THE NEGLECTED PEARL FOR ADAM
CHAPTER 25. THE REASON PEARLS HIDE PROBLEMS FROM THE FAMILY

"Sister, don't want to know. This is my friend, pretty, right?" muti asked as she pointed her phone towards Elena.

The two muti brothers were excited to make Elena's face meet red with embarrassment, dyed by the two Pearl brothers.

"So don't get ready to compete, in two days Elena will be there" Muti said.

"Okay Deck, I must have won" said Fadlan, Muti's second brother.

"Just kid! I'm the oldest, I'll win" replied Fadhil, the first brother.

"Hey, hey.why are you guys fighting now. In this case, I'll cancel Elena to Jakarta" Mutia said.

"Don't dong Dek, okay we're going to fight tos, who won he went ahead to take Elena's heart. If Elena refuses, it means she failed and entered the opportunity for us who lost earlier," said Fadlan.

"If both lose, how?" ask Muti.

"That means Elena's our little sister, just like you Dek. But, hopefully the chatter is not the same," replied Fadhil.

"Ah, Brother! It's a long time ago, yes, no one wants to wave to Elena or not. If it's not there, I'll close it immediately" Elena said.

"Titip kiss me, can you?" said Fadlan to get ear jewels from the Brother.

Elena who saw the familiarity and warmth within the Mutia family was moved. He misses his sister, who has no news, where the waves are.

"Why are you El?" ask Muti who saw Elena moody.

"I'm both envious and at the same time sad. Iri, it feels like life is not fair to me. Everyone I love is gone. And sadly, I remembered my missing sister" Elena replied.

"I'm sorry El, if I've made you sad. But, you don't worry El, my brothers will definitely love you as much as they love me. I'm grateful to be their sister, they always look after me and help me whenever I'm in trouble. Even I often ask them for monthly money," said Muti.

"Why Ma'am, don't you just tell them about the household problems that Muti is facing now? surely they want to help find the best solution, so that Mr. Sultan is kind to Mbak Muti" said Elena.

"No El, ever since I decided to leave my parents' house to join my husband, I've been determined to study independently, solve every problem that comes into my household. I'm a wife, that wife has to be strong El" Elena said.

Then Muti said again, "Every household must have a test, a different husband's test, as well as a wife's test. So we need to be able to think calmly and be wise. Because, if it is reckless and acts spontaneously in the face of problems, then the household heresy can be threatened with shipwreck."

"Lantas, how are we supposed to think calmly?" ask Elena.

1.Must always, draw closer to the Khalik, do not get tired of mingling with Him and must always remember, face the test not by acting arrogant, as if the self is strong and not fragile, on the contrary, on the contrary, face all the trials that come with realizing selflessness, so that we will always depend on the Empires of this universe."

Stop to panic.

Know El, the more we panic in the face of something then the decision that will be taken instead becomes unreasonable. Therefore, panic action is very inappropriate to do in the middle of the exam being faced. Panic will make the mind saturated and the end of stress will easily hit.

Stop thinking no-no. Calm yourself and bring positive energy within you. Thus the mental condition will be much better, so it can help to think clearly in the face of disaster. Whisper to our little hearts, that we and our partner can pass the test at hand.

Fill your daily time by doing good.

Although facing the test, it does not mean someone is passive in doing something, especially in doing good deeds.

Never forget to do good in life, both in spacious conditions and when facing the test of life. We can start doing good with a partner, or people around. By acting so, then the positive energy we will feel in ourselves, thus making the mind become calmer.

"Know El, even if the good deeds we do are small, it will still have an impact on the peace of mind and soul. The end will make the mood become peaceful and more serene. Remember, do not underestimate good deeds, yes.

4.Be thankful and do not violate the situation.

Do not stop being grateful, no matter what circumstances we are going through. Whether happy or difficult, gratitude is the duty of every human being as a form of gratitude for the gift of the Divine. Although these days are heavy, do not relax the spirit to continue to be grateful. Know that the more a person is grateful, the more his heart will be spacious. As a result, it will have an impact on peace of mind, so we can go through the exam in the household without feeling depressed.

And we also have to stop scapegoating the situation as a culprit that makes household exams increasingly heavy. Presenting a positive spirit by continuing to be grateful, we will certainly be easy through the existing test.

Talk from heart to heart with your partner.

This is very important to be done by a married couple so that the relationship remains harmonious even though it is being tested in the household. Compactness and a lasting relationship between husband and wife will make it easier for couples to deal with the crisis in the household. Thus, both husband and wife will easily control the mind to stay calm in the midst of the storm of testing that is facing.

The household exam is not a bad thing, all couples will get through it as long as they are honest in their behavior and face the problem with a cool head.

"And there are 5 reasons I El, why household matters, should I hide from our Great Family :

They will definitely interfere.

The name is family, surely they will feel the need to interfere in my every problem. This is perfectly natural. Because we are a part of them before and even after bonding with halal couples today. So, telling the problem to the family, will only make them interfere and maybe the result is actually not good.

It's not possible they'll talk about us in the back.

Household problems need to be hidden so that we do not get tormented by the words of the people behind us. Although the extended family may sympathize with my household, it is not impossible that there will be one or more persons who are happy to spread it to people out there. It's even a gossip material.

Instead of getting a solution, it can be an added emotion.

The big family will definitely support me, as well as the big family of Kak Sultan, surely they also support him and may even blame me for not being good at making an approach to the husband. This supportive business can be complicated and make you more emotional than before. Don't you want El?"

Problems will go everywhere.

Household problems that may initially only revolve around responsibility, can suddenly widen to other problems, just because of the intervention of large families. They can be stoves that ignite other sparks and make the household cracked.

Finish first or consult with a trustworthy one.

Every problem in the household must be solved between husband and wife, if it can not be detained again, then find the right counselor. This is better than telling stories to non-experts.

Problems in the home are just. But that does not mean we can make an excuse to tell it to a large family. Be more mature and try to find solutions without causing emotions.

"You agree El?" mutia asked, after speaking plainly to Elena about the reason why Muti would not tell her parents and her brother or the Sultan's family.