A SOUL FROM THE SKY
CHAPTER 24. Understand Science

..."And Allah loves the Persons of Patience "...

...(.(.Ali Imran -146)'s...

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Truthfully, not much is known is Tama who has also been fasting for a long time. How not he who is an adult man with all kinds of his establishment has never once done a husband and wife relationship.

Although the potential and opportunity always Tama get, but it all does not necessarily make Tama use it to become a Casanova.

Not once or twice Tama had a relationship with the opposite sex, but never once to exceed the limit, although not infrequently many women who ask Tama. Genuinely and willingly offer it.

Found the wife was unlucky right on her first night, really it made her mind tormented.

But that does not necessarily make him angry and disappointed, because Tama clearly knows how the cycle of a woman finding her menstrual.

Although only a fingertip of Tama's understanding of Islam, but in the world of health Tama certainly very understand if it is not allowed to seng gama when the wife is finding her menstrual.

Relationship husband and wife is one of the activities that have many benefits such as improving the health of the husband and wife, maintaining household harmony to have the value of worship in the presence of Allah SWT.

But having sex during menstruation is not only prohibited in Islam, but also has a high health risk from the medical side. 

Sexual desire can come at any time even when the wife is menstruating. But making love during menstruation is not a good idea to get pleasure, given the danger factors that lurk.

In Islam, there is a proposition that says that Allah SWT clearly prohibits intercourse while menstruating. Of course this prohibition is not only limited to sinful but can also endanger the health of husband and wife

From a medical point of view, associating *** during menstruation can also pose a bad risk. The worst side effects of**** during menstruation can even lead to death.

The prohibition of intercourse in Islam is stated in Al Baqarah verse 222 which reads;

وَيَسْـَٔلُوْنَكَ عَنِ الْمَحِيْضِ ۗ قُلْ هُوَ اَذًىۙ فَاعْتَزِلُوا النِّسَاۤءَ فِى الْمَحِيْضِۙ وَلَا تَقْرَبُوْهُنَّ حَتّٰى يَطْهُرْنَ ۚ فَاِذَا تَطَهَّرْنَ فَأْتُوْهُنَّ مِنْ حَيْثُ اَمَرَكُمُ اللّٰهُ ۗ اِنَّ اللّٰهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِيْنَ وَيُحِبُّ الْمُتَطَهِّرِيْنَ - ٢٢٢

Meaning:

“And they ask you (Muhammad) about menstruation. Say, “It was something dirty.” Therefore, stay away from wives at the time of menstruation; and do not approach them before they are holy. When they are holy, meddle with them according to the (determination) which Allah has commanded you. Verily, Allah loves the penitent and loves the one who purifies himself.” (Al Baqarah verse 222).

The verse comes down when a friend asks about the intimate relationship of husband and wife when the wife is menstruating. After this verse comes down, Muslims are forbidden to have sex until menstruation has cleared.

Scholars also agree that the law of having sex when the wife menstruates is haram that incurs major sins. Because the verse clearly states that the husband and wife abstain from intimate activities in the meantime.

Through the book of Bidayat al-Mujtahid by Abul Walid Ahmad Ibn Rushd mentioned that Imam Malik, Imam Shafi'i and Imam Abu Hanifah argued that the couple should immediately ask forgiveness to Allah SWT.

It refers to a hadith that reads, “A man received' his wife who was menstruating, if it was done when his wife's menstrual blood was red, charged a fine of 1 dinar, and, whereas if done when the blood is yellowish, the fine is 1/5 dinar." (SR Tirmidhi).

Meanwhile, having sex during menstruation based on medical views namely:

There is modern science that proves that there are dangerous factors when it comes to*** during menstruation or after dirty blood stops but is still in the menstrual period. Therefore, the new wife and husband are allowed to have sex after the wife purifies herself with water.

There are also other health hazards that can be life-threatening, such as experiencing blockage of heart blood vessels. Endometriosis to genital disease can also occur due to having sex during menstruation.

To be honest as a doctor Tama clearly know the types of drugs that can delay menstruation in women, it was a little he regretted why the other day did not ask Nissa. But self-conscious about his status that is not anyone for Nissa, of course it is taboo to question.

The first night that will eventually be delayed, did not become a list in Tama's hopes, but in the end he got it, of course he had to fast and resist temptation until the time of breaking it.

A while passed Tama was finished with Ashar prayers. During Tama prayer, Nissa used to go out of the room to prepare food.

"Eat first doc" said Nissa

Tama got up from her seat, walked over to Nissa who was carrying her a tray full of food.

"This much ?"

"For both of us doc" Nissa said in a soft tone.

"Why not just eat out ?"

"Pig. Abi asked to take it, because maybe the doctor was tired and wanted to rest" he said again.

Tama smiled to find genuine attention from his wife and also his in-laws. Although he is still minimal in the science of religion, Ustadz Hamzah is very understanding and does not even make fun of or compare himself with most of Nissa's brothers who are certainly good at religion.

The two eat together, but this time Tama is really very spoiled because he feels he can not break his fast with Nissa, Tama asks Nissa to serve her with another form as Tama is currently asking Nissa to feed her.

Not until there is real her, Tama also did the same thing, giving Nissa a bribe for the sake of a bribe, although occasionally Nissa refused it, of course it was for reasons of presumptuous.

The two dissolve in a happy atmosphere, although it is still clear in the view of Tama Nissa who often subdues her face because of embarrassment, so Tama must touch the chin of the wife to want to look at her.

It was certainly a funny and adorable moment for Tama.

"Doctor want to rest first?, bada Isyak Abi asked to go to the mosque"

Although both are , but Nissa will only accompany the husband in the courtyard of the mosque, of course it is because Nissa is menstruating.

"Em I better get some rest"

"May rest but don't sleep" Nissa said

Tama had heard the advice, but did not understand how she learned, and now Nissa told him.

"Why can't you sleep ?"

Having little questions about her husband, Nissa patiently gives an explanation of what her husband does not know.

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