
“It's normal, like Ryu said from the start. Ryu just pity him, therefore Ryu always help him,” Ryuga explained according to what he felt.
“Then it is very clear that it is not love, but a form of caring or a form of affection for fellow humans,” said Julia concluded the situation that Ryuga experienced.
“What's the difference? Isn't the same, love comes from love and affection causes love,” said Ryuga who increasingly does not understand.
“Sayang is a feeling that can be addressed to anyone, while love is a feeling that can only be addressed to a special person specifically, such as, one of them with a lover or person who is considered in a relationship with the opposite sex,” explained Zhia.
“What you and your Mom say are both true! While the meaning of love itself is desire, while love is a need. So it is only natural that there are feelings of jealousy and belonging to the feelings of love and affection more sincere and broad without other essences beyond those feelings.” Julia also made clear Zhia's intentions.
“Ryu, there are at least five things that distinguish between a person's feelings of love and affection. Do you want to hear it?” ask Zhia.
“Emmm, .. I can't wait to hear it,” replied Ryuga who looks very enthusiastic.
“The most obvious love and affection difference is the scientific involvement of hormones in a person in a relationship,”, said Zhia who began opening her class.
“In the feeling of love then involves the hormones dopamine and norepinephrine are increased than before. In the feeling of love will appear tense, happy, euphorian, until aroused, It is also thanks to the involvement of sexual hormones such as testosterone and estrogen in the body that increases,” continued Zhia explained.
“Means?” ryuga asked for more explanation.
“Now do not be surprised if when falling in love someone may be strange or act, his face becomes red blushing, even his body temperature rises to be warmer. This is a hormonal reaction in the body that occurs when someone starts to like and eventually love someone. This hormonal reaction does not necessarily occur in feelings of affection alone or the reaction form is not as big as feelings of love.” Zhia explained.
“Aaah, .. Ryuga understands this one! Because sometimes Ryu saw Mamah's face look blushing when looking at Papah. Likewise with Grandma, but the most often blushing lately is Brother Lucia,” said Ryuga who managed to catch an explanation from Mamahnya.
“Like that, later if the time has come you will also meet someone who will make your cheeks blush every look,” said Julia who smiled anxiously with the behavior of Ryuga.
“Then what next, Mah?” asked Ryuga who looked impatient to hear the continuation.
“The next thing that distinguishes feelings of love and affection is a form of longing. Actually both can involve longing, but the rate and purpose are different,” replied Zhia.
“If you love someone it will be difficult to face longing, as well as longing based on affection can still be understood. So the obsession with longing is different between love and affection. Missing can sometimes be an unhealthy situation in a relationship,”.
“Especially if the longing can interfere with daily activities to be less productive because it feels longing that is difficult to control. People in love will usually feel homesick and difficult to control these feelings,” continued Zhia again.
“Simply, Papah continues to force Brother Luca to become Ceo to replace him. And told the three of us to get big fast, it turned out that the goal was to always spend time with Mamah like Grandpa and Grandma,” said Ryuga who indirectly found the reason for his Papa always told him to quickly grow up like Luca.
“Hahahaa, .. Your papah told you like that?” asked Julia who was not inexhaustible with Rayden's behavior that turned out to never change.
“Iya, even almost every day when Mamah is cooking in the kitchen,” Ryuga replied with confidence.
“Ouhya, Mah! Continue again,” pinta Ryuga back on the main topic.
“In people who are in love, time is an important thing that someone has even many who call it expensive.” Zhia continued her subjects.
“That calculation will not take place in a relationship involving feelings of love. A person tends to give time to loved ones. Feelings of love can make someone willing to take time for the sake of someone who is loved, can not even get tired of spending a long time,” continued Zhia.
“However, the priority on affection is not very visible, because in this feeling we are more sincere and sincere. So we do not need to give up a lot of time to care for affection because this feeling is usually based on a more general need.” Zhia added.
“Like Papah,” said Ryuga spontaneously immediately thought of his Papah attitude.
“Hahahaa, .. Why is your Papah again, Ryu?” asked Julia who was completely powerless to hold back her laughter, because Rayden was always mentioned as an example.
“Indeed like that reality, Grandma!” ryuga replied with a plain look on her face.
“Perhaps this fourth difference you can mention another example, Ryu!” said Zhia who could only smile, because what Ryuga said was absolutely true.
“What is it, Mah!” ryuga is impatient and increasingly curious.
“When someone falls in love it will tend to idolize his figure first to drop hopes beyond the admiration.” Zhia explained.
“He will be easily amazed at our loved ones by taking good care of all his forms. Unlike the affection that can still think objectively using logic. At least feelings of affection are based on empathy and emotion because of certain things,” Zhia added.
“Ouhh, .. Ryu knows who it is! Brother Lucia! Right, Mah?” Ryuga mentions Lucia as an example.
“Why with Lucia?” This time it was Zhia who asked the reason.
“I heard from Uncle Felix that Kak Levi used to be a severe playboy who changed women every day. Not to mention his nickname as a psychopathic boy and god of death. But Lucia always sees the bright side. Once upon a time, Lucia mostly drank, all night full she kept telling about all the goodness of Kak Levi to the three of us,” Ryuga explained who will always remember that time.
“Really? When is it?” Julia was also curious.
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