Lonely Bar Man
Everyone Already Knows
[Dirga: why don't you ask Sintiya?]
[Mother Halimah: I just want to know from you son.]
[Mother Halima: like her you guys are so close?]
[Dirga: yes buk, we are close.]
[Mother Halimah: do you like my son, sintiya, son?]
*Deg*
(Dirga: how is this? has Sintiya told this relationship to her mother?) inner dirga.
[Mother Halimah: son, sintiya is close to the mother. He even told me all about it.]
[Dirga: yes ma'am, I like sintiya.]
*several minutes*
[Mother Halimah: I believe in you, son. Please keep sintiya yes.didikan him slowly. He's still in puberty.]
[Dirga: yes buk. In shay allah.]
[Mother Halimah: if there's anything, tell me about it. Share your complaints with each other]
[Dirga: yes buk, thank you very much]
A few days later, everyone here, the cottage, the school and some of our friends knew about our relationship. So there's nothing to cover up. Even nyaih buk and Pak Kyai already know.
It feels very happy, although rarely communicate but can meet each other. Even if for a while, sometimes stealing views .
Even the synthia mother often helped me in times of difficulty, even, the cost if I did not have once, her mother often gave money. I refused, actually not very good. But because it is forced, it is forced. Each is sent (a kind of parental visit to his or her child). I must have never passed. Even if I am busy, often my friends replace my work because they are sought by both parents sintiya.
Sintiya has a younger sister, named Hilma who is 11th grade 5 Elementary School . They were very close to me, and looked at me as their own son.
We have been through a few months.
perceiving, better continue like that until there is no separation.
But from my family.
My mother asked that I take her to the village when I get married. Sintiya cannot.
[Dirga: deck.]
[Score: yes bang?]
[Dirga: there is something I want to talk about.]
[Score: yes bang, please]
[Whatsapp call from Bang Dirga]
[Dirga: Hello assalamu'alaikum]
[Sintiya: salam walaikum]
[Dirga: directly on the core of his deck]
[Score: yes bang]
[Dirga: deck, will you someday be able to come with me to the village? when married.]
[Score: ...].
[Dirga: hello, deck?]
[Sintiya: bang. This is heavy for me]
with a heavy sintiya sound, yes he is very heavy to determine his choice of this .
[Dirga: deck, if I get in touch with a girl, she should be able to take me to my village to live there. Because my mom said I was my dad's replacement later.]
[Sintiya: bang, my mom is an only child. He has no sister or sister, a brother like a cousin is very far away. I do not want to leave my mother.what else my mother if there is anything certain to me and my sister]
Dirga: (god, how is this? what am I supposed to do?)
On the other hand all the family already know that, dirga is in a relationship with sintiya, some families agree and some do not. They will agree if sintiya really can be taken home to the village later.
Even the ending of the phone, Dirga had time to contemplate himself. How not? He loved sintiya and hoped that sintiya could be brought to the village later. But what is power. Everything is in the decision of sintiya. Dirga can't force sintiya. Whatever the decision sintiya. Dirga will accept her .
And to the next day, sintiya often ignore me. I don't know what my own feelings, but real like that. Even his friend did crazy things, he followed along. Actually I've been advising her, but she didn't respond . So it's up to him already.I can't force someone.