Santet's Post From The Ex
my marriage

After I officially dated, Ridho's mother always sent me food and sometimes when the mango tree was fruitful and mature he did not forget to send me the mango. Ridho's mother was so considerate of me.

I have considered him like his own son, even Ridho's mother often confided in me. Without hesitation, he always contacted me when I did not come to his house for a long time, it was because I was too busy working.He was so kind and understanding when I conveyed the reason.

Maybe because of the kindness of his mother Ridho loading my heart began to open and thought to establish a serious relationship with Ridho.

And it was my mama who always assured me that Ridho was the right person for me.

I started the Istikoroh prayer, in these 10 nights I have no dream or premonition whatsoever. Just my mom's confidence and my aba's. As well as the kindness of his mother Ridho whom I held to start this serious relationship.

My confidence grew steadily as Ridho immediately wanted to bring his family to my house to get acquainted.

I relayed that to my mama and Ridho will come in 3 days time.

in three days the Ridho family will visit my house to propose and marry.

I was told by my mother to go to the house because an important guest was coming, I ordered a cake at my subscription place, I knew Ridho's mother's favorite cake and I ordered it specifically for her.

I asked Ridho about the preparations and how the show would be, and how many people would come to our house.

Because the event was live as an engagement event and the official binders of our relationship, Ridho and I went to the jewelry store looking for a gold ring that rusted about 3 grams only. Because this is only for the first symbolic of our relationship. After I match my finger, I hand it over to Ridho again to bring him later during the engagement

Ridho will come with his parents and his budenya as his spokesperson later and who will receive it later from my family is my grandmother.

The Ridho family will come directly with the ring as a sign of our engagement and also as the official binder of my relationship with Ridho.

The Ridho family is coming this afternoon, I am getting ready to dress up and purposely take a day off work today.

I dress up in a pink dress, I want to look beautiful for this moment.

Ridho's family came and was welcomed by my family who had been waiting.

With a broken two bude Ridho conveyed the intention of his coming here and was welcomed by my grandmother by receiving a proposal from Ridho.

I was the one from earlier in the room listening to their chat and was told to come out when the parenting event was over.

I went out to call my grandmother, "Grandmother. santy, here out?" grandma called.

I went out and asked "my grandmother.is this really the woman who was proposed?"my grandmother asked Ridho.

My brothers cheered as they listened to Ridho's reply. Everyone laughed at seeing the timid Ridho so much that I was embarrassed as well.

I sat opposite Ridho. In the middle between my family and Ridho's family.

the ring handover event begins. Ridho handed the ring and its red place to me. I also wear it on my own hands.

"The Ridho family said Alhamdulillah." with a smile.

with me wearing the ring was a sign that I accepted my engagement to Ridho.

continue with the meal. My sister was busy in the kitchen preparing food to serve to guests and I helped because I prepared for my future in-laws.

After the food is ready I read out a congratulatory prayer for all of us, hopefully in the future it will go well and will be a soul mate until jannah.

the Ridho family said goodbye, not forgetting I kissed the hand of my future in-laws. The event is over I looked at the ring given by Ridho and in the next 5 months I will legally be his wife.

Now Ridho's name in my phone contact is no longer a prospective boyfriend but turned into a prospective husband.

We are getting ready to prepare for our wedding, from the start of delivery/guest, and the reception event later. Because I went ahead of my second brother I had to pay him a dowry. That's our family custom.

So if Ridho gives me a shirt, Ridho should buy it for my brother as well.

Ridho and I began to install all the items to be purchased from starting to choose MUA, invitation, take care of correspondence in KUA.

Since I was busy taking care of everything with Ridho I asked my boss to give me 2 more shiffs. And since Ridho had only one shiff 2 he could only ask for 2 hours permission to get out. The rest I handle.

time is running fast and we don't feel like we're 2 weeks away from our wedding. I started to spread out the invitations, and I started from my mama's house with Evi. Evi was also busy because his house was made a place for mothers to cook and getong royong.

I went to Mamah's house. It just so happens that Mom is not going anywhere. With a little surprise I showed the invitation to my mother.

Mamah happily accepted the invitation and promised to come to my wedding.

Mama who was like my parents happily accepted the invitation. I hugged my mom and thanked her for her help all this time. And also about his advice.

All of my friends I don't know about home or their distant addresses I sent through the inbox on the sosmed.

Today is our marriage contract event, with the dowry of a set of prayer tools paid in cash. I'm legitimately a ridho's wife. I also started my wonderful life with Ridho.