
They end up spending time to find the right food location, spending time enjoying dinner while telling stories together, sometimes heard laughter from Hayat whose life is clearly filled with deep cheer.
She is not the type of girl who likes to take a headache about something, her life is clearly filled with the words enjoy and happiness.
"Now let's talk seriously"
suddenly Ahem spoke after they finished their meal and was just enjoying the orange ice in front of him.
Hayat frowned, she stopped sipping the orange water and removed the glass in front of her.
"All right"
the girl answered quickly.
"You know Life? I'm not the type of guy who likes to beat around the bush, but I'm not the type of guy who's impatient and not the type of guy who's forced"
Ahem started talking seriously.
"i mean with every word of my Life, there's not a single lie that lies there, Mari's getting married and I'm ready to accept the consequences by canceling your marriage and Lucas"
Now the man was talking earnestly as his eyeballs looked towards Hayat so deeply.
"there is not a single lie in my heart right now and I speak from heart to heart, I mean it and am not in a state of playfulness"
Life was still silent, trying to look inside Ahem's eyeballs, he then asked.
"of so many girls why should I?"
in the end Hayat asked, she wanted to listen to Ahem's reason for choosing herself over other girls.
"There are all sorts of considerations that I've thought through carefully, one of which I think is that you deserve to be the mother of my children and my wife"
Ahem answered quickly and steadily.
hearing Ahem's words Instantly Hayat developed her smile.
"I've never been serious about talking to any man, the only person I've spoken to seriously is my fiance, Lucas. there are several factors that make me hesitant to make him my husband so far, do you want to know?"
in the end the girl spoke very seriously, she removed all her spray and also her seriousness when dealing with the man before her.
hearing the speech of life that looked very serious immediately nodded his head.
answer Ahem slowly.
"When choosing to marry I want a man who can be relied upon, because for me a man who can be relied upon is a person who applies according to his words. He does not like to make empty promises, to let others wait without certainty, or to be inconsistent with his principles. Because a girl like me looking for a partner is the same as looking for inner security in my future husband"
Hayat started talking to Ahem.
"therefore it is important for me to get a man to be a reliable and responsible person. Mature-minded women know that having a reliable husband means they will have a partner who is always ready to help, always (at least trying) to keep their promises and on time, and can be a backstop when they need support."
"For many men are irresponsible and difficult to rely on today, when unmarried when their lover tries to lift heavy objects such as gallons, for example, men will say *baby be careful, let me do it* but after marriage you know what the husbands say? *I'm busy, you won't die just from lifting a gallon* or even they may pretend to be blind and deaf because they think their wives are wonder woman or cat woman who are all-rounders"
Hayat looked a little snort, she did not let out her smile at all.
"After that we need compassion, here I am talking about positive attitude, empathy, and kindness here. "
Hayat shows Ahem's chest.
"The dream of every woman is to have a good husband and a sincere heart, because this type of man is usually an understanding, forgiving, and wise figure. He will not be a selfish husband, instead he is a good listener and always tries to attach importance to the needs of others above his personal desires"
"And I want a Loyalty and faithful husband"
Hayat was seen staring in Ahem's eyeballs.
"At this time not a little husband is not loyal to his own wife, even a cheater cheater because of the lack of faithful words"
Hayat tried to catch her breath.
"Tell me, what does a marriage without loyalty mean?"
The girl asked seriously, Ahem decided to continue listening without answering Hayat's question at all.
"A faithful man will always cherish his wife and marital relationship. He will stick to his commitment to always be loyal to his partner, even when faced with temptation though. That way there will be no divorce, being loyal to each other is one way to show and give an example to our children later on about how to build a strong and lasting household. because actually if you have chosen a loyal husband, a woman will calmly go through the days because she knows her husband will always keep the feelings and will not hurt her. As a married couple, they will always try to improve their relationship, not necessarily end it when faced with problems."
"i'm looking for such a partner to be my life partner, not just to get married without commitment and rely on sweet promises, are you able to do it and make me happy? do not say yes, because not a few men outside there who have a sweet mouth at the beginning, but end bitter behind"
Again Hayat spoke as if giving emphasis to Ahem about his criteria and his will.
"I'm not a criteria girl who likes to give tolerance, I'm free and move as I please Mister, when disappointed I easily leave anyone who disappoints me, but when I really love something, when I really love something,ye know? even I would die for it"
"So before really trying to go any further with me, think back to what I wanted, I won't hesitate to let go if you lie to me and disappoint me, but for whatever sake I can love to die to you when you treat me like a queen
"This is not the selfish nature of a girl, but this is a wife's wish for her future husband, a father's wish for his daughter, his, my daddy would definitely say the same for my happiness if you asked him for his blessing"
after saying so Hayat stopped her words, the focus of her eyeballs continued to settle towards Ahem without letting go at all and she waited for an answer from the man right now.