CHASING LOVE MOTHER YOUNG KOS
Episode 36 - GO TO PSKIATER

In the morning, Dina and Gara had breakfast together at the dinner table. At breakfast, Gara recalled last night getting a message from a mysterious person. Not wanting someone to act out of his control, Gara then complained a message obtained last night to Dina

"Din, my brother arrived last night there was a phone call but my brother overslept so he didn't lift. fitting brother check brother didn't know whose number it was, and the number sent this brother to meet," say Gara

"Why don't you just call back, or reply to the message," replied Dina

"Abang does not want to go ahead there is a misunderstanding happened. So this you can check your brother's phone, brother should not be carelessly reply to the message of an unknown person without your knowledge," said Gara

Gara then handed her phone to Dina. Because of being deliberately open to Dina for fear of Dina misunderstanding. While Dina who saw Gara's phone just smiled and said something to Gara.

"Don't worry.I won't curb my brother.as long as my brother is nice to me I don't have a problem brother is friends with anyone," said Dina

"Abang now want to be open with you, brother is afraid you misunderstand and think no not about brother," replied Gara

"Bang, this half a month I feel that my brother has changed a lot.Brother has become a better person.and now I also realize that my brother betrayed me first was not entirely wrong brother. I am also guilty, if the trials in my life did not happen.I will not realize my mistakes in the past," said Dina

Because she just silently digested every sentence that Dina said

"The next half of the month until the end of the month, I just want my brother to continue to be like this. Sorry if this half of the month I always make my brother disappointed, brother has helped me a lot. and I realize maybe at this time I'm not as thermal as women in general," said Dina

"What do you mean not normal?" ask Gara

"I'm not normal, maybe I'm the only woman in the world who's afraid to see a naked man.The shadow of the evil shadow always appears" replied Dina

Because at that time understand what Dina felt. Gara became increasingly guilty of what Dina was experiencing at this time. Without thinking, Gara was determined to bring Dina to a psychiatrist. Because he felt he also needed advice from a psychiatrist in order to get close to Dina.

"Later after my brother came home from work, brother went to the psychiatrist? you know all this because of what happened in your past" asked Gara

"No no, it will definitely cost me. I will not go to a psychiatrist. The important thing is that I feel comfortable is enough" replied Dina

"Don't think about the cost. Brother a lot of money.don't worry," said Gara

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In the afternoon, Gara keeps his promise by taking Dina to a psychiatrist. Incidentally the psychiatrist Gara visited was a recommendation from Mr. Umar. Arriving at the psychiatrist's practice, Dina immediately conducts a temporary examination as Gara waits in the psychiatrist's lobby.

While waiting in the lobby, Gara heard the sound of Dina crying while undergoing the examination. The sound of Dina's cry made Gara panic and ask her about what really happened to Dina. Because who was sitting to be pacing back and forth waiting for the psychiatrist to go outside the room

1 hour later, the psychiatrist who examined Dina came out of her room. Because just asked Dina's condition to the psychiatrist.

"We talked to my administration room, now the patient is still being guarded by my assistant in the ward" replied the Psychiatrist.

"Yes Dok" said Gara

A few seconds later, Gara and the Psychiatrist were already in the administration room. Arriving in the administration room Psychiatrist tells what happened to Dina.

"After I had counselling and testing on the patient, the patient experienced symptoms of androphobia.androphobia is an abnormal fear that occurs continuously against men. but lucky in this patient's case is still categorized as moderate symptoms because patients claim to be afraid to see men naked, in some cases there are also severe, severe, androphobia patients can be afraid of just looking at it," said Psychiatrist

"What does this have to do with my wife's past?" ask Gara

"In most cases this condition is caused by a traumatic event, such as having seen people physically, verbally or once victims of rape, and can be because the factors are ignored many times can also be. This will be closely related to the fear that is inherent in the memory of the person," answered Psikater

"So far, my wife cries for what Doc?" ask Gara

"The wife of the father had told me what he was experiencing at this time.I'm sorry, I had heard a confession from the patient. whether the father was the person in question had cheated on him and saved him from the tragedy of rape?" saut Psychiatrist

"Yes Doc, I am indeed that person Doc, I need a solution from a doctor for a way to cure my wife," replied Gara

"Has your wife not accepted marriage?" ask Pskiater

"Yes Doc, I want to make my wife accept me. Nothing in my heart would hurt her" replied Gara

"This "phobia of men can have adverse effects on a person's personal life and work professionalism, therefore most people with androphobia choose to live alone without psychological treatment. Although the person can live a normal life, but may never want to know what a marriage is like, so my advice continues to make the patient comfortable with you," said Psychiatrist

"If it's comfortable for sure he's always comfortable and not afraid of the doc, even we slept together, but when he saw me just bare-chested that he immediately trembled, scared and closed his eyes. can it heal?" ask Gara

"Slowly the father can make physical contact with the patient gradually. When the father is naked try not to let the patient see the father naked when out in the bathroom, or take the patient to sleep together when the father is naked. so the patient's fear occurs," replied the Doctor

"Example advice from the doctor how do I slowly introduce my physical to my wife?" tanys Gara

"Slowly slow down to introduce the physical father to the patient, for example, can gradually start physical contact in situations of spontaneity, aka situations that do not lead to sexuality. for example, like the father of clothes off because of the spontaneity of dirty clothes due to juice, can also clean the swimming pool, and can fit the body of the father itch or the father is sick.it will be the more victims often see, the more victims often see, the duration of physical contact will increase and the patient can get used to it" replied the psychiatrist

"Thank you Doc, can I see my wife?" ask Gara

"Please, it looks like the patient is asleep.I will make a consultation schedule next month and medicines for patients" replied the psychiatrist