Diary of Old Ojol
Bag. 2

Entertainment for Oma for nylimorke ati aka entertaining themselves at leisure. is planting flowers. Even if you have no land. Minimal nanem dapets in small pot.pot. There are some plants that decorate the stairs of the entrance to the house, beautifully maintained and always flowering, it seems to reflect the heart of the caretaker.

Hanging flowers that are usually never empty of flowering such as . Hoya carnosa hanging plants are also called *Hindu* rope plants because their twining leaves resemble rope. This is one of Oma's favorite plants This type is unique because the petals of the leaves are curved, thick, and slippery textured like wax.

In addition, this plant has a flower shaped like a star that smells like chocolate.  This type of hoya is very easy to care for, especially in Indonesia with hot and humid temperatures. For maximum growth, Oma puts the plant in a place of indirect light.Importantly the soil of this plant is always moist, but the water is inundated.

But no, especially in the last few months. As if he felt the pain of his master. Roses no longer boast of their petals. Lazy not passionate.

As if² lives reluctantly, even don't want to.

Paper flowers, which are usually proud of their bright bright colorful flowers, to the invisible leaves, also stay stem and rating² with a few small leaves.

And various types of garden flowers, almost all of which are not fresh to look at. Flower Cleosia Chicken Jengger. Red blood, pink and yellow.

"Yank... do not stay sick.. all kayak males to live, but often not flush right ?! "

"Tomorrow try not to buy flower fertilizer.. ". Answer Opa.

Sitting on the steps of the driveway, enjoying the fresh morning sun. While petting the beloved flowers, one by one.

" Why tho, ..?.. why don't you have to flower..?! " Task Oma on all her favorite flower plants.

Although silent, but as if all simultaneously said:" we also feel sad to feel the suffering of Oma "....

" Yank, please take some water, not the flower sirame - this flower".

A bucket of water, Opa.

" O.alah. nduk.. nduk.mumpung I am off not to the Hospital, you do not flush yo. do not die, quickly flowered. let's not like me.. ". He said to every plant he watered. While enduring the pain Oma slowly flushed out affectionately.

Occasionally stop, when the pain begins to mischievously tease. At some point he tried to hold that feeling. Until cold sweat soaks his increasingly wrinkled look.

"it's the bamboo tree, fruit continues, even though every big new has been in the brush of children who play". Said Opa slightly stealing the attention of Oma who was holding back the pain.

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The night began to propagate with the rest of the sun in the west. Slowly but surely.

The night wind began to show his identity even though a little shy. Silent, silent, desolate rule the day.

Oma's roar sounded sharp. Bemorang. But increasingly clear break the silence, occasionally coughing shivers, every moment, every second. It makes anyone who hears.

At certain moments he cried without being able to tolerate, because of the prolonged pain caused by cancer that has spread in several parts of his organs.

"Yank. time to take medicine, but maem little ya tayank, let the stomach have contents".

Every time Opa had to seduce her to get Oma to eat.

"Inget pa, today is the time to buy medicine, it's just enough for tonight. And do not forget later if you see soursop leaves on the street pick enough ajjjjjja". Oma Messages.

"okay... Tayank..What do you want today..?". Ask Opa

"Cure the...". He replied with a wry smile, as it endured the pain.

Actually, it's been a long time, Oma suffered from cervical cancer, it's just that during the last-last it, the pain of the lower abdomen until it feels translucent to the back, it's just that, continuously throughout the day never stops, as a result of cervical cancer suffered.

When it started like that Opa was only able to accompany him, without being able to do anything.

The obstetrician once said that Oma had cervical cancer, the doctor suggested to check We did not dare to take him to the hospital to ascertain the disease he suffered, because of many things.

Various herbal plants and painkillers are alternatives that we can do, at least reduce pain.gratitude-gratitude can heal, without having to deal with a doctor, like people do money.

Even if it had begun not strong enough to withstand the prolonged pain, he immediately entered the room.

Once when Oma had felt unable to withstand prolonged pain for several days without stopping, Oma was almost desperate, while Opa no longer knew what to do.

"Lord.I am no longer strong.If You had called Your servant I would have been prepared by God.I could no longer bear this kind of prolonged pain...".

A groan in every prayer in those few days.

"Honestly, if God calls, Papa is willing, not tired of hearing Mama's weakness, or tired of caring for and accompanying Mama..."

Opa forgot, if both of Opa's grandchildren are at home. Maybe they heard everything we talked about.

Opa's youngest grandson, just sat on the bench of SD kls 3, his name is Darell, and he is very sticky and very affectionate with Utinya (that's how he called his grandmother ).

