married in grebek
7. Legitimate

I know I'm not young. My age is 30 years old, it is appropriate for a family and an age that does not deserve to play . Nor am I suffering from Gamophobia due to the failure of my parents (gamophobia is an excessive fear of commitment and marriage).Because I realize that even though mommy papi loves each other but they get married because of force, and their age is still too young. Their selfish souls are still dominant. I still want to get married and commit to a household, but I haven't met yet who can make me comfortable. Marriage does not just need love. Is this God's warning to me to get married, but why must Pake event in the grebek citizens of all.

"Anybody ready, what's his full name? Afraid that I only know his nickname, let the akang know all the names of his father," said the grandfather of the customary chairman.

"Anindya Princess seruni prawira princess Angkasa son of prawira," I said. I saw Dito's flat face, I knew we were just as forced. Dito took a deep breath after Grandpa shook Dito's hand. The grandfather of the customary chairman became my guardian, he said from the beginning he wanted to understand this moment. Because grandfather only has children and grandchildren all, and also there has been a priest in charge of marrying us.

"We started ya Bismilbornrahmanirrahim Rahim.

I marry and I marry you with Anindya Princess seruni prawira daughter of the father of Angkasa son of prawira as the person who represented me, with dowry.......what is the dowry?" We just fuck each other.

"What is the dowry?"Dito just shook his head, making everyone there take a deep breath.

"What do you have?" Asked the tribal chief,si Dito opened his wallet and took out all the bills in his wallet.

"I just hold this cash." He said the chief directly counted the numbers.

"One million five hundred and thirty-five thousand." Said the grandfather of the customary chief.

"Let's start from the beginning ."

"We started ya Bismilbornrahmanirrahim Rahim.

I married and I have you with Anindya Putri seruni prawira daughter of the father of Angkasa putra prawira as the person who represented me. With a cash dowry of one million five hundred and thirty-five thousand rupiah." Dito closed his eyes before saying, "I accept his marriage and the marriage of Anindya Putri seruni prawira bint Angkasa putra prawira with the dowry paid in cash."

"Well." Right."

"Well." Right."

"Well." Right." I close my eyes hoping it's all a dream and I wake up all right tomorrow.

"Amen." It turns out that this dream is not real.

"Neng don't cry, kiss the hand of the akang!" I took Dito's hand out in front of me, I kissed his hand without Teresa my tears dripping about his hand"Sorry Anin father, Copa,"I said in my heart.

My hands are wet he cries I understand no one wants to marry in such a rich situation,

"You are now legal to be husband and wife Sekang you want to return what is the night here. As a thank you for adhering to the custom here, I am always the chairman of the village neighbors will be ready to drive you tomorrow morning what now?"Said the RT chief.

"Now! " Said me and Dito compact, which even makes them all laugh ngakak.

"The soul mate yes they are compact."

"Yes, have you changed what clothes this is to remember if you are married." RT sir said while teasing us,

"I said they're not just compact soul mates saying look at the same glaring expression." Timpal the father who joined the attack earlier .

We changed our clothes before we came out neatly, we say goodbye to all the residents there who amounted to about fifteen people.

"You are compatible you must be a mate, pray for you," said nyai.

"Household is the beginning of a new life not only receiving each other but also giving each other. Mutual surrender because giving up does not mean losing, giving up is a victory of selfishness," said Mr. RT.

" I see you guys going through it all. So be patient to face all the trials and gravel stones that block the road kalia," said the chief adat. After shaking hands we rode a Toyota antelope capsule in black, which he said belonged to a pack of RT.

"This is my son Kang Dito, his name is Joko age eighteen just graduated yesterday. Next month also want to go to Jakarta, yesterday escaped to become a medical student" said Mr. RT . We are currently on our way to be escorted by RT and his son.

"His son is just one sir,?"ask Dito.

"3 sir, my sister is a teacher, is now teaching one of the state High School in Bandung at the age of twenty-four, a small child is still in elementary school, all children are equal to eight years old" he replied with a smile.

"The original father of Waga village is here"tanyaku.

"No, I was originally from bandung city at that time KKN here my fate is the same as you guys difference my wife is a citizen here".

"father ga nolak time married "tanyaku.

"Wasn't my wife beautiful, we took shelter because of the heavy rain because of the cold I embrace my wife eh accused of perversion" he told.

"So, you continue to believe the Myth of the doom" I said, I saw RT's father take a deep breath before telling his story.

"So I don't believe it either, but when my daughter was three years old, it was our holiday year, there was a student who raided my rich, rich, but they refused to marry because they did not feel anything and the woman was fond of the son of Kapolri at that time a month after the incident there was a landslide".

"It could have been a coincidence, sir, "my word.

"yes, if you are rich, you believe you don't believe it, but you say thank you, you will obey the will of the people, I and my wife were married twenty-six years, and I was married,after the child of the Police about ten years ago there was also a girl who wanted to commit suicide rather than in marriage, right, her birthday a month after the incident our village was flooded with flash, he said,logically it was a coincidence but Allahu Alam neng is so rich" I and Dito looked at each other.

" I know that neng and akang are good people, not maybe acting perverted and according to the religious law that I understand your marriage is also not legal, either,therefore my suggestion that you have serious intentions to continue the marriage is better to remarry" said p.rt with a smile, I look and smile awkwardly.

" The marriage is declared valid, if 1.there is a bride, it has been fulfilled 2.there is a guardian of the bride-to-be, while there was no,3.attended by two fair male witnesses to witness the validity of the marriage, there was also no, as I know the marriage harmony there were five, and it was only filled with three, but there was also no marriage,and two of them had already died" said pk.rt.

"so" said we compact to make RT sir and his son compact laugh, I and Dito just dumbfounded because confused.

"It's better to run out of here you married you guys are a mate, see you guys are not just compact in talking mimic your face is also compact"the voice of RT sir while laughing.we can only glance at each other until it reaches the post and so until Mr. RT directly back with his son, he said,me and Dito also immediately separated I was immediately greeted by my friend and I saw Dito walking away maybe looking for his friend, friend,but strange theme no one is looking for why no one welcomed when we just lost about five hours.