
Night
The atmosphere of the house is very different from usual, now irma will stay at home ilmi and he will be assisted by th husna, actually umar has decided to tell him to stay in the pesantren, and all the necessities, he said,and the various needs of irma will be borne by umar, but irma menolaj on the grounds "I want to live with kak umar in this house, I have not been used to the environment here" His words for a moment make umar annoyed but umar can what
Husna was preparing dinner, after praying their isya gathered at the table of eating, but there lived a scientist who had not come out of his room from last day, Umar was not allowed to enter by the scientist, nor was he allowed to enter,so it was forced to take a bath diwc kitchen was opened to the public who visited there.
"Mommy's not out yet?"annisa
"Dear not, let father call mother first yes" said umar and left
Irma who saw the perseverance and dear umar to his wife and child became inferior and said "Kak umar very dear yes to his wife and child" said irma which made everyone glanced sharply at him
"Obviously bgt umar very dear to ilmi and annisa, so no one who thinks will destroy their household, eh sorry ir, we eat first deh" said husna while insinuating subtly irma
"I do not intend to destroy their households th, I am here also because of the will of th husna and mas umar, karna it is indeed your fault,if you don't bump into my dad the person I love the most I won't be living here anyway or knowing you" irma said
"Yes I know, now you eat first"
"Owh yeah, who is this irma mom?mba irma lives here??"annisa
"Dear I-yes, irma will stay here, irma room is next to your bedroom" said irma
"Huh?mba tmn mom?I just found out that mom has tmn mba irma?dimn's meet??"annisa keeps asking
"Hum"Irma just cleared her throat, confused what to answer to annisa
"Udh yes dear, we eat first" said mas kasmin
Beside
Umar was outside his room, he began to knock on his door, but there was no answer from inside, let alone the door was not opened in the least,but umar is still loyal to continue to persuade the wife to want to eat together, karna seems like ilmi has not eaten from morning.
"Honey, we eat first well, klo kmu mah angry can be fine as long as if about eating kmu should eat, do not gk eat cmn because of this problem" said umar
"Honey, get out first" said umar
After a long time calling the wife, the good door of the umar speech was still no response from the scientist, finally umar resigned and returned the dinner shirt to eat.
"Alhamdulilah" said annisa
"Mother dimn yeah?"annisa
"Hum...ibu again not feeling well so gk can come eat together, later let kmu anterin his food keibu ya" said umar.
"Again good body also because of father kali, the feeling was good mother aja ko" said Annisa and immediately got up from the chair and collected their used dirty dishes.
Umar just breathed a sigh of resignation, without saying much because if he talked much would have hurt the hearts of others, even though he thought this was unfair to him, because if he said it would hurt more,but he also understood very well how the scientist and his son felt when he knew that he would marry again.
After finishing annisa washes all her dirty dishes,He immediately whisked the rice into the plate and put the side dishes on the rice and there are apples that have been peeled also small as a dessert and coincidentally this apple is the favorite fruit of the mother and glass white water
He knocked on his mother's room door "Mom, it's annisa"
"Yes ma'am after this annisa will go straight to sleep, oh yes ma'am, this annisa bring dinner for mom, dibukain first dong bu door" said annisa
Soon the door opened, and she immediately entered "Mom, why mother??"annisa
"What what's what"
"Annisa bawain mom ate a complete deh pokonya, there is rice, meat, fruit is the same drink" said annisa
"Yes thank you" said ilmi
"Mother why?because of dad, huh??"
"Nis nis,ibu cmn again all over, I've been sleeping there, it's malem"
"Would you sleep with mom??"
"Don't you sleep in your room, nti kak ali come home, already there" said ilmi
"You are ma'am, Annisa go first"
"Yes, go to sleep, don't stay up" said ilmi
"Yes ma'am, thou mother, good night,assalamualaikum"
"Girishal"
After annisa left, Milmi also took a tray containing rice and side dishes, she ate it calmly, while thinking "why not umar who brought this tray?knp must annisa, kewauan bgt gk dear her"Gumam ilmi
Today umar sleeps Disopa, which is outside his room, so if occasionally science opens the door of his room, umar can immediately come in and ask for time to explain it.
In that household there will be a fall and rise again, color in life does not all go perfectly in accordance with the ecfetation of man, all depends on God,the commotion in the household if it is not a matter of keungan must be because of problems outside such as the husband has the intention to remarry, cheating and others.
Moreover, facing her with a patient woman, if she was disappointed she would not come back again.
- Observe heart when with a patient person, when he is disappointed he will not come back again.
Taken from one of the stories of the Prophet's friend, Umar bin khattab r.a
'When Umar bin Khattab was scolded by his wife, he listened silently. At that time, Umar was the only human being who feared him.
But Umar just fell silent and listened to his wife's sigh. When asked the reason, Umar replied; 'He has given birth to my son, looked after and educated him. Then his anger wasn't as great as the sacrifices he made for my family.
“Not include good husband morals that is just refrain from hurting the wife but be patient with “ganggut” from the wife. Gently faced his flaws and anger. This is similar to Prophet Muhammad ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ “. (Mukhtashar Minhajul Qashidin 2/12)
*Surely the woman was created from the ribs, she cannot be straight for you on one path. If you want to be wise with him then you can be wise with him but there is a bend in him. If you insist on straightening it, you will break it. And the break is his talc.”(HR. Muslim*)