Wedding Agreements
49 Season 2
Just a moment's advice for the men who will marry the woman he loves. If you do not like to jump, do not have to read.
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"Where are your wedding preparations ripe? There's a message you want to tell me, Sen. I hope you listen to it wisely" said Ega.
"What is that, Pah?" asked Arsen enthusiastically wanted to listen to him hoping for a conversation that did not harm him.
"Papa would like to give you a little advice. Son, you will not find happiness in your household except with the nine things you give to your wife. Remember this and take care of it" said Ega.
"Surely the woman liked the man who could direct her. He loves clearly expressed words of love. Do not be afraid to say words of love because if you do not do it, there will be a gap between him and you. Women hate men of high temperament. He will serve the meek man more. Be someone who can put yourself in place because it will add love and affection" explained Ega to his son.
"The woman likes what men like, good speech, attractive appearance, clean clothes, clean and fragrant body. Be like that at all times. Do not approach him when your body is soaked with sweat and dirty clothes because his heart will reject you. If you command anything, his body will obey you, but his heart runs. The house is a female kingdom. Inside the house, she felt herself as the queen. Do not destroy the kingdom in which he lives. If you do that, there is no enemy that he hates the most, except the one who has overthrown his power," said Ega paused to look at his son what would he mean until here.
Arsen nodded in understanding.
"A woman seeks property from her husband, not harm her family. Don't ask him to identify you with his family. Don't ask him to choose between you and his family. If you force him to choose you over his family, there will be hostility in everyday life. Indeed, women are created from corrupted tulung that are cocked. It was the secret of her beauty and the secret of her charm. This is not a disgrace to him. If he is wrong, do not burden him with a burden he cannot carry. Try to straighten out his mistakes and do not break them with his mentality. Don't leave it when it's wrong so it gets crooked. However, don't be so weak after that that he doesn't listen to you. Just be with him, just be on the spot" he said.
"Women like to be ungrateful and forget kindness. If you do good all year later you make a mistake once, he will say, “There is no good in you.” Do not be burdened with this behavior so that you hate and stay away from it. Although you do not like this behavior, there are many other behaviors that you like. Women will go through days that make the physical weak and the body tired. Therefore, Allah SWT abrogates the commandments required to them such as prayer and fasting during menstruation or puerperium. During menstruation or puerperia, women stop fasting and repeat it after the completion of menstruation or puerperium. Be wise in these circumstances as Allah SWT has lightened their duty. Let you lighten it to serve you. Know that a woman is your captive, so be compassionate. Forgive his weakness and be your best friend" Arsen said.
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