
The trivial thing caused jealousy Risa Dara. Which indirectly her husband noticed her Art. Without saying anything her hand immediately pinched her husband's waist, and glared at him.
"It just happened to be a smooth ride and I just went to the beach earlier."Replied Dara who turned her head for a while, because while ironing.
"Which beach Dar, you were on a motorcycle with a housing employee of this complex right? Aren't you afraid your boyfriend is angry?" ask mom, a little tart.
"I don't have a boyfriend, I'm even stepping back from that guy." Answer Dara.
"Well, why? aren't you planning on getting married this month?"ask Risa's mom.
"Yes the plan is so, but what is this self-power is nobody Mom. God knows best for each of us. So I followed the storyline, my love story and her. I don't want my life to be fucked up. If I want to get the best, then I can choose the best path. When I found out that the relationship between us was no longer healthy" replied Dara.
"What do you mean Dara does she have another woman?"ask Risa's mom.
"It's not just another woman, ma'am, but she was married 5 days before we met. So before he explained, I first backed off. And going from looking weak, if indeed he did not marry and liked the woman would have chased after me. But until now there was no clarity that he was serious with me." Answer Dara.
"What do you want to do with this housing employee?"ask her mom Risa again.
"I guide mom if she is the same, she is a good and sincere person. But I don't feel comfortable with him. It's just comfortable to be friends nothing more."Dara replied saying what she felt when she was with Agus.
"Oh, kirain really has a relationship with him, he is good, honest but unfortunately no woman has ever been willing to accept what is." Said mr. Jhon. Which since then was just silent, but pay attention to the chatter of his wife and Art.
"Maghrib ma'am, sir, I'll excuse you for praying."Dara instantly turned off the ironing, then walked the menu upstairs. To perform his duty to the creator.
After Dara's completion, she returned to her job, ironing her employer's clothes and herself. It didn't feel like it was now, and the job was done. Soon he cleaned up his work, as well as his clothes.
Dara came back down, her master was already on the meal, but cooked which dara tida can eat. Dara has allergies when eating udan and beef or goat. Today her employer cooked beef rib soup, the same flour shrimp.
Dara is not difficult to eat, so just cook eggs plump eyes of cows. Dara enough to eat with sauce sambal, it's good enough. What's more, he is also tired, who already wants to rest immediately.
After finishing eating Dara directly to the room, and perform prayers first. After that he studied the book that he bought a month ago. Dara studied books on obligatory prayers and sunnah.
Istikharah prayer: is a prayer that can be practiced if a Muslim is asking for guidance to Allah SWT when hesitated in making a choice. His presentation has been described in the hadith of the Prophet as a reference to the procedure, prayer, and the time of its execution.
In a hadith narrated by Jabir RA, he said:
كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يُعَلِّمُنَا الِاسْتِخَارَةَ فِي الْأُمُورِ كُلِّهَا كَمَا يُعَلِّمُنَا السُّورَةَ مِنْ الْقُرْآنِ يَقُولُ إِذَا هَمَّ أَحَدُكُمْ بِالْأَمْرِ فَلْيَرْكَعْ رَكْعَتَيْنِ مِنْ غَيْرِ الْفَرِيضَةِ ثُمَّ لِيَقُلْ
Meaning: "Rasulullah SAW taught his friends to pray istikharah in every business as he taught letters from the Qur'an. He said: "If one of you intends to do business, then do two rakaat prayers that are not obligatory prayers, then pray," (HR Bukhari).
Based on the book Miracle Prayer Istikharah compiled by Muhammad Abu Ayyash, there are several arguments that show the happiness of a Muslim is when submitting his choice to Allah SWT. Here is the sound of the hadith:
A. The Istikharah Prayer
Istikharah comes from Arabic which means to ask for goodness at something. In a sense, Istikharah prayer is prayer to ask God to choose the best thing according to him.
As explained earlier, the law of praying isikharah is sunnah. This is based on the scholars who have agreed related to the law of istikharah.
