MARRIED THIRTEEN WOMEN
Dilemmas
"So, Wo, have you thought about it yet?"
"Think what?"
"Will your child have a birth certificate or not? Don't you just marry siri?"
"meaning?"
"When don't you know?"
"Seriously, I don't know."
"Look, Wo, later if your child is born, on their birth certificate there is only the name of the biological mother, Wo. There is no father's name. You married Siri, right? There's no trace of it. Yes even though your marriage has many witnesses, to make a kann deed, there must be a marriage book born," explained Fadil clearly and clearly.
"Yes, Wo, it's true what Fadil said. You do not want to, later said your child is the result of an extramarital relationship. It could be okay at first and take it lightly, but in the future we do not know," continued Ozi.
Jiwo was silent. He digested all the words of his two best friends. What they say is true, a child's birth certificate is important. What happens if there is only a mother's name in their deed? Jiwo could not imagine how his son's feelings later. Got a dad but his name wasn't listed.
The birth certificate does seem trivial and many underestimate its ownership. But actually it is an important letter for the survival of a person later. Such as applying for school and so on, which usually require the deed. What else for girls. If they were to get married, then their birth date would be compared to the date of their parents' marriage. Fear they will be considered illegitimate children.
"Not to be too thoughtful, Wo. But if you consider this an important issue, you can enter your child's name into the family card at your official wedding. Of all your wives, some are married by country, right?"
"Yes, but a little while ago, you meant what, Zi? I don't understand what you just said?"
"Kan make a birth certificate, the condition must be there is a marriage book with a family card."
"Well, how complicated are you? If my son's name is entered one family card, later in the birth certificate, his mother's name is different dong? Well, how's my wife feeling?" jiwo said a little frustrated.
"Yes talk about it first, everything will be easy if it is discussed well" suggested Fadil.
"Yes, I know. But I'm afraid I hurt my wife's feelings. They sacrificed a lot. I'm afraid if I'm not fair" Jiwo replied. Now his face has changed.
"Yes, but I'm confused as to how to say it. I'm afraid to offend them."
Fadil and Ozi could only nod their heads a few times. They understand the anxiety of his best friend. True, they say, every choice must be sacrificed. In this case, Jiwo again had to sacrifice the other wife's feelings.
Inaugurating one wife into a state marriage only, guilt immediately seeped in Jiwo's heart, now he must again be faced with a choice that he thought was very difficult because he had to sacrifice the feelings of his wife back.
Seeing his best friend speech as if he was thinking about something very heavy, Fadil and Ozi also shifted the conversation to something else. Although they also continue to provide support and advice so that Jiwo does not think too much about what they were talking about.
Without notice, time has shown noon. Because they were too busy chatting, they forgot that they had been more than three hours in the bird market. Perhaps it was because those late endings rarely met, so they chatted until they forgot the time. The three men who had become the head of the family finally decided to leave the bird market and inevitably, they had to separate, return to live their respective lives.
Since his meeting with Ozi and Fadil, Jiwo suddenly became quiet. In the field, he did not talk much and only made a sound as necessary. Initially, the two wives in the field said that Mister might be tired.
But as time passed, with the afternoon approaching, the wives were astonished by her husband's attitude. Jiwo was more silent, not as usual. When Jiwo finished eating, he refused his wife's chest to be vacuumed as a substitute for cigarettes. Of course the wives ask, what happened to their husbands.
"Mister why the hell? Did something happen on the market?" aisyah asked as they were gathering and Jiwo was sleeping since three in the afternoon.
"Yes, Mister is weird. Usually every abis eat too he will immediately greedily sip our twin hills, eh just now he refused? I am a sodorine" complained Arum.
"No, nothing happened that I thought was bad. Just, earlier, since Mister returned from the bird market with two friends, Mister became like that. Silence mulu," on Alifa.
"Maybe they're talking about something very serious or they're fighting?" terka Andin's.
"I don't think so" Alifa hesitated.
"Rather than we assume it's not clear like this, it's better after dinner, we ask Mister what happened, how?" anisa's Proposal.
"Agreed!" another exciting compact.
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