The Three Sweet Dads
Inara

"Sorry again Auntie, so Inara's not a aunt's real child?" ask Lasa. It turns out that Lasa just found out the facts about Inara. And what makes him interested is the process of adoption of Inara by Bu Salma.

"Yes, he we adopted from the Kasih orphanage. We decided to adopt Inara because she was so different from the other children" Salma said.

Ms. Salma smiled, her lips drawn a few inches. His memory glared away eleven years ago. Where she and her husband are one of the donors of the Orphanage Kasih where they found Inara.

"Look at the boy!" Pekik Salma, he pointed to a girl who may be 12 years old is busy parenting some toddlers. The joy clearly plastered on the girl's face made her heart full.

Bagas also turned his head towards the direction the wife pointed, his eyes staring at the jelly. After finding what he meant, he looked at his wife. Their positions face to face with Bagas looking into Salma's eyes, "You're interested in him?" ask Bagas.

Salma then nodded slowly, her face gloomy. And Bagas understood the wife's feelings. How not? after ten years of marriage there is no sign of a tiny baby coming into their lives. Bagas exhaled slowly, seeing his wife like that made his heart feel what Salma was feeling. But instead of adopting a baby why would his wife have danced on that twelve-year-old little girl?

"You want to adopt that little boy?" ask Bagas, and nod slowly from Salma as the answer to his question.

"Alright," said Bagas, as soon as their smile was filled with Salma, his eyes sparkled.

But apparently, adopting Inara is not an easy thing. Ever since Inara found out she was about to be adopted by a couple made the child act mischievous. He even once pranked Salma and Bagas. Of course it makes the couple amazed, because the girl is famous for her behavior changed drastically like this.

They continued to persuade the girl to come with them but, again and again the girl refused and even her behavior was rampant every day.

Until one day Salma found out the reason why the girl changed. The girl changed because she did not want to leave the toddlers she cared for. He loves his little sister so much. And the next fact is that it turns out they are not the only ones who want to adopt Inara. Many couples before Salma and Bagas wanted to adopt Inara however, as her mischievous attitude led the couple to step aside to adopt her.

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In the forecourt of the orphanage, thin grass grew to fill the yard into a pedestal for the children of the orphanage when playing. The rambutan tree complete with a swing that hangs becomes Inara's favorite place to be alone. After putting his sisters to sleep (toddler orphanage) he chose to enjoy the breeze during the day while thinking about his future.

He stared blankly ahead, his feet treading and swinging so that the swing he sat moved. He thought about his unguided future. Will it be in the future? what should he do to achieve his dreams? Yes, he has a high dream but, can he achieve it? being a home child makes him sometimes discouraged. All he could do was hang his high dream in the sky, if he could not hold his dreams then he would give his dream to God and let God hold it tightly.

Then his foot retraced again, stopping the swinging swing when an adult woman stopped in front of him. His eyes twisted in a puff, how not? when many couples who immediately refuse to adopt it on the grounds of his naughty attitude, however, different from the woman in front of him. Why did this woman insist on adopting him? please, anyone tell the woman that she still wants to be here, accompanying her sisters.

He let out a rough breath, "Tante, how many times have I said I don't want to come with aunty, I still want to be here! very surprised with aunt, I was a naughty aunt, na-kal!," he said, pressing on the word 'rogue' he even stomped his feet to the ground, his face sour unfriendly.

"Today, my aunt met a kid who said he was naughty. If it's naughty, don't even talk," the woman looked at him with a mocking look.

Huh ...

He just sighed. Indeed this woman in front of him had a thousand and one ways to approach him. If he had to be honest, he was actually interested in the woman who wanted to adopt him this time. He is gentle, patient, motherly, and different from other couples who only want to adopt him because he is being kind. The proof was yesterday that he bullied this woman and her husband, but they still want to adopt him. Should he accept? but what about her sisters they must be very sad? then should he ask the biggest reason why this woman in front of him wants to adopt him?

"Aunty, is my adopted aunt's offer still valid?" he asked and immediately the woman in front of him smiled sweetly, the clear eyes sparkled, even glazed.

"Yes still son." the woman stepped her foot closer to him, the woman wanted to hold him but, stop, "wait a aunt! what's the reason aunt adopted me?"

