He's your son
You're in polygamy

All shocked by Aisha's statement, they did not expect that Aisha would reject this matchmaking. Especially his father Zul sir, because actually Mr. Zul knew that from the first actually Aisha liked Jose, and actually did not tell her to her son about the matchmaking, only they never hope because Fatma's sister never brought her children back to the village, the reason they went to school, so if you want to meet only him and his family who visit.

"Why doesn't Aisha want to? Ask her grandma. Don't like Aisha the same as Jose?.

" I'm sorry Aisha mom, grandma, grandpa and grandpa, Aisha actually eavesdropped from behind, Aisha is also a girl, she said, how sad his candidate Uda Jose has long known to hope to be his wife look not so, how does his parents feel, try buya ponder, say, baa raso heart buyya if it happens the same ambo. So Aisha broke up to refuse, because she knew in Islam that the girl who will be married must be asked for her approval, and she has the right to determine a good father for her children later, and she has the right to determine a good father for her children, that includes the rights of children and the obligation of parents to give a good mother or father to them.

"Aisha retreated first, because the child has been waiting in surau, assalamualaikum.

Silently, Jose followed Aisha to the front hall of her grandmother's house, wondering if Aisha was really saying or just her reason for leaving the assembly.

Assalamualaikum, ondeh pardon uni yes rather late, we sadang ado guest, etek Fat and his family came from Jakarta. Clearly Aisha was on her protege without being asked.

Aisha, in addition to teaching tahsin and tahfidz also educates them with aqidah and morals in accordance with the teachings and sunnah of the Prophet, incidentally Aisha is a lucky child to be able to attend Pesantren but she is not stingy to share knowledge so that all parents in her village are happy with her and send their children toddler age until school advanced over to teach on her. Even parents in their village who have a son do not hesitate to tell their messenger to come to Maryam's grandmother to come to their house to ask for a son they want to be Aisha's husband. Unfortunately none of the requests were filled Makdang Zul's family, because there was a match between Aisha and Jose and Aisha was really fond of Jose.

"Today we do not learn tahsin or tahfidz deposit yes, because today we learn female fiqh.

While Jose sat outside the door while looking and hearing Aisha teach.

Sister sister all, because at this time sister sister is already in High School, where you know there will be someone after graduation there who gets a fortune from God in the form of a companion life, it's okay, it's okay, but what must be considered is that we are ready to be mothers?, who says being a mother is an easy job, instead being a mother is a noble occupation that if we had no science it would have led to the destruction of her one generation.

"There is no mistaking a mother for her work or work outside the home provided she can put her family first, especially her husband and children, for that the mother must be understanding and smart because the mother is the first madrasah of her child.

" Let our children not know about the life of the world out there from others, the mother should be able at one time to be a mother who is ready to reprimand and advise her child when she is wrong, to be a friend when the child needs a place to tell stories, so the doctor when the child is sick, be a good chef so that the food you eat is right and healthy, be a teacher when your child wants to ask what they don't know, be a bodyguard when your child feels the need for protection, the mother should be able to be whatever the child wants.

"But there is one thing that is very important for our children to become children who are sholeh and sholeh children is to find a good father for them.

"You heard a story in the days of the Prophet Muhammad.

At once they all answered willingly, because that is what they were waiting for when Uni Aisha told me about the Prophet Muhammad and his best friend.

" In the days of the Prophet came a young boy to the Prophet to complain to his father, he said that his father had wronged him. The Prophet asked the tyranny of what his father had done to him. She said that her father did not give her a good mother, and her father did not give her a good name either. Then the Apostle asked again, indeed who is your mother, my mother is a slave and my name is jet black (if interpreted in Indonesian), and my name is black, we cannot choose from which parents we will be born to, but as we grow up we can choose a good partner for us because that is our duty and the right of our children.

"Until here we used to learn, anyone want to ask?.

" Uni, if it happens how we do it, do we have to find a new father or mother for our children?.

"Astagfirullah, Ani, divorced Ani meant?. It is a lawful work that God hates.

" In the Qur'an Allah says that a good man is for a good woman, and vice versa, so if it is already like the story, the father should free the mother of the child who was a slave so that the child gets self-esteem in the eyes of the community. Any more questions?.

"Union, if indeed the divorce is hated by God, what about polygamy, if indeed the husband wants to marry again without divorcing his wife.

" Poligamy is not forbidden and is not recommended, in the Qur'an surah annisa it is said that Allah will marry you one, two, three or slaves, so in ancient times before the Prophet got revelation, in Arabia there are slaves who can be paid by their employers without being married if married would be better, but if you cannot be fair then one is enough for you.

"In Islam, a husband's polygamy does not need to ask his wife's permission, but because in our country in addition to the Islamic marriage law we also have a state marriage law that regulates that if a husband wants to marry again there must be a written hill from the first wife who saying that the wife allows, already? If not satisfied later in the next day we can discuss about how a good household that reflects on the household of the Prophet. Assalamualaikum says.

Jose was stunned by the story and then hurriedly approached Aisha when he saw that Aisha had come out.

"Will you be in polygamy?.