Was it wrong of me to love you?

Was it wrong of me to love you?
Don't be blinded by love!


When someone hurts you, think of him as sandpaper rubbing you, in the end you will be shiny and he will be useless.


How long will Aurelia receive cruel treatment from her husband? It all depends on the woman how long she has to deal with it, but whether she can every day have to face her husband who is light-handed, not to mention having an affair in front of her own eyes. Maybe the other woman who saw Aurelia, would call her a stupid woman! Yes, she was a foolish woman blinded by her own love. And one more thing, she was afraid of being a young widow.


Aurelia rubbed her already wet face with her palm, while Faiza smiled faintly upon seeing it.


“Enak once you ask for monthly money! Find money there yourself, I work not to support you!” sentak Dhafi's.


While wiping her face she looked at her husband's fierce face. “You only spend money! One million a month already you finish!”


Aurelia smiled wryly, let alone Faiza being seen looking at her. “Did not a husband have an obligation to give a living to his wife, and the wife is obliged to remind her husband if he forgets to give her. Mas Dhafi needs to know I never asked how much money Mas gave .. I received, but I don't like to be said to spend the money. I spend for the purposes in the kitchen, household and daily cooking, I adjust the expenses with the money that Mas gave me,” Aurelia replied at length.


Dhafi got up from his seat and raised his hand again. “Please once you lecture me yes!” sentak Dhafi's.


Before Dhafi's hand floated up to Aurelia's cheek, Faiza grabbed the man's hand. “Mas Dhafi enough do not slap Aurelia, pity,” Faiza pinta with her meld, and as if to be a hero of misfortune for Aurelia.


Dhafi turned his face and snorted in annoyance. “It is better that Mas Dhafi eat first yes, soon we will go to work,” invite Faiza by pulling Dhafi's arm to sit back, after which Faiza stared flat at Aurelia. “You better wash the dishes used I cooked tuh in the sink, if so the wife should be early in the morning do not make the husband angry. It should be well served, prepare breakfast instead of asking for monthly money!” faiza said with a light.


Aurelia pulled the corner of her lips. “Thank you Ma'am Faiza reminded me, and thank you Ma'am for serving my husband well, indeed I can't serve my husband well. But I still know myself not to be an actor in your own household, I will always remember this!” aurelia replied slowly.


Again Dhafi opened his net wide. “Quite Aurel do not occasionally call Faiza an actor, she is not an actor! Go to the kitchen there and do all that is ruled by Faiza, if you still want to stay here,” snapped Dhafi defending Faiza.


Aurelia sighed and returned Dhafi's gaze. “Great Mas, you defend that woman rather than me your legal wife. If you do not want to be called an actor why not the other day Mas refused our matchmaking, why Mas Dhafi did not marry Mbak Faiza so as not to be called a actor, and Mas also did not commit an affair,” said Aurelia.


Dhafi growled at his wife's words until his hands hit the dinner table. Seeing this, Faiza turned the dining table and pulled Aurelia's arm and took her to the kitchen. Then, slightly push the woman's body until her waist hit the edge of the sink.


The woman stared cynically. “How dare you fight Mas Dhafi, you should be grateful to be married to the man you love, yes .. even though Mas Dhafi never liked you. In fact, look at you who this village, there is still a good thing there is a man who wants to marry you, rather than being a spinster.” Faiza eroded the distance, then patted Aurelia on the shoulder. “It is better to be a wife who obeys her husband, rather than you being a widow who will make my aunt's family ashamed in the village,” continued Faiza cynically.


“More shy of being a young widow or being an actor, Ma'am Faiza!” chirp Aurelia by sharpening her net.


Faiza inflamed and swung her hand into the air, but Aurelia was ready to block her. “For now I may not want to be a young widow, and not want to give Mbak Faiza the victory that has dared to tempt my husband! But remember Ma'am Faiza, I am a village but I am not a lowly woman who wants to pursue her own brother's husband, is not Ma'am Faiza impressed cheap!” aurelia replied firmly, then slapped the woman's hand.


Aurelia also leaned against the edge of the sink while taking a deep breath, and made her sense of body that had wanted to tremble because it was trying to fight Dhafi and Faiza.


“Ya Allah .. strengthen me to face all this,” murmured Aurelia. To get rid of the pain, the woman began to wash the cooking furniture, while Faiza served Dhafi breakfast together.


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A few minutes later Dhafi and Faiza, who had finished breakfast, rushed to work together without saying goodbye to Aurelia.


Aurelia, who had begun to feel hungry, approached the dinner table and it turned out that there was not a single tormented food, there were only dirty dishes. And sure enough Dhafi did not leave a penny for him to buy vegetables, with forced he wanted to try to pay off shopping at the shop Bu Tin.


Like the previous morning vegetable stalls Bu Tin must be a lot of complex mothers who shop there including Lilis and Ima. And there happened to be Ima, so many mothers asked about the case of KDRT that befell him.


“Other mothers anyway if the husband has played hands mending away, do not like I was detained because of love am husband. Eh even I became battered like this, fortunately I quickly realized, if my life has not been floated in the hands of my own husband,” said Ima told me with her heartfelt gaze.


Lilis who was beside Ima rubbed the woman's arm. “Fortunately you are still alive Ms Ima, still saved,” replied Lilis.


Ima greeted the end of her nether tail. “Iya Mbak Lilis, for a time I could fight it, if not my son became a child,” reply Ima with his softness.


Aurelia who was among them, quietly listened while choosing some vegetables.


“Love on the husband is not always we can defend, if he has acted violently, we should start leaning ourselves. Why maintain the household because it loves the husband too much, but lives like hell. I hope this can be a lesson for mothers or newlyweds. Not forever love is beautiful,” Ima said. Aurelia's heart was pinched until she turned to the side where Ima was. And they accidentally met.


“Share your pride from anyone even if he is your own husband, do not want to be trampled on, our lives only once, do we fill it with unhappiness? a wife deserves to live happily. Love may be but logic still goes, do not want to be blinded by love if it ends up making us hurt. And as women, we need to be financially independent so as not to depend on a partner, because it is for our own good. Like me, even though the divorce process can still buy milk for children, although not some of my salary as SPG,” said Ima when staring at Aurelia.


For some reason Aurelia's netra became teary, then for a moment she lowered her face.


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