BETWEEN QATAR AND JOGJA
MIDODARENI AND FLUSH
FROM SEDAYU ~JOGJAKARTA, YANKTIE CONGRATULATES READING THIS SIMPLE STORY
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Today Aurel is fitting clothes with mom and dad and Bagas at home, four days before her wedding. Grandfather was only expected, because he couldn't come today. After Aurel's house, the WO people will meet Rajev's family at the hotel for fittings there. Yesterday Aurel had tried the Indian clothes that he would use when Ijab later.
Aurel still can't believe she's getting remarried. Do not doubt his loyalty to Radit. Radit remained in his heart, but life had to go on. And he didn't cheat or leave Radit.
One of the considerations of her marriage to Rajev was to make Radit's children happy because they needed a father figure. Tarida's mother, whose birth mother Radit encourages him to get to life soon, why must he continue to cry about the departure of Radit who will not be able to return?
H-2
Since morning the Sebayang family home has started to get crowded. The seller to install the tent has come because Bagas asked for daylight is ready to be neatly installed. Wedding parties and parties are not held in this house. But later tonight there will be the study of fathers and mothers simultaneously. Although the study is not done under the tent, still in anticipation there is still a tent installed in front of the house.
The fathers sat on carpets that were deliberately titled on the terrace and garage, while the mothers sat on the carpet inside the living room and living room.
Dad and Grandpa are hosting the study tonight. As usual all the food was prepared by cattering and cake from Aurel's own shop.
All begged that Aurel and Rajev's marriage was always happy and there was no disaster or third person.
For the Sebayang family, Aurel is part of their extended family. Like Tarida's mother who already thought Aurel was her daughter, not her daughter-in-law, as well as Sebayang's extended family.
At ten o'clock last night, the study was over. The clean-up team immediately does its job because tomorrow morning another ritual will begin. Everyone should be ready without hindrance.
“Pak Ujang, please coffee and cigarettes for all who work do not get less yes,” Bagas as a commander in the house is always watching all things. He did not want the names of his mother and grandfather to be damaged because there was a shortage in serving workers.
H-1
Busyness in the Sebayang family home is increasingly visible because later in the day will be held a flush event for the bride-to-be.
This morning all the families who stayed busy had their own breakfast. It doesn't mean the same as usual. Who wants to eat please. Food is available at the table. Everyone can take it right away. Of course because many people, so many who eat at the same time.
“Mbak Yun and Mbak Well main tasks pay attention to children yes. Other business if the ade-ade needs to be taken care of, yes the number of other affairs. Number one remains children.” Aurel always reminds her two babysitters of her child. He doesn't want the kids to be forgotten.
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Siraman means to cleanse yourself to become a holy inner birth. The procession derived from the word flush is carried out one day before the wedding. Bathing the bride-to-be is done by parents and gals who are considered successful in marriage. It means that the bride and groom get the blessing of happiness in a long-lasting married life, as well as parents and elders. Basically the number of sprinklers is not limited as long as it is odd. But so that the bride and groom do not get cold, the person who does the flush is limited to seven to nine people.
This ceremony is usually held to release the single status of a woman, so it is necessary to carry out self-purification before going through the marriage stage.
At the time of this traditional ceremony, a bride-to-be bride will wear traditional Yogyakarta clothes called basahan clothes. Wet clothes consist of batik cloth typical of Yogyakarta that only covers the chest, kemben, and stagen.
Usually not only the bride, the groom-to-be also holds a flush procession at his residence. Usually there will be a messenger from the family of the bride-to-be who brought water flush; many guardianship to be mixed into the water flush the groom. But the Wicaksono family did not ask the Kumar family to do so.
Aurel was moved to feel the love of his entire extended family. Completed the traditional ritual flush Aurel immediately drink hot ginger so as not to fever. He also tried to take a nap so as not to get sick at his wedding tomorrow morning.
Rajev and his family saw a watering event that was sent live by the documentation officer to the hotel where the Rajev family had gathered.
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At night the Wicaksono family performed the ritual of MIDODARENI event. Derived from the word widodari or bidadari. This procession is a practice of concern for the bride-to-be in the face of her marriage tomorrow morning. The bride-to-be just sits quietly in the room accompanied by her mother and close relatives who are all women, until midnight. That is why tonight Aurel can not stay at the hotel where ijab kabul will be held tomorrow.
Midodareni is also associated with the legend of Dewi Nawang Wulan, the heavenly angel who promised to come down to earth to visit her daughter, the night before the wedding. The Goddess wanted to give blessing to her daughter, and bestow beauty until the bride-to-be looked different than usual.
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After the dawn prayer Aurel immediately went to the hotel in the company of a budenya. Others can be rather relaxed leaving a bit later in the day. Aurel has to be early in the morning because she'll be in makeup starting at seven this morning. Aurel had breakfast in a hotel room that would make a dressing room for her. After breakfast, he began to. That's when his sister-in-law's future brother-in-law walked into the room.
“Assalamu’alaykum sister-in-law, have you had breakfast?” ask Amishaa softly.
“Wa’alaykum greetings Kak, I have breakfast. Is Brother already?” aurel asked as she received a kiss on the cheek from her future sister-in-law.
“This Brother wants to go to the hotel dining room, but deliberately turn to your room first. I wanna see you. Also I want to tell your fairies to make you more beautiful,” brother Amishaa then talk to the fairies in Malayalam. Because perias are brought specially from India.
“Sister stay first yes, your future husband has been chatty calling Brother, Brother knows for sure he wants to talk to you, but Brother will not let it happen he he he he,” brother Amishaa deliberately did not let Rajev talk to Aurel before they met in front of the penghulu later. Let Rajev feel what he and Vijay used to feel.
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