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a few seconds I closed my eyes, so felt a warm kiss full of meaning from the man who has now legally become the owner of me
" beuhhhh Ram.do not long or see here the row of singles.already scream scream.." cried Bayu.
" huuuu...!!!" another cheers, the MC who laughed, guided the two of us who had linked the ring on the finger, to the silence on both pairs of parents accompanied by an apology, do'a and blessing, to the silence of both parents,my tears came back just a few hours ago I was still a tall girl, but now there is Rama who is my companion ,whatever I do usually I ask permission and report to both but now Rama is the one I have to unite, Rama helps me wake up and wipe away my tears.
" don't cry, you don't want to be exiled, Ra .." whispered
" you....!!" I punched slowly Rama's chest until the MCs poked his lips in laughter
from where both my parents were we dribbled to the backyard that already had two chairs , from the back of my cousin Rama and me with a typical bridal umbrella this event is a SAHERAN event, as the MC said ,invited guests, especially children scrambling to gather in front of the chair that we will sit in, do not children even parents do not want to lose ,kebaya and shirts that had been since dawn they were ironing were not cared for in order to get some coins and some other saweran items.
I saw friends of Rama's friends, and my schoolmates shamelessly and unknowingly his age come into the row of bocil to scavenge saweran, gamelan and degung music began to be sung , kidung konsaran is chanted by aki and nyai burga sawer alternately, the help of macapat in the Asmaradana/Kinanti theme.
" dhhh they follow ???kayak boy...!!" say
" i also feel ashamed to follow Ra.Sadly my side is afraid to sag.." I'm Rama...
mamah , and Ambu took some medium-sized cups with brass, not to miss aunt, teh Ayu and bang Akhsan even though they wanted to menywerwerakan the contents of the cup which is a mixture of white rice, pieces of turmeric, and even if you want to menywerkan, several types of potpourri, betel nut, various kinds of candy, metal coins and rice that have been soaked in turmeric, saffron, one bag of fireflies (perhaps if mentioned clearly his name mimin dibabok same noveltoon) will be thrown last by me and Rama the contents are the same, too, it's just that there is a small surprise gift for those who get it, the metal money symbolizes prosperity, turmeric is a symbol of glory, candy symbolizes the sweetness of married life .
the advice song and song sung increasingly boisterous interspersed by screeches and laughter
" jas..cringgg...!!!!" saweran
guests scramble saweran
" wahahahahahah." I laughed to see they were so laughable let alone our friend's friend.
" awww...sakit be*go....My hand is loe inject...!!!" sewot Ridwan flicked his hand that was stepped on the heels of 7 cm owned by Rika
" sorry .. sorry..." Rica grimaces
" wehhh don't push push ....!!" Gilang protects Vina who is pushed by the others
" i'm accused of helping me with this." Oh Tasya.
" ahhh loe mah so if you wear this shirt do not want to mulung.." dumel Andi.
" sr.......!!!"
" am....!!! sawernya here.don't go to sono mulu.....!!" pekik Ridwan with other friends.the bocil look excited when getting candy and money, some of which calculate his income.
until the contents of a few cups ran out, they had not returned to their seats, now was the boom me and Rama took a small pocket-sized bag we held it together and then turned back to the scavengers
" 1....2....3......"
rama and I threw
" happp....!!!" Gilang caught it, obviously he was fairly high while jumping Gilang who won the firefly bag, everything returned to tidying up his clothes that were almost out of shape again because of the riot just now.
the next procession continued with MEULEUM HARUPAT (Burning HARUPAT), I lit a fire with candles and burned the harupat trunk held by Rama
like this guys....
