The Virgin Princess Belonging to Daddy Season 2
Comfortable or happy
After going through a hot session together, Selena and Bahrat seemed busy chatting together, deciding not to fall asleep immediately, and trying to get through their best quality time.
"Did it hurt?"
Ask Bahrat slowly towards Selena.
"Am I moving too rough?"
Ask bahrat again.
The one in question looked at him with shame.
"It's not a problem to talk about, if it hurts and makes you uncomfortable, you can say it's dear"
Bahrat said while tightly grasping Selena's hand.
"I want our marriage relationship to feel comfortable in many ways, whether in bed or even in everyday life hmm"
As Bahrat said so, Selena's eyeballs stared inside the man's eyeball.
"I'm quite comfortable, probably because it's the first time it hurts, but for me you do it with gentleness"
Selena said slowly.
Bahrat looked smiling, gently stroking Selena's face.
"You know, honey? There will be a big difference between a Relationship that is Just Looking for Happiness (pleasure) and a Relationship that feels comfortable"
The man spoke while adjusting their sleeping position, letting Selena into his arms.
"The comfort is not just about laughing together. Comfort is more complicated than happiness that can indeed be created in a short time, especially in a relationship. If you are just looking for happiness, you can be happy now, but tomorrow is not guaranteed to happen. In contrast to being comfortable, which people say can be more dangerous than falling in love'
"Being happy or comfortable is what we create. Both are needed in every relationship. But neither can determine how successful our relationship will be. Because being in a relationship just because you want to be happy, everyone who can make you laugh can certainly fulfill it. Fun for sure, but do you remember if the relationship you live in is not always offering happiness?"
Selena seemed silent to hear bahrat's words.
"Ad a significant example in the relationship between happy and comfortable"
"if we only look for the word happy, when there is a problem can make us turn to each other. But if it is comfortable, any weight problems will still be faced together"
"This is often the case with some people, couples who can be invited to be happy may not necessarily be difficult together. Even when we are facing problems related to relationships, you or I can be indifferent and reluctant to solve them. Especially if one of you has been carried away by emotions, the gap can easily appear"
"But another story if, you are looking for a relationship for comfort. Want as heavy as any problem faced, your comfort makes you and he can both calm down to face it. Problems are also not the end of comfort, you are sure your relationship atmosphere will return to normal, if you and he manage to solve it"
"For if we are only happy, we can still turn to others, but when we find comfort we can survive by choice"
"Happy can be created instantly with everyone you meet. In the street to talk to people, you can laugh freely and feel happy with random conversations. Even seeing someone attractive in the eyes can make you smile, is not it happy. The logic is the same when you are in a relationship with the foundation of only looking for happiness, which does not rule out the possibility if you will turn away. Because often, other happiness that you just met can be very tempting from the former"
"Different when you are comfortable with someone, do not turn to move away from him or her just feel disinclined. For you are afraid, if there is not the same comfort that it offers. So instead of taking off but not obviously the replacement, you better defend it with every effort"
"And the reality in a relationship based on happiness is not necessarily we get comfort, but comfort is certainly brought to happiness"
As Selena developed her Smile, and her reality so far was clear she felt so comfortable with this man, that she could clearly keep up with him, so patiently face him, so much so, the man is not a type of forced man and is always able to make himself feel appreciated in any circumstances.