B. Best Time to Pray Istikharah
Istikharah prayers can be performed at any time as long as they are done outside the forbidden times for prayer. However, the secret of Istikharah prayer is some of the best times to pray Istikharah.
The best time to practice Istikharah prayers is usually done on one third of the night, just like tahajud prayers. As mentioned in the hadith of the Prophet SAW, at that time included in the times of prayer mustajab.
يَنْزِلُ رَبُّنَا تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى كُلَّ لَيْلَةٍ إِلَى السَّمَاءِ الدُّنْيَا حِينَ يَبْقَى ثُلُثُ اللَّيْلِ الآخِرُ يَقُولُ: مَنْ يَدْعُونِي، فَأَسْتَجِيبَ لَهُ مَنْ يَسْأَلُنِي فَأُعْطِيَهُ، مَنْ يَسْتَغْفِرُنِي فَأَغْفِرَ لَهُ
It means: "Our rabb descends into the skies of the world at the end of the third night of each night. Then I said, 'The one who prays to Me I will grant, the one who asks Me for something I will give, the one who asks for My forgiveness I will forgive" (HR Bukhari and Muslim).
In addition to the time of one third of the night, the book also mentions, other times of the Istikharah prayer Some of them such as, before dawn, between azan and iqomah, at the end of obligatory prayer, when it rains, such as, and at night lailatul qadar.
C. The Istikharah Prayer System
How to perform the prayer istikharah is the same as other prayers. It's just that, the prayer istikharah consists of two rakaat and one salam.
The difference with other prayers is in the intention and there are some additional prayers in the prayer istikharah.
That's what I learned over the course of a week over and over again. Tonight is already an even week of learning about Istikharah prayers.
Tonight dara woke up at two in the morning, he performed the tahajud prayer and his prayer, the witir prayer and his prayer, only the last Istikharah prayer. After the prayer, he prayed very specifically.
Prayer After Istikharah Prayer
اَللّٰهُمَّ إِنِّيْ أَسْتَخِيْرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ، وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيْمِ، فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ، وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ، وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوْبِ. اَللّٰهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هٰذَا اْلأَمْرَ .... خَيْرٌ لِيْ فِيْ دِيْنِيْ وَمَعَاشِيْ وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِيْ فَاقْدُرْهُ لِيْ وَيَسِّرْهُ لِيْ ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِيْ فِيْهِ، وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هٰذَا اْلأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِيْ فِيْ دِيْنِيْ وَمَعَاشِيْ وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِيْ فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّيْ وَاصْرِفْنِيْ عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ أَرْضِنِيْ بِهِ
Latin reading: Allahumma inni astakhiru bi 'ilmika, wa astaqdiruka bi qudratika, wa as-aluka min fadhlika, fa innaka taqdiru wa laa aqdiru, wa ta'lamu wa laa a'lamu, wa anta 'allaamul ghuyub. Allahumma fa-in kunta ta'lamu hadzal amro (mentioning the question) khoiron lii fii 'aajili amrii wa aajilih (aw fii dinii wa ma'aasyi wa 'aqibati amrii) faqdur lii, wa yassirhu lii, tsumma baarik lii. Allahumma in kunta ta'lamu annahu syarrun lii fii dini wa ma'aasyi wa 'aqibati amrii (fii 'aajili amri wa aajilih) fash-rifnii 'anhu, waqdur liil khoiro haitsu kana tsumma rodh-dhinii bih.
It means: "O Allah, I ask You for the right choice with Your knowledge and I ask for Your power (for my soul mate's business) with Your omnipotence. I ask You something of Your Greatest Grace, indeed You are Almighty, while I am powerless, You know, I do not know and You are All Knowing of the Unseen. O Allah, if You know that this affair (if my soul mate Artanto) is better in my religion, and the consequences for me succeed for me, ease the way, then give blessings. But if You know that this question is more dangerous to me in religion, economy and its consequences to me, then get rid of it, and keep me away from it, do not foredo good for me wherever it may be, and give it to me."
Dara cried in her prayer because her heart also hurt as she complained all the problems to the creator.
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