LOVE IN THE VIRTUAL WORLD
WITH DIKA

Meanwhile, Yuda is seen drinking coffee at a cafe while waiting for his old friend, Dika.

" Hey Brow, all that?" While pulling the empty seat that Yuda had ordered.

" It's hot my ass is waiting for you."

" Hahaha.sorry, I will have to keep the children with my wife at home."

" Yemenin? I never went home with nemenin."

" It has to be dong brow. I was in the office all day, at home I had to take time to talk with my wife and kids. Listening to their activities for a day, asking about my children's school, asking about their relationships with friends, asking about their problems."

" But there's your wife standing by at home."

" The child should be close to both parents brow, not just one of them, it affects you know so that the child's parenting becomes more ideal. Letting there be a distance between one parent and the child can actually worsen the atmosphere in the future. For example, the child may feel less attention and less affection from one parent, to often make problems because they feel they are worthless. You know what I mean?" Yuda was silent.

" Aaahhh..it's very complicated!! Our job is to earn their living, why is it still messed with the affairs of children's schools, the affairs of children's association, then what is the function of our wives?"

" It's hard to talk to selfish, primitive-minded people like you."

" It's not selfish, but we're too dizzy with work, at least not burdened again with such a dime."

" Well, surely you're not close to your son? she must have wanted to be close to her father."

Yuda did not answer, he was not too close to Flo, let alone listen to the story of the child, sometimes when Flo sat next to him alone, he said, Yuda even prefers to be engrossed with his iphonenya rather than invite Flo to chat. Flo is closer to Arin than he is.

Judah then called a servant.

" What message are you?"

" Sweet coffee."

" Food?"

" It's up to you."

Then Judah wrote the order, and immediately handed it to the servant.

" Drink only one pack?"

" It's not over yet." He pointed at the drink glass in front of him.

" Mineral water is the other one." Said Yuda later.

" Good sir. Any more additions?"

" It was just that."

" Good sir, excuse me."

When he saw the ashtray in front of Brian, cigarette butts piled up there."

" How many hours have you been sitting here?"

" Maybe an hour."

" Alone?"

" Who do you see me with? a ghost?"

" Who knows there's a ghost that nemenin you smoke, until the butt piles it like that."

" Hahaha..nyindir here?"

" Curious? want to try this?"

" Oeah!! mending I buy rice to eat my wife's child." Reject Dika who has never smoked since.

" A long time ago, didn't we have coffee?" While smoking a cigarette deeply.

" Okay, we're all busy, so forget to hang out."

" Hahaha the fate of men who have a family, sometimes forget me time."

" Our light Jud, can still socialize with the outside environment. Our wife's turn, the night is just at home, busy with the affairs of children and home. Imagine how much more bored they are. They should be more we need to give the opportunity to pamper ourselves, because they are willing to sacrifice their time and self-interest to take care of our children and our homes."

" A long explanation?"

" Yes so, I sometimes fit off work see my wife there is aja done from morning until night, tired myself."

" That's your wife, different from my wife. He already gave me 2 assistant people at once, so if he still complains tired, that's not grateful."

" Maybe he was not tired of Jud, but he was tired. Your wife rarely goes out of the house, I never even see her go out with her girlfriends."

" I can't let it. Why go for non-essential business, the ends will even fade away."

" You mean you don't trust your wife, cook you don't know her? I'm the only one whose friend knows how she is."

" What do you think he is?"

" Jud, don't lie to yourself."

" you mean?"

" Who has won you over you has nothing until you are this successful? Even he is willing to join the bone and work you have until as successful as now. Arin used to be able to get more men than you, you know for yourself who is the guy who deletin your wife? But the proof is that he chose you and willingly lives with you."

" Yes, he has become my soul mate."

" It is precisely that, since God has destined a woman as good as Arin to be your soul mate, you must really take care of her, love her."

" I love him so much, you see now, right? how else would I love him?"

" But you are too limiting Jud's wiggle room!"

" Is it because it's for her good?"

" Right for her good? not for any other reason?" Judah was silent and could not answer.

" Honey does not mean forbidding Jud. Loving does not mean curbing. If you believed in your wife, you probably wouldn't be like this. Don't you know more about your wife than I do?"

" Now you are grasping sand, if you hold it too tightly, it will stay out of your fingers. So does your wife, give her freedom but stick with the rules. Like, your head let go of the tail you hold. And that's the role of a husband. Educate your wife as best as possible in accordance with the rules of religion, then there are and without you, she will still maintain the commitment and trust that you give."

" Educating a wife is our duty Jud, but make no mistake, as a housekeeper we will not escape mistakes, do not be selfish and do not be angry if your wife reminds, too, because it's also her job."

" We as men not only give a living, but there are many other tasks that must be done. One of them is protecting our family. Protecting doesn't mean what you do, forbidding him to go by strict rules, but also giving him comfort, giving him a calm bath."

Judah just kept quiet while stirring the coffee in front of him.

" Do you understand what I mean by Jud?"

" Don't understand, it may be true what you say, but the rules between one family and another cannot be equated. I'd rather have my wife at home, get out if there's just important stuff. I don't like to see women who hang out and laugh out loud in public, as if looking for someone else's attention, it's embarrassing to me."

" That's true, but back again how can you give Arin an understanding of what you like and what you don't like. I thought that if you had given such insight, Arin would not have been able to break it. Let him have time for himself, hang out with friends, just to chat no more. As long as you know Yud, who rarely socializes, usually the stress level is higher than people who usually gather with others."