Genius Child: DEMI GAURI
CHAPTER 47. EMOTIONAL CONTROL

Hospitals.

After Ghazwan's departure, Efendi greets Faroha and sits before them.

"Male or female is the same, a big responsibility for the parents. Educate to be salih, muflih, muslih and mufti. Don't distinguish gender" Efendi's message to Farshad reminded Faroha of her desire.

"Beik, Buya" replied the son-in-law.

"But still, the leader is good from the men" said Faroha, still with a flat face.

"Depends on which angle he sees it. Sayyidah Fatimah 'the female leader in heaven, Queen Balqis, even Nusaibah the shield of Rosulullah, Ning Sheila, Ning Imas. Afwan, do not dwarf women, Nyai," said Efendi asserted the position of women is equally noble in the eyes of God.

Just a long sigh that Faroha showed, he rose towards the door leaving the room.

Efendi got up and moved his seat to the side of Eiwa's bed. Calming her son who just fought life gave birth to Feryla into the world, now agitated because of the attitude of the in-laws.

Faroha recalled the chat with Eiwa before choosing the girl to be her daughter-in-law. In addition to a more beautiful and promising posture, Eiwa also looks very confident and mastered various theories to get male offspring.

His only son said he wanted to propose to Elea but the mother wanted to bring Eiwa to be the daughter-in-law of the Khalif family.

Seeing Faroha's departure, Eiwa shed her tears on the father's arm. The second daughter of Efendi was up to a sigh of excitement because of his rejection of Feryal later.

Farshad helped calm her but instead got her daughter up. He chose to hold Feryal and stand beside the cage.

"Everything has not been proven, Eiwa. Don't worry too much. Your mother-in-law still does not refuse his presence .. later there will also be a time when Feryal will make him melt, like Gauri," said Efendi, stroking his daughter's head. He remembered Gauri, why the boy was so adorable.

"Gauri is Kay's son, not Elea." Eiwa denied the facts.

"Gauri was Kayshan's niece. Your sister-in-law is single, not a widower" Efendi said, breaking down a hug as Eiwa calmed down a little.

"Eh?" Farshad surprised. Kay looks mature again established turned out not a widower.

"Already, do not be horrified to talk about people, let alone think of affairs that are not your realm, just care about Feryal. Think of Faroha's attitude as a test of your household's biduk," added the owner of As-Shofa alternately saw his son and daughter-in-law.

'El, like Kay is your taste now?'

Farshad lowered his gaze to his daughter's tiny face. There is a bit of unwillingness Elea has married even without her knowledge and presence.

If Eiwa is curious about Kay's family response, another thing with Farshad's brain content. The man wanted to know Kay's background until Efendi accepted it.

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The next morning, Ghazwan.

Kamala heard Gauri's deafening cry, she was shoved towards the grandson's room on the second floor. The little boy was beating up the nanny and was getting tantrums when Elea arrived.

"Non! No, just calm down, Non!" persuade Mbak, holding Gauri's hand so as not to hit her again.

"Yahoo!" gauri shouts, as Elea carries him.

"No, stand up good. I can't hit it" said Elea. Shepherded Gauri to the corner of the room to stand there.

"No! Evil cat!" gauri shouted, instead of hitting Elea.

"Slow down her voice, Salihah. The cat, really," said Elea, pointing at her ears.

Kayshan came in after Kamala. The two scramble to hold Gauri but in Elea's way.

"Please don't carry it first, Gauri needs to be calmed before the tantrum is severe" Elea said, stretching out her arms.

"Pity Gauri, El. Let's be with mama" said Kamala.

Elea stood in the way while glancing at Kayshan for help. The man who was still wearing a sarong and cocoa then prevented his mother.

"Ma, let Elea go."

Gauri's rampage became increasingly, Kamala was worried not a bitch but Kayshan actually pulled him out of the room. She debated her son but Kay hugged Kamala tightly so as not to interfere with Elea's efforts.

"No, stand up good. Slow down her voice, mother dreadin, Oyi want to say what," said Elea again, repeating the command line.

After a few dozen minutes. Gauri's anger subsided, though her breathing was still hunting, she stared intently at Elea, clenching both hands on the sides of her body.

"It's quiet? can you speak well?.. If so, come here," said Elea, opening both arms to embrace Gauri.

The fat boy came back crying even though it was not tight. He did not return Elea's embrace of the sign still covetous with her Lele.