"Because aunty loves you so much, even though aunty has no children yet, because you auntie feels how to be a mother. Do you know how worried your aunt is when she sees you crying alone in the barn? next time don't be like that. Don't cry alone, while you always share your happiness. If you are sad, share that sadness. Not everything always seems to be okay. And you know how scared a auntie is when you're not in the parlour? Aunty is afraid you run away or adopted first by others it feels like aunty is scared. "clearly the woman even a clear liquid dripped on her cheeks, he said, making Inara immediately rise up remove the liquid and tightly hug the woman's waist in front of him. Now he felt how sincere the woman he was hugging was. Even the woman knew that she was crying a lot, which no one else knew but the woman whose waist she hugged knew.

"Well my aunt will, forgive Inara tan .. "he said still hugging tightly to the waist of the woman in front of him.

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Approval from Inara has been obtained, the caretaker was happy to allow them to adopt Inara. Although heavy when they remember so extraordinary Inara, a twelve-year-old boy but has mature thoughts.

It is time for Salma and Bagas to take care of the required documents. As a COTA many documents that they must complete. Bagas was surprised, because there were so many documents that they had to take care of.

A total of twenty-seven documents, which contained several statements from COTA. An example is the statement that the entire family of COTA is aware of the CAA's appointment by COTA, and there are still many statements that COTA must make. Health letters from government hospitals about COTA health, some COTA and CAA identities examples are marriage certificates, KK, COTA deed ID cards and other identity documents, among others, the CAA birth certificate and many more. They were even told to make a police record letter (SKCK).

No wonder why so many files are used, the rise of violence on children, the lack of children's lives, the sale of adopted children, even the sale of their own children. Make the government tighten the files that must be completed by COTA and ensure the identity of COTA. Several visits will be made by the foundation to ensure that the CAA gets eligibility for its life.

Bagas and Salma who saw the list of files needed were stunned, it seemed that one month was not enough to prepare everything but, for Inara's sake they would complete all the files needed.

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COTA: Prospective Parents Lift

CAA: Child Candidate Raise

FYI

27 Documents to be prepared when adopting a child from a foundation or orphanage :

Application for Child Appointment permit to the local social agency

A Healthy Certificate of COTA from Government Hospital

COTA Mental Health Certificate from Mental Specialist Doctor from Government Hospital

Certificate on the function of the COTA reproductive organs from Obstetrics and Gynaecology specialists of Government Hospital

Copy of COTA birth certificate; 

Local Police Note Certificate (SKCK);

copy of marriage certificate/marriage certificate of COTA;

family card and COTA ID;

copy of CAA birth certificate;

income statement from COTA workplace

CAA approval statement letter on paper stamped enough for children who have been able to express their opinions and/or the results of the Social Worker report

the COTA motivation statement on the paper is sufficient to state that the appointment of the child is in the best interests of the child and child protection;

the COTA affidavit will treat foster children and biological children without discrimination in accordance with the rights and needs of children on paper with sufficient stamps

a statement that COTA will inform its adopted child of its origin and its biological parents with due regard to the readiness of the child

COTA Statement Letter that COTA is not entitled to become a Marriage Guardian for female foster children and authorize the guardian of the judge

COTA Statement Letter that COTA to grant Grants some of its property for adopted children.

Letter of Adoption Approval from the COTA Family

 The Raised Child Candidate Social Report created by social workers of local Social Institutions and social workers of Panti/Yayasan.

Event/Enlightment and Power Newsletter from Ibu Kandung Party to local social Agency.

Event/Delivery and Power Newsletter from Local Social Agency to Panti/Fedayasan

The Raised Parent Candidate Report was made by the social workers of the local Social Agency and the social workers of the Panti/Yayasan.

Child Care Permit from Provincial Social Agencies

Letter of Child Care Agreement between the Foundation/Report and COTA

Letter of Submission of Children from Panti/Foundation to COTA

Child Development Report created by local Social Agency social workers and Panti/Foundation social workers.

Birth Certificate of the Child Candidate

Photos of prospective adoptive parents and prospective adoptive children.

Author ngeriset this from some of the men who adopt children guys .. indeed a lot of documents needed wkwkwkwkwk😂😂 even earlier said, it is better to make your own than to adopt. But whatever the choice, all must have their own reasons 😌, right?