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Explanation

Assalamu'alaikum 🥰

Author is back in attendance to greet brother all of them

May we all be in the protection of Allah SWT, congratulations on fasting for those who celebrate it.

May in Give health and smoothness in carrying out fasting and other worship.

In this chapter the author wants to explain about Alex's love story.

The story in this novel will be a variety of plot because here tells the story of 4 Bastard men in finding their true love.

The author deliberately made Alex's story like this. Different from the others, honestly the author feels sad to read the news in this day and age.

Many children and women are victims of sexual violence. In fact, there are those in toddlers, so upset the situation around us now.

That's why the author wrote Alex's story like this because it was inspired by news.

In Alex's part, the author wants to tell how strange the lives of abuse victims are. There will be severe trauma that they feel.

Likewise with their healing process that is not as easy as words and reverses the palm of the hand.

Shame and mental distress make the victim not a few who end his own life because of his depression.

There were also those who turned crazy, there also became quiet.

Not a few also managed to rise from the slump because of the many support from relatives.

Not infrequently also victims of sexual harassment do not get justice. 

There are various types of $exual disorders including pedophiles, sodomy and many others.

While the disorder suffered by Alex is called sadomasochism.

Here are the causes of sadomasochism.

Appearance of Pleasure When Feeling Pain

Unlike someone who will actually stop having sex when feeling sick, masochists will actually feel more satisfied if the intimate relationship is done increasingly cause pain. This condition of course involves two people who both like acts of violence in intimate relationships so that sexual satisfaction is obtained more optimally.

The party that gives pain is often referred to as the dominant party or sadistic party, which will give pain or punishment to the couple by hitting, snatching, binding, and much more. Meanwhile, the masochist or recipient will feel a sensation that is so thrilling when receiving the pain. In fact, this pain will not infrequently arouse sexual desire.

There is a Mental Trauma

Health experts state that sadomasochists are included in sexual disorders caused due to psychiatric problems. Generally, abusers who love sexual intercourse in this painful way tend to have psychiatric trauma as children or are in a period of growth. The main cause of this trauma is having experienced sexual abuse in the same way.

Even so, studies that study cases of sexual disorders are still not much done. According to the American Psychiatric Association (APA), the limited research is due to the non-uniform definition of various health experts. However, an APA psychiatrist, Ellis Weinberg, sadomasochists tend to position themselves as masters and slaves or teachers and pupils.

Frequently Receiving Rough Treatments in the Past

Trauma is the leading cause of sadomasochism. One of them is because they often receive rough treatment from parents when they are young. This treatment will imprint and carry over into adulthood, so that the person is not impossible to do the same to a partner, especially when having sex. Eventually he became a sadist, and hurting his partner became an irreplaceable satisfaction.

Bring Revenge

In addition to trauma due to rough treatment or sexual abuse, triggers someone suffering from sadomasochism can also be due to revenge on someone. Preferably rough treatment, this revenge is also carried into adulthood and will be channeled by certain people or even all partners. This is what needs to be watched out for, because revenge does not make someone able to think clearly when doing something.

Teenagers are very vulnerable in the wrong relationships, especially if supported by family conditions that are less harmonious. This can lead them into negative associations, one of which is by liking to do violence to others. If not addressed immediately, this will be carried away by the time he has intercourse.

Such is the author's explanation.

The author hopes that you are all still loyal to Alex's story, because this story is really author made because you feel sad about the heartbreaking events that happened to some of our brothers.

Now victims of abuse are not just women, but children and men as well.

The author hopes that with Alex's story we can all learn and take his lesson. That rising from past trauma is really not as easy as the word.

Especially if the victim lives in a toxic environment. How many women who become pregnant out of wedlock are forced to abort because they are told by their families and relatives.

Not a few they choose the path to end their own lives.

So, if there are friends or family who are victims. Don't stay away from or be blasphemed.

Let's embrace them so that the victims can rise from their slump.

Hopefully the message that the author wrote implicitly in Alex's part is conveyed to all the brothers.

For parents, please take good care of their children. Teach them which parts of the body to touch and not to.

Do not let those who are small in touch his assets by unscrupulous persons they are silent because they do not know that it is wrong.

Teach early, tell them who can touch their privacy. 

Now the abuser is not just an outsider, insiders can. 

Frequently ask children about how their daily life when meeting new people. Let us know what steps we should take in the future.

That's all the author wants to say, sorry if there is a wrong word that says 🥰🥰🙏

If there is one of the brothers all who are victims, one word that only the author can say is SPIRIT 💪💪💪

Believe me, you are great people who have a strong mentality because they are tested with different tests. Never be ashamed and feel dirty, believe that everything will end.

There will be happiness that God gives to you in a different way. It could be in the world of older siblings tested with severe tests.

But later on in the afterlife you become the happiest person because you have been patient in facing the test.

Tell me in your heart that it's not just your sister who's being tested. Every human being must be tested according to his ability. If you feel your test is more severe, be proud that you are a strong person in the sight of God.

For all of us who are being tested with various problems. Pray to God to strengthen your back, not lighten the burden.

As the age of the back gets weaker. However, if the back is strong, will be as heavy as his burden surely we will be able to pass it all.

The most important thing is to involve God in every time you want to solve a problem. Because it'll be easier.

Once again thank you for the reader of the faithful of the🥰

Salem Aneuk Nanggroe Aceh ___🙏🥰