
Praise be to Allah Subhanallahu wa ta’ala, to Him we praise, ask for help and forgiveness. We seek refuge in God from the ugliness of the soul and the evil of works. There is no God (who has the right to be worshipped) but Allah alone who has no allies, and the Prophet Muhammad is His servant and messenger.
Death is the destiny of all beings, human beings or jinn, animals or other creatures, whether male or female, old or young, both healthy and sick. As in the word of Allah Ta’ala follows (which means), “Every soulful will feel dead. Verily, on the Day of Resurrection shall be made full of your reward. Whoever is cast out of hell and put into heaven is fortunate. The life of that world is nothing but a deceptive pleasure.” (QS. Ali Imran 185).
Every human being has a death, and death is inevitable and we no one can escape from it. But unfortunately, few humans are willing to prepare to face it. As in the word of Allah Ta’ala (which means), “Say, “Surely the death that you fled from, then indeed death will meet you, then you will be returned to (God), who knows the unseen and the real, and He tells you what you have done.” (QS. Jumu’ah :8).
“Wherever you are, death will get you, even if you are in a high fortress again sturdy.” (QS. An-Nisa’ :78).
“ Something real will not die but with the permission of God, as a timed decree. Whosoever wills the reward of the world, We shall give him the reward of the world, and whosoever wills the reward of the Hereafter, We shall give him (for) the reward of the Hereafter. And We will give a reply to those who are grateful.” (QS. Ali ‘Imran :145).
All who live will surely die according to his death by His permission, destiny and decree. Anyone who is destined to die will surely die without cause, and whoever is willed to live will surely live.And whatever comes near will not harm the person before his death arrives because Allah Ta’ala has set and predestined it to a predetermined deadline. None of the people exceeded the predetermined time limit.
“Frequently remember the disconnecter of all pleasures, namely DEATH, because no one remembers it in the narrowness of life but will stretch it out and no one remembers it in the breadth of life but will narrow it down.” (CHR. Baihaqi, Ibn Hibban and Bazzar, is set aside by Shaykh Al-Albani in Shahih al-Jami’, hadith number 1222).
Remembering death will cause worry in the mortal world because we will go to the land of the eternal afterlife. Death knows no age, time or disease so that everyone prepares to deal with it. Man is never separated from the airy and narrow conditions, so that by remembering death, man will not be complacent or despair of destiny. Man who remembers death will be glorified in 3 (three) things, namely :
Repent immediately, repent,
Qanaah heart, qanaah,
Worship tips.
What about the man who expects death to come soon?. “Do not expect any of you to die because of the danger that befalls, if you must hope (die), pray: O God, pray, turn me on during a better life for me and shut me off if death is better for me.” (CHR. Al-Bukhari: 567 and HR. Muslim 2680).
“Do not one of you expect and pray (please) death before the time comes, indeed if one of you dies, his practice is interrupted, indeed the age of the believer adds goodness.” (CHR. Muslim 2686). Must be human
always be patient with the decree of Allah Ta’ala and always Istiqomah in His way. Do not give up because despair gives Satan the opportunity to weaken the human heart.
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Gus Nizam, has been moved to the Inap room. at the request of Gus Nizam to gather in his room.
"assalamualaikum "greetings all go inside, Gus Nizam's room.
"walaikumsalam" answered Gus Nizam with Rasya's doctor.
"what's up, son, ?why do we have to gather here?" ask ummi fatimah.
"awhile ummi, wait for the guest has not come" replied Gus Nizam smiling even though his face began to pale.
"what's wrong, why do you rich want to go forever rich that way" said Amelia holding the hand of her husband cold.
"mas, don't tell me you want to leave me the same as children" said Amelia again who was afraid of losing a kind husband.
"honey, I-I'm sorry ma-mas ga-gak will be able to be next to you forever dear, please let mas to go after you promise to grant the last request of mas" replied Gus Nizam.
"mas, don't talk like that, I want you to hold on for us mas, please don't leave us here I can't afford to lose you mas" amelia held her husband's hand and her stomach began to hurt and bleed.
"honey, do not get rich gini mas not calm go if you are rich gini, mas want to give the same request to you for the last time" replied Gus Nizam.
"i love you so much, I beg you to stay" said Amelia who continued to hold her husband's hand.
Amelia reflex claps her head.gus Nizam smiles at her pale white face.
"sad you are serious about granting a request to the mas" said Gus Nizam who hugged his wife.
"mas, mas, why are weeping" replied Amelia
"mas want you dear promise will do a request for mas after mas go." said Gus Nizam.
"iya mas, after the mas go calm I sincerely take off mas if you are unable to withstand this pain" replied Amelia has sincerely let go of her husband.
"thank you dear mas want to sleep in your arms dear" said Gus Nizam.
" Asyhadu alla ilaha illallahu wa asyhadu anna muhammadan 'abduhu wa rasuluh" said in the heart of Gus Nizam.
how many minutes ago Gus Nizam breathed his last, he left quietly.
"gold, wake up and take medicine first" said Amelia crying as she shook the entire body of Gus Nizam who did not respond because he was dead.
"dok, why didn't my husband open his eyes" Amelia said
"i checked the pasen for a while" replied Dr. Rasya.
"sorry pasen has left us for good" Rasha's doctor said.
"Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un "answere everyone.
"Inna lillahi wa Inna ilaihi Raji'un, may you rest in peace my husband, but my mouth is sincere but I can not lie my feelings are so painful mas" said Amelia crying so naturally.
"honey be patient, this is the best way for your husband, who did not feel the pain of the rich, dear he has rested quietly, dear, you must be sincere...! remember you have to be strong for the sake of your two dear children" replied Ummi fatimah.
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Innalillahi wa inna divine raji'un, wa inna ila rabbina lamunqalibun, allahummaktubhu indaka fil muhsinin, waj'al kitahu fi'illiyyin, wakhlufhu fi ahlihi fil ghabirin, wa la tahrimnaa ajrah wala taffinna ba'dahu.
It means: "You belong to Allah and to Him we return. And to our Lord we return. O Allah, write him with You among the good. Make notes in illiyyin. Replace him in his family from those who leave. Do not forbid for us his reward, and do not slander us afterwards."
that's all we can deliver is a prayer with you to your last place mas, I must sincerely release you.
after the bath and funeral Amelia was very sad after the departure of her husband.iya was very hurt, because left behind the same husband as mas Nizam.
"Allaahumaghfir lahu warham hu wa'aafi hii wa'fu anhu wa akrim nuzula hu wa wassi'madkhola hu wahgsil hu bilmaai wats-tsalji walbarodi wanaqqi hi minal khothooyaa kamaa yunaqots tsubul abyadlu minaddanasi wa abdil hu daaron khoiron min daari hi wa ahlan khoiron min hi wazaujan khoiron min zaoji hi wa adkhil hul jannata wa'aidz hu min'adzaabil qobri wa fitnati hi wa min'adzaabin naar."
It means: "O Allah, forgive, have mercy, set him free and let him go. And glorify his dwelling place, spread him out. And glorify his dwelling place, widen his way, wash him with clear, cool water, and wash him from all wrongs like a white garment clean of filth.
And replace his house with a better house than he left, and a better family than he left behind, and a better wife than he left behind. Insert him into heaven, and protect him from his torment his grave and his slander, and from the torment of the fires of hell."