until it was lit up, then the harupat rod was put in a jug of water held by me, the harupat rod was lifted back and broken and then discarded . This procession means that the two brides are expected to always solve household problems together, the wife who holds a jug of water has a role to cool down every problem that burdens the heart and mind of the husband. Next is the procession Nincak Endog (Egg Stomp), a family carrying a tray filled with water and eggs, I put eggs under Rama's feet,then Rama stepped on it until it broke and I crouched down to clean Rama's feet with water from the jug, symbolizing the responsibility of the husband as the head of the family, while the wife followed the guidance of the husband, after that we were guided to reach the other jug filled with water and flowers in a count of 3 we were the same as dropping with a little slamming jug
the broken jug scattering the water in it MEUPEUSKEUN KENDI means that the bride takes off her maiden and bachelor period on the first night
a pair of white doves in a cage are brought to the courtyard along with both pairs of parents entering the final procession ,both pairs of parents take each one later with the aba aba MC they RELEASE the PIGEON flying up, as a symbol of parents removing the responsibility of both partners because they have lived independently now,then I went with my parents into the house while Rama and his parents were outside, only the door was the barrier, the male party knocked on the door 3 times and then the representatives of each family putting right this tradition called MUKA PANTO/OPEN PINTU, continued with the tradition of feeding each other by both pairs of parents in pelaminan ,this symbolizes that there is no difference in affection between the child and daughter-in-law called HUAP SCOPE after so many customary wedding processions are completed a family brings one nyiru /a large tray containing chicken grilled one tail without being cut, where this chicken must me and Rama mambang or also called PABETOT BAKAKAK HAYAM I pull as hard as Rama, Rama,but at the end of his Rama who got the biggest part, which got the most part to share with his partner, this means that the sustenance obtained must be enjoyed and shared together...
after all the traditional wedding procession Rama and I sat on the throne our day ,why do I feel awkward this way , one by one the invited guests queue to shake hands to say goodbye to a new life...
" Nara...!!!" they began to scream from high school friends complex can not be separated from the word selfie...
" cieee..already a manten..already not far away now.." seduhan Vina, in the corner of the stage is now filled by the band of wedding accompanists sing a variety of song songs, to entertain.
" Nara, Nara, it's time to change clothes. later change with Rama.." said my aunt, I turned to Rama who nodded in agreement.
" don't be long.." he blinked one eye, why now every speech Rama I always feel deg with ya...
I was already in room , the second clothes I now wear is kebaya with subordinates side like a dress dangling up to the floor design of a friend mamah ,with the siger still attached, the kebaya shades brown as the color next to it, after I finished Rama's part that changed clothes ,with a dark brown suit without a blangcon look back like Rama usually looks cool but his hair is neatly combed even he pomade after Rama's return suddenly he called Gilang and asked for permission from me
" Ra..could come along for a while." he led me to the stage in front of the guests present.
" MC may I ask for a moment and borrow his mic. " in okay i by MC ,just contact all the invited guests and people who were there staring focus on us the bride...
" for the invited guests I ask for a moment yes, on a happy day for me, I want to show something to the same woman who is now legally mine during her.... Nara.." he said with applause and cheers .....
I just looked at Rama full of astonishment, what he would do, not strange Ram....
" Lang turn....!!!" Gilang nodded
wait since when is there a projector?? now the projector was highlighting a white cloth backstage featuring a mini movie, I was standing alone in front of Rama...
" what's up Ram???you want to say don't be weird, deh." I said but Rama smiled instead.
the projector started playing the mini film that Gilang and Rama had prepared
" i'm just black and white..."
the writing is clearly displayed in front of the opening of the mini film.
,with the song "proof " belongs to Virgoun , one by one the picture shown is the time when the time of High School, starting from when Rama was only with his friends, until when Rama began to approach me ,then the photo where Rama holds the tip of my head I also do not know when and where also by whom the photo was taken , during the courtship period first ,
" everyone watching was stunned by the occasional exclaim...
when I was sick and when Rama was sick there with me taking care of him, during the retirement and graduation day where there were other friends there too...when Rama proposed to me and we got engaged, everything was arranged beautifully into a mini-film , it ends with a poem that touches the hearts of all who watch
you're.....
you are right is time
my time is in this world
you, are a strand of do'a
in every prostration
the color between
black and white
it's an oasis in the middle
drought will be beauty
you, are the word that wants
I'm turning into us.....
applause accompanied the end of the film, I covered my mouth with my hand, when Rama who was beside me gave me a bouquet of flowers
" kiss..cium...cium.....!!!" screech the invited guests
" us.....!!!" rama's hand interrupts
" it's still noon, there will be minors scolded ustadz Hasan same bu Hilda...!!" he plays at the invited guests while pointing at ustadz Hasan and bu Hilda.
my hands are coiled around his back, my head is leaning against his chest
" hhhhhh....!!!"
" the bocil ...and the singles are expected to go home...!!!" pekik Bayu.diharani cheers of other invited guests.
" thank you.." my great-grandson.
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