Wedding Agreements
96. Sin ghibah

"I mean Umi? Why should I be careful, she's Mas Ega's mother then I should respect her," Asha said.

You do not understand his mother Ega, she is a woman who can justify all means for the sake of her own happiness. I fear that if his nature does not change then he will monopolize Ega himself for the sake of his property and separate you inner Umi Syarah.

"Umi, why daydream? What Umi really knows, please tell me so that I know and be more careful to deal with it, "please Asha.

"Umi actually does not want to demonize someone because it's a big sin what else like this Umi is the same as ghibah but Umi does this for your happiness. Ega's mother has returned to this city, all this time she married again in Paris and there she has no children, now her husband has died and she decided to come back here," explained Umi.

Why Umi knows everything while Mas Ega why not told by Umi actually past as complicated as what in the past life Asha began to be confused.

"May I ask you something?" asha hesitated.

"Just ask if Umi can answer I will answer. What do you want to ask about? Must be about your husband's past, "guess Umi.

"True Umi, I'm confused Mas Ega ever told me about his mother was also heard from his late father if his mother left when he was a toddler but why does Umi like to know everything? Do you know his mother Mas Ega?" ask Asha.

"Umi knew Ega's mother well, she used to be our protege but she only lived two years in the boarding house. He's actually still Umi's brother, Umi's niece. But we are not too close, his parents educate with arrogance when in fact he is not rich just rely on prestige alone. Already Umi does not want to discuss again, later we become more ghibah sin."

"It's okay Umi, just once. So the grandmother and grandfather of Ibu Mas Ega is still there umi, please dong Umi Syarah tell Asha the origin or at least a bright spot about his mother Mas Ega," please Asha sulkingly holding Umi's arm.

"They're gone, they died of a heart attack when they heard Ashita was out of the country. Ashita names her mother Ega while her father Ega. Asegaf took his name from both of them, while Albramata was named after his father. Wait here for a moment!" Umi's orders.

Umi knows all about Mas Ega's parents' past but why Umi didn't tell her. What makes Umi hide from Mas Ega should not Mas Ega know the truth. I have to ask Umi thought Asha while staring at Umi's back that went into her study.

Umi came out of her study room with a small white envelope whatever the contents were, Asha just looked at Umi who was walking towards her who was getting closer. From the direction of the entrance of Ega and Abah Jafar came with a greeting.

Meanwhile, Umi who knew the arrival of Ega and her husband immediately hid a white envelope containing a photo of her mother Ega into her dress pocket.

"It's back" Umi said with a smile.

"Already Umi, this is also over isya far see it's eight more hours. There was also no schedule Abah to teach so Abah just went home to chat with my grandson," explained Abah.

"Oh yes, but I still want to be alone with Asha lo, Bah. But you guys have come so less time Umi," explained Umi sitting next to Asha.

What did Umi bring? Mas Ega has come how do I ask with Umi if like this inner Asha.

"Sir Asha should never berghibah huh. Abah knows you must understand that but here Abah just wants to remind you," explained Abah who can read someone's mind.

Asha and Umi Syarah could only be silent when they heard the middle-aged man's words because it was true that they were talking about was a blessing the problem of his mother Ega.

"Is Ghibah's Crime Really Worse Than Zina?" ask Ega pretending not to know when he understands all that. He just wanted his wife to better understand the big sin he thought by asking like this because he knew his wife had a lack of religious knowledge.

Abah Jafar who saw two women who were silent to each other did not dare to look at him immediately gave advice with a little talk at length.

How heavy are the threats and sins to those who love to do charity or gossip? Surat Al-Hujurat verse 12 states that ghibah (talking about the ugliness or disgrace of others) is tantamount to eating the flesh of our own brother's carcass die off? Then surely you are disgusted by him, (Sura Al-Hujurat verse 12)."

Narrated, in the time of the Prophet SAW if there are people who do ghibah, then the torment is immediately shown, the torment is immediately shown, as happened to the two women who were ordered by him to spit out thick blood from his mouth after gossiping to his brother. As many people gossiped, as now, the torture was no longer shown. Moreover, the great sin is already considered as common and commonplace.

In fact, the Messenger of Allah has stated that the mortal sin of adultery:

الْغِيبَةُ أَشَدُّ مِنَ الزِّنَا . قِيلَ: وَكَيْفَ؟ قَالَ: الرَّجُلُ يَزْنِي ثُمَّ يَتُوبُ،

فَيَتُوبُ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ، وَإِنَّ صَاحِبَ الْغِيبَةِ لَا يُغْفَرُ لَهُ حَتَّى يَغْفِرَ لَهُ صَاحِبُهُ

Meaning: The ghibah is heavier than the zina. An

friend asks, ‘How can?’ The Prophet explained, ‘A man who committed adultery and repented, then Allah can immediately accept his repentance. But the perpetrator of ghibah will not be forgiven until forgiven by the person he hibahannya,’” (HR At-Thabrani).

Not only that, it is said that God once said to the Prophet Moses AS, “Whoever dies in a state of repentance from charity, then he is the last person to enter heaven. And anyone who dies in a state accustomed to ghibah, then he is the first person to go to hell.” Even more dangerous, in the Hereafter the one who loves to be blessed will be held accountable before God by the one whom he bows. His good deeds are paid to those whom he has wronged, including those whom he has rewarded. After his good deeds were exhausted, the evil deeds of those he wronged were inflicted upon him. As a result, he will be a bankrupt person, as described by the Prophet in the following hadith. One day, the Prophet asked the Companions, “Do you know who is the bankrupt person?” They replied, “The one who went bankrupt in our midst is the one who already has no dirhams and other possessions.” He explained, “The bankrupt person of my people is the one who came on the Day of Resurrection carrying the charity of prayer, charity of zakat, charity of fasting, but he once berated this one, accusing this one, of, eat the treasure here, spill the blood of this one, beat this one so that this one is paid for with his kindness and this one is paid for with his kindness. After his good deeds have been exhausted before all the evils have been paid, the evils of those he has wronged are taken upon him. As a result, he was thrown into hell.”

Such is the danger of hibah actions that we have always taken lightly. Hopefully, thanks to Abah's description, we are increasingly wary of all forms of actions that can erase our charity, including charity. The hope is that our charity will be saved, no one will be gnawed and accepted by Allah SWT. Amens. Obviously Abah was long.

Umi can only read a lot of istighfar in his heart while praying for forgiveness. While Asha can only help if she can no longer extract information about the mother of her husband if this is how she thinks.

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