"

" Are you so, right? Try to think, every time there is a problem I have to give up, there is another problem, I am silent. As I fought back and tried to resuscitate her, she got angry, kept giving up all the same I continued this household. Finally I gave up again, until the year the elephant would not realize he mbak, it just became more and more."

" Now I'm back, whatever he wants, I see how he reacts. If he really wants it to end, it means he does not want to change, and more at the expense of our household, that's all."

" You're not like Arin you know."

" That you know, you're the least comfortable person if someone is angry with you, but this time why are you different?"

Arin quiet. Do not let Sisi know that he has an extraordinary strength that makes him so brave to take a big risk in his household.

" Why silence?"

" I just thought, maybe because I'm tired of his attitude, and this feeling is piled up because he treats me so often." Replied Arin reasoned.

" Whatever the reason, still not allowed a wife against Rin's husband, Rin's great sin."

" Can't do that, either. It's all because there's a cause, cook only I'll take it all?"

" Here Rin, apologize to your husband, cook you are not sad continue to be silent-at-home kayak gini?"

" Let me mbak. I can even enjoy, and never get scolded if I go anywhere."

" But she doesn't care about you, your household could be ruined Arin!!"

" What's the difference with the previous mbak? even before I had lived in hell, I was broken, and every day I felt threatened with all my attitudes that he thought were never right!"

" Rin, each household has its own problems. Some are economic, from children, from parents, from third parties, and your problems are the source of your husband. So you have to be able to handle it."

" Your life is perfect. You just enjoy it, don't let everything you used to fight together yawn so yawn."

" Sir, I know that. But think about it, I married her so I could live this life together, go hand in hand, strengthen each other without anyone feeling intimidated. And that's what I'm going through right now. My husband, who was supposed to be the only one to protect me, became the place of my grievance, it became the source of my problems that eventually caused me to be like a fool and afraid to do anything. Then how should I maintain my feelings for her?"

" It should be in that household, the wife can be a medicine when the husband has a problem, and vice versa, instead of being a place to vent anger. I was at home supposed to be the place where she came home in the truest sense. He is not mbak. If he's in trouble, look at me like I see an enemy. I asked even I was being angry. So what is my function as a wife? or just for an anger outlet? is it just to be told to transfer money? is it just to be told to make coffee? that only? if only that, Bik Asih also pinter mbak."

The side breathed a long breath. He was pitying his only sister's condition. Though Arin used to be a cheerful child, adventurous everywhere, always active in the organization of the school and campus. But now, he was like a bird in a golden cage. They have wings but cannot fly.

" Rin, I can't understand how you feel. But we are women. The woman sometimes had to endure the pain, even though she died in the end. But one thing we must remember, our sacrifice will never be in vain, because there is a strong reason we do all that. There is another life that we struggle with, which is our children and the people whose lives depend on us Rin." Sisi said slowly while clasping his sister's hand.

Arin looked at both of her brother's eyeballs. Remembering all the events as they grew up together. They were so happy with their teenage years. Full of laughter and cheer. Arin hugged her brother. Side stroked her sister's hair.

" It's strong for Rin, for Flora and our families who depend on you." Said Sisi again.

That's what Sisi said. Many of Arin's families who could not afford to have been helped and sustained by Judah. Grateful Arin, Yuda is not the stingy husband type. But Judah's ugliness was, if the man was once denied, he would not care any more about their troubles. Therefore, although many Arin brothers do not like the hard attitude of Judah, but because Judah has helped a lot, then they just remain silent, and resigned to all the rules imposed by Judah.