MEANING OF FRIEND Actually...
chapter 15

"Why not makhrom?" Ask syafira.

"Because we're women... He is a precious creature and most guarded by God. Only the makhrom can touch and possess us... The family from the father up, and the family from the mother up. Including husband and family husband upwards. But mostly and often, it's just the times that make ourselves cheap. Even worse, it seems cheap. We as women can choose. So expensive women, because we are valuable... Or be a cheap woman, for which there is no price..." Syafina.

"But if you can... Be a woman like a pearl in the depths of the ocean... Precious and admired for its beauty and privilege, but not just anyone can touch it... Only the luckiest can have it." Say again.

"But let us never think of becoming a rose by the road. It's beautiful in the eyes... It was so beautiful that everyone could see it, admire it, and even touch it at will... And worse, anyone can pick and have it... But after the withered or the durinya pierced the picker's hand, it will be thrown away and thrown away." Say syafina again.

"So far, have you understood bestie...??" Continue with questions.

"Emmm... A little in shayah Allah has." Syafira.

"The point is... We as women are obliged to guard ourselves from various kinds of slander of the world... Because we women are the source of all slander. Everything we have is slander. That is why God commands us women to close the law perfectly... To be protected from what is called slander and adultery. Remember and make no mistake! Zina is not only the one who has intercourse with the opposite sex that is not halal. But zina is a lot of things..." Syafina.

"For example, if we meet our opposite sex... It is recommended that we lower our eyes. Because by staring at the opposite sex, or even looking at each other it can cause eye adultery... But yes, not only us, but also our opposite sex.if we have really subdued the view, but have not been able to subdue the view of our opposite sex... It is likely, then, that something is wrong with us... Especially in the clothes we wear. Might as well... It could be that our clothes have properly closed the aurat, even shar'i... But the clothes we wear are even striking and coupled with patience... It's the same with bo'ong. Because it could still make our opposite sex stunned and fascinated to see us..." Syafina.

"What is tabarruj?" Ask syafira.

"Tabarruj is... Women who preen or decorate themselves if out of the house to show their beauty to the opposite sex who is not their makhrom." Answer syafina.

"Oohs... All right continue." Syafira. Syafina also nodded.

"But if we women have closed the aurat, dressed in inconspicuous shari'i, are also unpatriated, and do not invite the attention of the opposite sex, then that is the right one, and in shayah allah fits before Allah.and in shayah also, the reward that will be with us... No more sins...!" Syafina continued her speech which had stopped due to the question of syafira.

"And Tapiii... There's a tapi again, bestie... We apply it not because of man, but because of God... Understand ra..." Syafina asked syafira.

Syafira nodded and spoke...

"I mean??"

"I mean... If we apply it all only because of man, that is, because of a compliment. But if we apply it because of God, then what we get is praise and also reward from God." Syafina.

"If suppose it still remains in praise of humans, how is it?" Ask syafira again.

Don't ask about shafila, he only occasionally nods and shakes his head. Because he was just focused on listening.

"If it is a matter of that, it is a matter of man himself. If we really intend because of God, then only we and God only know..." Syafina.

"If not the other way around? Already not getting praise, but even the scorn and bullying that we get. How's that?" Ask syafira again.

"Oh yes na! You say zina is like that... What is it anyway? All I know is that adultery is just having sex with a partner who is not kosher. Apparently there are many... What is na?" Ask syafira.

"As I said! Subject your gaze to the opposite sex, so as not to cause adultery. The zina eye. Wh why?? Because from the eyes, it can propagate to the mind, because always and continue to think about it. Thinking of the opposite sex that is not lawful to us, then be an adulterous mind. And crept again into wanting to hear his voice. So be the adultery of the ear.., and so on... The peak is in our brain... If there has been a small zina zina, then the desire arises in our brain accompanied by whispers of shethan that can lead to greater zina." Syafina.

"Allah has said in the Qur'an, which means. 'and do not approach adultery, (zina) it is a wicked deed, and a bad path.' (QS. Al-isro', verse 32). God has forbidden us not to approach adultery... Approaching is prohibited, let alone doing so. So far have you understood my bestie...?!" Further.

' it seems I have misunderstood him first. It is fitting that Aulia often reminds me of my clothes... But I was instead indifferent as she was about to tell me the details... Huuuuf.

' do I have to change my appearance?! But I was not ready. ' said shafira in his heart as he grimaced.

"Rara lala, you've heard me talking about that...?!!!" Syafina exclaims for not getting a response from her two best friends.

"This is allah ustadzah..." Syafira and shafila cried after awakening from his daydream, and interspersed with jokes.

"Damn... You're this! Don't really know...?! Do not let later even enter the right ear through the left ear. It's not funny... I'm the one who prattles here until frothy, even not in the slightest bit with you, and you also don't understand at all..." Say syafina while advancing her lips a few inches.

"Hehehe, yes yes bestie... Sorry yeah... In Allah I know a little..." Syafira.

"Thank God then." Syafina.

Syafila just smiled while nodding.

' do I have to ask about women's clothes as well as nana? Yep... It seems like it is, it must be! ' shafira.

"Emmm... Na's!" Call syafira to syafina.

"Yes ra? What's up...? Is there a question? Is there anything you don't understand from my words?" Ask syafina.

"Ah no... If that was in Shea Allah a little bit I understand. I have something to ask you soaal___"

'Allahu akbar....'

Syafira speech is cut off because there is a sound of adhan omens the creator 'allah' has called his people to meet and call only to him.

"Lelanjutin later the question yes ra... Answer the adzan first..." Syafila and agreed on by his two best friends, especially shafira.

'Allahu akbar's... Allah Akbar... Laa ilaha.....'