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"What's clear is that we're not my own and we're not going to break the rules, are we ?" Atna asked with a happy smile at the head nod by Kelly while smiling at Atna.
This is the reason why the Minangkabau community strictly forbids my marriage.
Narrowing Intercourse
People who are my own blood people, have the same lineage that has been established by the Minangkabau figures and scholars who are famous for their genius. “Ibaraiknyo codo surang se mah Male to ‘Iduik’ or cano surang se mah padusi nan kambang”.
Creating Unqualified Descent
Medical science says quality offspring if the offspring is produced from parents who have no blood relationship at all. The offspring born due to the same blood relationship will experience physical disability and mental retardation (due to genetics).
Disrupt Psychological Child
Psychological children will be disturbed due to racist treatment and ostracized by their peers and even the village. This is given the absence of parents in the family and society.
Loss of Rights Indigenously
Couples who marry my neighbor will be ostracized by his tribe, not allowed to sit in his tribe and also not accepted by other tribes in the region or Luhak (region). In fact, their former seating will be washed by the public, this illustrates how bad they are in the eyes of the public. Men who make mistakes lose the right to hold positions (upholding sako) found in the Indigenous Trainer system. While women will lose the right to all tribal heritage. Couples involved “membilang” as, Like the pulp, Impacted into the sea not eaten by fish, Impacted onto land not eaten by chickens.
Carrying Material Losses
Although in Minangkabau customs prohibits same-sex marriage, Islam does allow it. Marital sasuku referred to here is a relationship and marriage/marriage conducted between men and women Minangkabau is still a relationship of one tribe (one clan).
For example, the A married to the B who both have the Jambak tribe one penghulu or different penghulu. The Minangkabau custom never forbade marrying one another, but the custom forbids. Between banning and forbidding is different. Marrying someone is lawful, but minors do not do it because of some things and considerations.
Of course, it is not arbitrary Minangkabau leaders or scholars make this rule. Must have considered the good and bad sides and not violate religious orders. If there are more harm or bad side, it does not matter prohibited, because it is not forbidden by religion. It becomes a problem if something is forbidden by religion but is legalized by custom, and it does not exist in the Minangkabau custom.
Marrying someone according to Minangkabau's legal logic is not good. The punishment if violated is moral sanction, excommunicated from association. Not only the person who does it, but the big family also gets its prey, making a disgrace because of our temper.
In addition, there is also a myth circulating in Minangkabau that has been believed to be hereditary that the marriage of my parents will bring disaster in the household later.
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