
After a variety of considerations and thoughts are quite mature finally my parents allow me to return to live in Pondok Pesantren belongs to the family of my late Abang Hafiz Husband.
And after a long conversation between Father, Mother, Umi and Abi, they also agreed to follow my will to stay with the sisters in the dormitory that had been provided.
Because after all I am only a son-in-law of Umi and Abi. I do not want to be a burden to them, nor do I want to be a gossip later if I who is only the widow of the late Abang Hafiz is still one roof with my two in-laws.
So, I prefer to stay in the dorm with the sisters.
Umi and Abi also agreed to my desire to teach at the Taman Kanak-Kanak Islamic School in the hut neighborhood.
I was also given permission to attend a TADIKA teacher brief training to add to my experience as a kindergarten teacher.
The training that happened to be held was not far from the Pondok Pesantren where I currently live.
Alhamdulillahot.. Everything went so well as I wanted.
Every time I take my vacation, I always take the time to accompany Umi and all day. Sometimes we spend time at home by trying various kinds of dishes or not infrequently also Umi and Abi invite me to go shopping for home and cottage needs.
Umi and Abi also never forbade me when I asked permission to go home to my parents when I missed them.
The distance between the Cottage and the not-too-distant Camp also makes Mom and Dad sometimes stop by for a while to just see my condition.
I am so thankful that so many people love me.
Right now I have Dad, Mom, Umi, Abi, Dorm Kids, Buk Marni my teaching buddy at Kindergarten and students who are so pretty, handsome and funny.
My activities are pretty solid now.
Full of positive activities.
Alhamdulillahot.
Today with a happy feeling I returned to teaching Kindergarten with Ustazah Mirna and Wulan.
Children are so happy to work on rabbit-shaped mosaics while joking with their friends.
They are very experienced in dealing with every behavior of children who sometimes cry easily.
I learned a lot from them.
Learn about patience, perseverance, loving work, compassion, meekness, gratitude and more.
Ustazah Mirna and Ustazah wulan are a few years older than me, they are also married.
They also live in the Pondok Pesantren neighborhood.
Their husband was also the teacher of the cottage.
Ustazah mirna is the oldest of the threes.
He has 3 children whose age has started to grow up in adolescence.
While Ustazah Wulan has only one son whose age has just stepped on 8 months.
To me they are the figure of women who always feel grateful and sincere in undergoing the destiny.
Once upon a time when the school was over, while jokingly completing the remnants of our work did a little discussion about polygamy which accidentally became a serious discussion when discussed.
"I once asked my husband this problem when we were recently married. I asked him if he had any polygamous intentions?" utstazah Wulan said.
"What does sister wulan's husband answer to?" manya curious.
"He smiled and replied, isn't it legal in religion?" he said it made me so upset." continued tazah Wulan told me.
"But after that, my husband continued his words, if he aspired to be a person like Syayyidina Ali bin Abi Talib who never intended to do polygamy even though he could." the story of Wulan again with sparkling eyes and a smile that is so bright.
Ustazah Mirna and I smiled and admired the words of Wulan's husband.