After Wedding (Panji And Echa)

After Wedding (Panji And Echa)
CHAPTER 2


The Siraman ceremony is a procession of the series on traditional Javanese weddings. Flush is always done before starting the process of periasan bride. In this ceremony, there are many meanings and symbols that contain the meaning of life for the bride and groom. Siraman literally means "to flutter". The traditional ceremony of siraman is performed before performing ijab kabul. Siraman has the meaning of cleaning physically and mentally for the two brides who are getting married. This aims to clean up all negative things that are considered to interfere with the marriage process and kabul ijab. Flush procession is usually done at 10:00 - 15:00, a day before the kabul ijab.


Then the event began with prayer. The parents of the bride and groom do the watering process using the water that has been prepared. The first person to do watering is the father, then continued with the mother. Finally, the plaintiff who will continue watering to the bride and groom while giving blessings to the bride and groom.


At the end of the Siraman Ceremony, the makeup artist or elder who is asked will incubate the bride and groom with landha merang, santen kanil, and banyu asem. Then the bride's body will be covered with konyoh and rinsed back to clean.


After that, the couple will pray.


The makeup artist is asked to pour water from the jug that the bride and groom use to gargle 3 times. Then the bride's head will be poured by the jug water 3 times, as well as cleaning the face, neck, ears, hands, and feet 3 times until the water jug is exhausted. Then the makeup artist would break the jug in front of the bride's parents and say, "the whiskey broke the pamore".


Next the bride is brought back to the bridal room with her mother in her hand. Echa just lowered her head. Ms. Laksmi knows her daughter's heart. But he wondered what made his son so stubborn.


"Cha, I've said it a few times. Please think about this wedding. If indeed you received this matchmaking why do you feel you are still heavy, is it possible because you know Panji has come home here?" inner Bu Lakshmi.


Ms. Laksmi gave Echa a message.


Bismilbornrahmanirrahim


Assalamu ‘alaikum warahmatullahi wa barakatuh


We offer thanksgiving to Allah SWT, who always bestows His blessings, blessings and blessings on us all. Thank God on this happy day, Allah has bestowed us in good health, and more than that, we are kept in a state of faith in Him. It is precisely the innumerable true favors of faith that will lead us to the salvation of life in the world and the hereafter.


Especially for Princess Mother Theresia bint Wahyu Ramadhan.


Today is a happy and historic day for both of you. I am grateful to be able to take the steps of your life journey to the level of marriage, may it be a gateway to the happiness of your life in the future. May Allah bless and bless you both. Amin ya rabbal alamin's.


I don't think you're getting married soon. To be a wife and to be a mother. Time after time we have passed through the titian of this life together, both in joy and sorrow.


Spanning for twenty-seven years, feeling as if it was just yesterday afternoon. Event after event that we have experienced together, the feeling is still attached and does not want to be separated from this eye patch.


Sail my son, welcome to pedal the ark of your life do’a father and mother with you.amin.amin ..amin.amin ya rabbal alamin wa ya mujiiba as saailiin.barakallahu lakuma wa baraka alaina warahmatuhu lana wa lakum.


Haru atmosphere during the ceremony. Echa momentarily raised her head. After that, I felt the release from my mother. The woman who raised herself alone. A little surprised when he saw the figure of a man standing in the middle of the guests. Echa lowered her head again, realizing she was going to marry someone else.


"Why didn't you tell me in the first place that you were Echa. A little girl who's like my own sister?" batin Panji when seeing Echa is doing a flush procession.


The flashback


"If indeed I can't get Savira's love again would you accept me?" ask Panji while he is still at the factory.


"I? you think I'm that kind of a runaway?" There laughs as if forced.


"No. I knew Vira would never come back. I knew the biggest mistake hurt Vira's feelings back then. But what's wrong with us opening our hearts to each other. I'm single you're single, too,"


"No, Sir. I'm not an escape! my father approached me but my heart and mind were still on non Vira. Father hit the Pandavas in the name of personal affairs. Though the father should keep an attitude to the people who help us," There said at the time.


"Because I felt from the beginning that you were not a stranger. I feel like we've been close in the past" Panji said.


"Sir, if you knew that we were ever close. But it seems free to speak the truth. It will have no effect on you, because the world of Pak Panji is already full of Savira, the inner Echa.


Flashback off


Ms. Laksmi cried when the flush finished smoothly. She was happy that her daughter was getting married despite the outcome of the match.


While Panji is still silent even though some people have disbanded. Although Panji was happy, Echa had already gotten the right candidate. There was a subtle sense of disappointment infiltrated in his heart. He also wondered who the lucky man was to get Echa.


"You want the Panji, right?" hapa Bu Laksmi's.


"Mom how are you?" The banner immediately greeted Ms. Laksmi.


"Alhamdulillah, I am healthy wal Afiat. You're getting handsome. How are you, son? I haven't been back to Jogja in a long time. Once you came here, you must have seen Echa, right? unfortunately, he's getting married in a few days,"


"Thank God I am good, Mom. Echa is my secretary. She used the name Theresia. If only I had known from the beginning that ..."


"Eh, mother in first, son," said Ms. Laksmi when someone called her. The banner only nodded small. He also left his neighbor's house.


Just a step he was standing at the door of the house. The pennant felt a tremor in his pants pocket. D


Quickly picked up the phone which was still his uncle.


"Oh sir, how are you?" ask Panji.


"Thank God, sir hear you've arrived in Jogja."


"Yes, sir, I arrived last night" he said. He had been in the village of W for two days.


"If Pakde knows you have arrived, surely invite you. This is the Typhoon getting married. Tonight's the day after her wedding,"


"Ah, yes. Mr. Sopo said so. I'll be there in the afternoon,"


"The captain waited at home" they closed the communication.


"Eh, Mr. Sopo," call Panji to the middle-aged man.


"Yes, Den,"


"Sopo sir knows Cahyadi's house?" ask Panji.


"In the village of S, den. It was Mr. Cahyadi's son who wanted to marry non-Echa" said Mr. Sopo.


"The candidate is Echa!" he said with a surprised tone. Mr. Sopo nodded his head.


Jeez this world is narrow too!