Apparently he understands what we're talking about.

That afternoon, crying and becoming, until she was unable to stop her hysterical crying.

"Utiiiii.... Utii......, "

Out of curiosity, finally, Oma approached him.

"Why...?... .. Why are you crying...."

Many times Oma asked, but not answered, but her cries became more and more hysterical.

Oma is getting confused, do not understand why the Darell cry like that, without knowing why.

"Sister.. Why did Darell cry like this, you are your sister...?". Ask Oma to her sister.

"Lho. ya don't know thi.., brother does not say he really..". Her brother replied in wonder.

I don't know how long it's been, finally, Darell can talk, he said :

Soon cry again and cry again and again and again.

Apparently, he heard and understood what Opa said, which was about Opa's willingness if God had called Oma back in His lap, rather than suffering with pain all day long, without being able to do anything.

Since that incident, Darell has been getting more attention from the Uthinya. Every time he took the medicine, he reminded, taking the medicine with water

He just went to bed at 12 after taking the medicine. Every night always sleep beside Uthinya, with the reason of guarding Uthi.

If you see Uthinya in pain, the stomach is taken care of, so that not the Uthinya sleeps but he who overslept.which obviously he was very attentive.

That night actually Opa holiday and want to nemenin Oma, well at least there are friends who are invited to vent. But it is not possible, because urgent needs still continue to force to exist for various needs, especially needs let Oma.

When opening the application, dapet good. until the trip to the restaurant turned out the order was canceled.

Cancelled customer, for now has an impact on the next order, no matter who is wrong.

More than 2 hours waiting after being canceled, new hp sounds "teeeeeeeet"

nyantol orderan gofood sushi on the street. This restaurant is quite famous in the city where Opa lives, visitors are quite crowded. Gojek, Grap ngantri a lot, so no wonder if you can here definitely wait at least 30 min, especially young dates like now.

Chat fellow drivers while waiting at the resto, not a new sight, but this time on the mute, because the drivers are busy playing hp mrk each².

Grateful, got a kind CS, he gave a tip after delivery.

As usual, After the Opa pickup directly home, waiting for the order to enter from the house while accompanying Oma.

"What time is this..? "

"It's still not 12, ... Why.?! "

"That's a lot!!!, the head feels like it's about to break !!!

"They're done soon....!! "

In our village there are indeed those who have a group of danduts and bleakness right in front of the house, the distance is only bordering the road.

Once a week, sometimes even if you want to stage it can be twice a day. His voice is indeed fast like a hunch if the stage.

One song can be repeated up to 10x, understand the exercise, so one song is repeated until it feels perfect and fitting as the leader of the group wants.

And unfortunately, every time the exercise is always above 9 o'clock and ends can be 1 o'clock.

Left-right neighbors indeed no one has ever protested, the problem is that one of the family is the player, or the artists dangdut the group.

"Yank.. Please turn off the therapy, my back is hot ".

" Continued yes... hem.. why up to 60 ?.. Yo must be ae hot..!!!. stelan not more than 30 tho tayaaaaaaank !! "

"So the one who didn't ask to install Darell, maybe not seen, directly plugged into the power plug"...

" o. yes forget, on the bike there was a McD dapet from the customer.. "

"censants.. "

"no... "

"ooooo... "

"no. cotumer seems to have deliberately ordered two. It turns out that one for Papa. kokangya tumben-tumben in McD kok dapet 2 bags".

" ndok.. get the bag on the motorcycle kakung. bring it here... ". call Oma to her granddaughter.

Moments later.

" asiiiiik, big brother McD huh kung..? ".

" No, it's given the same kind-hearted and not arrogant customer.. ".

" That must be a fan of difb kakung post huh ?! ".

" I don't think so.. "

"Yes already Uti, take one. The rest for brother and sister ". Said Oma.

" thank you.... ". While hurrying away.

Shortly thereafter.

" Heeeem, just brother and sister of ajjjjjja who is loved..my part whereaa..? ". Her mother said the children, Renny our first child, who always.canter and take care of everything related to the Hospital, and Oma control.

" Wong was given the same customer beautiful, cute, kind and not arrogant.. ". Answer Opa.

" Take that, if you want, I'm just as your father won't run out... ". Said Oma.

" So Ma. for Mama only, let's hurry, quickly recover like first.I was just kidding". Stopped a moment ago..

"o.. yes tomorrow leave a bit unfortunate so that Mama does not wait too long there. I do not go there first, Mama let Yezky take there".

We are grateful that our family is compact in caring for and paying attention during Oma's illness.

Not only that, our extended family all shoulder to shoulder, support each other, even if far apart. Including the ojol Community as well.