BETWEEN QATAR AND JOGJA
SAH BECAME THE WIFE OF RAJEV AAKAANKSHA KUMAR
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Then Rajev and Aurel face each other, the traditional guide or perias touching raw chicken eggs on the forehead of each bride. Then the egg was dropped on the rectangular box until it broke, hoping that the two brides immediately had a good baby. It was accidentally seen in a broken egg that contained two egg yolks.
[In SOLO WIIAN, Pemaes takes a chicken egg which is then touched on the groom's forehead first. Then the chicken egg was also touched on the bride's forehead three times.
After that the chicken egg is broken at the foot of the groom and the bride washes the groom's feet with clean water. This washing reflects the form of devotion of the wife to the husband so that the household is happy and harmonious.]
After being helped by Rajev, the two are now doing the next procession, KANTHEN ASTA. In this procession the two brides stand side by side and join hands while hooking the little finger, the woman on the left and the man on the right. The two brides then walk together to the location of kabul ijab will be done.
“Wah mesra ya mas Rajev and mbak Aurel who intertwined hands by hooking the little finger this time. May in their married life, they always be friendly and happy. Aamiiiin,” back MC continuously tells what can be done by the bride and groom this time.
On his wedding day Rajev wore a maroon-coloured SHERWANI, which is the customary dress of Indian or Pakistani Muslim nobility. Sherwani is the epitome of luxury or social strata. While everyday he often uses only Kurta if he meets his Indian relatives.
Aurel's wedding dress was maroon and gold. Very beautiful Aurel with Indian Muslim wedding dress this time. Vienna and Murti who have come to be fascinated with the wedding of their boss.
Rajev looks very nervous because for him this is his first marriage. This feeling he did not experience when he married Ainayya. And he was married using full Indian custom.
Amishaa helped her future sister-in-law sit together near the ijab table. On his left is Tarida's mother and on his right is Wicaksono sir who will act as his biological daughter's guardian.
In Indonesia, ijab-kabul is carried out by shaking hands, another case in India. The ruler whispered the words to the man and ended with the consent of the witness. Of course what is done now is what is commonly done in Indonesia,
Penghulu is indeed in a special message speaking to all those present in English so that both families understand equally. The ijab will begin immediately.
“Alhamdulillaaah” said Aurel in his mind when he heard witnesses say SAH. She is now the wife of Rajev Aasikansha Kumar.
“Alhamdulillah ladies and gentlemen. We have witnessed the marriage of Aurel and Rajev. So from now on no more rumors they are still not officially married legally religion and country.”
“Furthermore please we start the installation of wedding rings, starting from the Rajev mas who pairs the ring on the ring finger of his wife's right hand, he said,” Rajev also followed the instructions of the MC pairing the wedding ring on the ring finger of Aurel's right hand.
“Beautiful once the ring has been installed in the fingers of the mbak Aurel. Of course, being tied up in marriage is not only Aurel's mother, it is time for Rajev's mas to be tied up. Please mbak Aurel put a ring binder on the ring finger of the right hand mas Rajevnya,” Aurel has since wanted to protest with the name mas for Rajev, but the bride and groom protest anyway? He also focused on pairing the ring on the ring finger of Rajev's right hand.
“Now please both brides show off the ring on his finger for photo, do not forget to show off your sweet smile,” MC commands both brides take pictures with wedding rings on their second finger.
With a sweet smile Rajev and Aurel pose with fingers in front of their da-da. There are also some who show off their wedding books.
“Furthermore before stepping on the show of sungkeman for parents and the gistens, we first witnessed the first kiss of love from mas Rajev after they officially became husband and wife. Mas Rajev please kiss his wife's forehead. Please do not be too fast so that the photographer can capture it well,” now Rajev is given orders by the MCs.
“Mbak Aurel and mas Rajev, now we start with SUNGKEMAN ritual yes. In Javanese, “SUNGKEMAN yaitu pinanganten nyuwun pangestu marang wong tuwa.” That is, both brides ask for blessing to both parents.”
“This ritual aims that when they have lived both lives can get the blessing of the Almighty because they have received the blessing of parents. Please note that Javanese culture strongly emphasizes mutual respect, especially to older parties. In terms, sungkeman itself has the meaning of a sign of respect and devotion. In the context of marriage, the service is aimed at both parents.”
[Then briefly MC read out the meaning of the Sungkeman ritual: “So, it can be said that in addition to simply asking for blessing, the custom also aims to apologize if during being a child still has many mistakes. In addition, there are still some other meanings that are certainly very deep.
SUNGKEMAN is an effort of self-awarenessHuman is indeed a place of error. This ritual has a deep meaning, namely as an effort to realize that mistakes must have been made, both by children and parents.
That is why many predecessors said, “Tujuane sungkeman yaitu nyadarno crew marang salah” which means waking up to the mistakes of each individual. So, because its nature tends to be universal, it is possible that other regions have the same ritual just different names.
SUNGKEMAN is a means of humbling heart, the mistake is not to look at age. Even the older ones make mistakes. Therefore, this ritual becomes one of the humbling means that regardless of age, both parties must still humble and get rid of their respective egos.
On the one hand, a child will often make mistakes. So also with parents, starting from how to educate, how to give reprimands, and so on.
And SUNGKEMAN as a form of gratitude. After undergoing the marriage process, the couple will run their own household without the interference of the other party. It can be said it is a form of “parting” between the child and his parents.
Therefore, at this ceremony gratitude is realized by the bride because since childhood to adulthood has been very good care. Without their affection, it is possible that the journey during this time will not go well.]
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