
"Daddy won't take away Dilara's happiness, will it?"
Ozvit asked his in-laws again.
"I know Daddy was angry and disappointed with all the circumstances, with Beria's aunt's past treatment"
"We know how Daddy feels now, feeling angry, hurt, and disappointed is very human. Everyone must have felt it because it is part of the embodiment of emotions"
"But that doesn't mean we should let those feelings continue to grow, right? Don't cultivate all hurt feelings into resentment"
“Daddy know? the pain of the heart begins to become unnatural if it hinders our daily lives. If we don't try to forget, we think about it all the time until we don't focus on anything else"
"And even worse if we become thinking about taking action to get revenge.”
"Having a grudge is the same as keeping negative feelings inside us. As a result, we lose the ability to see things from the positive side. What's in our heads is just a variety of ways to take down an opponent"
“When the mind is filled with various ways of bringing others down, it does not mean we are thinking creatively. Instead we fail to develop ourselves because our minds stuck in the problem continuously. If so, how can we think ahead? grudges will continue to descend endlessly"
"People who hold grudges always try to find justification for their actions to hurt others. He will tell about the ugliness of his enemy until others think the same as him. When others disagree, he will choose to dodge.”
Ozvit tried to explain many things to his in-laws.
"Imagine if Daddy separated them, still holding grudges at this time, Denish would feel disappointed and hurt and then develop into anger and resentment, he suddenly lost his mind and was desperate for revenge"
"Then in the future it could be that Daddy's grandson also felt an extended grudge against Denish and his family, then there was revenge again"
"Then imagine how many victims would feel tormented just because of the grudges of one person? generations are non-stop"
"Imagine how the fate of innocent people will be Dad?"
"Daddy wants to make Daddy the same as Aunt Beria?"
"Don't make Daddy the same as him"
"There is one example of how the defeat of Muslims at the Battle of Uhud became a separate record in history"
"In a story is stated, at the battle on Mount Uhud, 64 people died from Anshar and six people from among the Muhajirin, including Hamzah, the uncle of the Prophet SAW. All the Islamic soldiers had their limbs cruelly torn apart"
"In fact, when Hindun bin Uthbah (wife of Abu Sufyan bin Harb) saw the dead body of Hamzah who was lifeless, he approached with hatred. Then he cut his chest. He's got his heart out. He chewed it and swallowed it"
"Then said the Anshar people, “If we get a win, we will do more than what they do.” (HR At Tirmidhi from Ubay bin Ka’ab)"
"In another account, when the Prophet stood before Hamza's body, he said, “I will kill 70 of them as they did you” (HR Al Hakim and Al Baihaqi in Kitab Ad Dalail and Al Bazzar of Abu Hurairah)"
"What the Ansharites and the Messenger of Allah expressed implies a desire for revenge. They assumed at that time, what the enemy had done had exceeded the limits of humanity's fairies. So, according to them, it should be reciprocated with a proper reply"
"If necessary, be met with even more cruel recompense. However, it turns out that in the view of Allah vengeance it should not be done by Muslims"
"In Allah's view of vengeance it should not be done by Muslims"
Allah says, “And if you give a recompense, then recompense it with a recompense equal to the torment inflicted upon you. But if you are patient, it is better for those who are patient. Be patient (a Muhammad) and be not your patience except with the help of Allah and do not grieve over (affrighteousness) them and do not constrict your breasts to what they deceive. Verily, Allah is with those who fear Allah and those who do good (QS an-Nahl [16] :126 -128).
''Whoever leaves a quarrel when he is wrong will be awakened to a house around heaven. And whoever leaves a quarrel when he is right, a house will be built for him on the middle floor of heaven, while whoever sets up his morals, a house will be built for him on the highest level of heaven,'' (HR Abu Daud, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah and Baihaqi).
Ozvit stared into the old man's face who had seemed silent since, hearing Ozvit's words carefully.
"The Reality of Forgiveness Is Hard, but know that Dad is a Way of Peace with Various Wounds"
Ozvit continued to hold the palm of the man in front of him, hoping that his in-laws would no longer prolong all kinds of problems until the aftermath of endless revenge.
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Note \= Sources of knowledge and history from the Republic Documentation (Qur'an Studies) .
Hopefully useful to add to the knowledge of the beloved readers.