"Why mukulin Ma'am?" elea asked gently as she rubbed Gauri's back.

"You're wearing a dress."

Elea looked at the floor by the side of the bed. Dark blue mini dress, with jeans and short-sleeved t-shirts stacked against each other. The ayu woman understood, Gauri occasionally dislikes being forced even though usually the child is indifferent.

"Today wear a blue tunic and trousers. No dress, how?"

"No! Dress!" Gauri shouted again, she even pulled Elea's hijab.

Elea tried to remove the boy's hand from his hijab. "Well, can you talk slowly? mother would give Oyi the same choice."

Gauri nodded, though in the end she pinched Elea.

"Can't pinch, mukul or other, deal?" said Elea again.

Kayshan peeked out from the doorway, as did Kamala, they were curious the Gauri tantrum could subside in such a short time. Usually when it is raging, Kay will carry and make herself a samsak for the nephew.

Despite Gauri's neglect, Elea kept talking. "If Oyi had asked well Ma'am, not to hit, kick or pinch, would have been allowed to wear a dress, then the mother changed the dress to a blue tunic and trousers," said Elea.

Gauri revolted, objecting and starting to hit again, but Elea prevented him by holding both hands.

"Wouldn't you? okay, now the choice is the blue tunic of trousers or short shirts and shorts?" firmly Elea.

Silent.

Tantrum, a sign of the child's emotional management is not channeled properly. He did not really want that but was confused about how to convey the heart correctly.

Elea teaches punishment as well as solutions. Not giving an initial wish because Gauri must understand, if he behaves badly, he will miss the opportunity and must be satisfied with the second choice.

"Wouldn't wear clothes? all right, let's stand in the corner, until Oyi knows that attitude just now is not good," Elea asked, pulling up the boy in her lap.

Gauri insisted, but Elea sat him there. Kay's niece snorted and stared intently at Elea who was about to leave her.

"Leave first. Let Gauri understand, not everything can be obtained with emotions. In order for Oyi to understand, how to convey objections well without hurting others ... also learn to admit his mistakes," Elea said, to Kayshan when she was leaving the room.

"Don't leave dong, El!" kamala Exclamation.

"No, really, Ma. I can see from the reflection of the mirror" said Kayshan's wife, sitting quietly on the front floor of Gauri's room.

Kayshan sat down beside Elea for a while while Kamala chose to go down to the pantry to prepare breakfast for her granddaughter.

"Mas, from today Oyi should be reduced to consuming carbo and all that is sweet-sweet. That's one of the causes of tantrum and hyperactivity. Today I want to meet with nutritionists and Herbalists at RSPP doctor recommendation Amaya, later all ask about Oyi deh," said Elea, glancing at Kayshan.

"Put it? ... I'm with you, yes" said Kay.

"Being on calories ... No need, later if the control, hopefully not until it must be Hemodialysis. I also have to record food that can make a drop and vice versa," added Elea, began to worry about her condition again.

"El, don't do it, ah. We're going to China, yuk. Proper control," Kayshan asked.

"Where is the hospital the same, Mas. I just want to be healthy, will be worse or not 'will be his destiny," continued youngest daughter Efendi, smiling at the husband.

"But, El!"

"Ssssst, already."

When Ghazwan's partner was discussing Elea's health, suddenly.

Gauri appears in the doorway carrying Elea's chosen clothes. Her head lowered, hair was disheveled, the tiny mouth was like a dry cherry that snorted, making Elea laugh amusedly at the action of the child.

"Here, Salihah."

The boy looked up at Elea's face and then went back to sobbing, hugging Lele and leaving her clothes on the floor.

"Good girl's. Daddy is happy to see Oyi this way," said Kayshan, stroking the head of his nephew.

"Well, where's Oyi's fault?" elea asked, still clutching and stroking Gauri's back.

"Can't yell, mukul, pinch Maak, have to talk well" he whispered.

"Maa sya Allah, pinter .. reward from mother, let's dance together and wear a couple dress and then school ushered mother, would you?" said Elea, while rewarding Al Fatihah and rubbing into Gauri's chest.

"Eh." Gauri nodded quickly accompanied by a cute smile until her toothless teeth were seen.

Kay helps Elea get up from holding Gauri, while Kamala only watches from afar, the interaction between Elea and her granddaughter as they descend the stairs.

"That's it, El, the way to conquer Gauri" murmured the mistress of Ghazwan.

"Good morning, everybody!" someone's voice was heard from the living room.

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