
[It's not a matter of merit or inappropriate Tia, but it's a matter of what the neighbors say. You are young and virgin, when he got a widower, later the neighbors will visit us continue] Mother replied with a voice that sounded heavy, from behind the phone.
[And who wants to take Tia, not Mom's neighbor,] When Mom has one reason for me to try to understand what Mom's decision is, then I also have a way to convince Mom that everything will be okay. Well, I'll try to understand to Mom that Mr. Gala is good, and also not sneaky.
[Well, what you're saying is there's a point in you going through this household, but when you're talked about here, I hear you too, even the most heard and the ears are hot is Mom so you do not talk like that, because good and bad you parents who bear it," said Mother, and what was said by the mother was true.
Now I can't relax hearing Mom's answer, before I was very happy when I was going to tell her that there would be a man who would marry me, where my family had very much hoped that I would get married, but after hearing the answer from Mom, I became doubtful, because it was a sign that Mother would not approve of my relationship and also Mr. Gala.
[So does that mean you don't approve of me marrying a widower?" ask me with a soft voice, I'm more and more hopeless if indeed my parents do not approve of that sign maybe I'm not a match with Mr. Gala, he said, moreover, the relationship between me and Mr. Gala is also not impregnated by Mr. Gala's extended family.
I rubbed my chest and tried to calm this increasingly erratic feeling, I really tried to be patient and accept whatever it was, she said, I will try to accept even though Gala and I have no soul mate.
[Mother doesn't know, you try to ask your father, if you approve of your relationship even though your future husband is a widower, what can you do, what can you do, there is no way that Mother will stubbornly not approve and disagree with you, while your Father agrees with your relationship," said the mother who was the sign I must be patient to wait for the Father and chat with the Father, to ask permission from him.
[What time do you think Mom and Dad are done from the garden?" I asked, again I was made curious about what would happen later if me and you asked for blessing.
[At least, I'll say you call, let me call you, '" Mother replied, in a voice that sounded like Mom didn't quite match my husband's choice, but this heart has fallen in love with Mr. Gala so that I can not be silent and resigned just like that. I have to try again, if you also object to the sign I have to legowo.
[Ok, well ma'am, if that's Tia saying goodbye first, and please tell Mr. that Tia is waiting for a call from Mr. Tia,] I said in a voice that remained excited even though the answer from my mother was enough to make me less excited.
After I made sure to Mom, if you came home from work then she would call me. Though I have not communicated with the Father but honestly I am more and more unable to do anything, in my heart, I have returned to prepare rejection like mother earlier.
I should probably call Mr. Gala immediately, to tell you about the blessing that you didn't give, especially I didn't approve because my future husband was a widower. In my heart even fear that the relationship I and Mr. Gala fought for is not as sweet as I imagined. I'll be disappointed again. I went back to silence.
I lay my tired body on a soft bed, how not to be tired, lately I can not rest in peace. Especially now coupled with the rejection from Mom will be the mate I choose.
Before I picked up the phone call from Dad, I was mentally prepared. Inhale deep breaths and throw them slowly to prepare any answer from the Father.
[Hallo sir, I told you what Tia wants to talk about?] ask me in a weak voice, even I seemed to lose hope, when the old Father gave an answer. Maybe this is indeed a sign that I have to go back away from Mr. Gala, about love, not that there will definitely be a replacement when I re-open this heart.
[Tia does not force the Father and Mother to approve the choice of Tia's heart, if indeed the Father does not approve of Tia, then Tia will not mind, Tia will not marry,] I said with a resigned tone.
[What does your husband do? What makes you want to marry her, and what age is she a widower?" ask the Father, like giving new hope to me. I rubbed this chest, as a sign that I was quite relieved by your answer.
[E... Tia's future husband works in Pak's freight expedition, and he's just a regular employee, and what makes Tia want to marry him is certainly because it's good and not nice, and he's just a regular employee, if he is thirty-nine years old, ] I replied, I don't want my parents to know that my future husband is a rich man who can buy anything with money and make expectations too high for Father and Mother, better they know because Mr. Gala is good and responsible.
[Thirty-nine years, your difference is fourteen years Tia? Is that age not too old with you?] asked the Father in other words he also did not agree I married a man who was too old for me.
[Wouldn't age not guarantee sir, Tia's future husband she's more mature and also more able to guide Tia, that's why Tia likes her because Tia is like her sister, kind and responsible.] This is my last move and it's a sign that Father did not knock also the door of his heart I have given up, will no longer try to ask for the blessing of the two, the sign is that I have not been a match.
[Where do you want to get married?] If you can not in our house, if at home parents of your future husband want, then it is better there, because here the neighbors, a little bit julid, a little, if you like it as you please. Let you go to your future-in-law's house so that we don't have any strange words, ] replied the Father in a resigned tone I can't even say anymore, although a little nyesek but at least I get the blessing of both my parents.
[What does it mean that you bless Tia with marriage to a widower?] ask me to make sure again. I felt like a new spirit. When you say something.
"Yes, I hope you're not stubborn."
Seriate....
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