My Husband is Not a Disabled Man
6,115,000! Mahar Anggara (Picture of Secretary Ang's Wedding Day.)

Early morning at the Mahendra family residence looks a little boisterous by the servants.

They know, if this Morning is the wedding day of Secretary Ang with Yuri who lately they have known if Yuri is the younger sister of Mahendra.

They are not packing to attend the wedding of Secretary Ang who will be held at the residence of Gani Kuncoro, they are not allowed to participate other than Bu Asri who is allowed, it is also to accompany Mia. But the servants of both men and women came to his heart, not knowing what they were feeling and doing. What is clear is all looks impatient waiting down his secretary Ang from the stairs.

They actually just want to congratulate and say heart to the bride and groom, a superior they admire. The First Secretary today will let go of his free time.

Inside Secretary Ang's room, the man was still standing in front of the mirror, fixing the white shirt he was already wearing. Then double her with a white suit too.

Sometimes his rough breathing blows.

"Dad, Mother. Pray Anggara! May my marriage be smooth." said Ang, then the man sat daydreaming on the edge of the bed.

"Dad, I'm sorry. Once again forgive me. Not not listening to your advice. But , to wait for your son-in-law to be old enough is too long. Anggara fear. It's really scared, if it's gonna lose him or something I don't want to happen. Trust me, I'll take care of him. I will take care of him with my life. She's Dad's good girl. She's very sweet. If Mom and Dad were alive, they would love it." Back in the rough breath.

Look at the door that sounds on someone's knock.

Ang, step open the door.

"Are you not ready yet, Ang?" Garra was already standing there with Mia. A couple with Couple clothes that look harmonious and charming.

"Young Master.!"

"Hahaha.your face! Hahaha..are you so tense? You nervous?"

Secretary Ang just smiled in response to Garra's question that sounded deranged. Then rubbed his face with his palm.

"It's natural that Secretary Ang is nervous Bang Garra. He's normal. And will soon utter his kabul ijab for the first time. Indeed bang Garra used to not be nervous huh..?" sela Mia's.

"You insinuating me Mia??"

"Lho! Nah! Who's insinuating?" immediately realize if you have said it wrong.

"You said, Ang is normal. You're telling me I'm not normal? And I wasn't nervous like that.?"

"No!"

"You also say, this is the first time for Ang, he has ever said the word kabul Mia? When representing me I used to marry you!!"

"Bang Garra, why is it so sensitive? Forgive Mia. Mia's sorry, isn't she? Don't mean to insinuate you??" whinek Mia, you know if her husband was offended by her words just now. Realize if the psychological Garra is unstable because of innate cravings.

Seeing a husband and wife in front of him who even quarreled, Ang just shook his head.

"Young Master, like I'm ready." quickly speak up so that the quarrel does not continue.

Garra glared, "Yes already. Why are you still there? You want to be late?"

"Ah, okay. Come!" secretary Ang immediately stepped out ahead of them.

"Bang Garra is still angry?" tanya Mia turned to her husband who had not yet followed the steps of Ang's secretary.

Garra smiled, reaching for his wife's hand.

"No! Why should be angry. What you said was true. I'm self-conscious, if marrying you wasn't as perfect as everyone else."

"Bang Garra, don't bring it up. Mia's already apologizing."

"No, you're not wrong. No need to apologize. I was wrong. I should be the one apologizing. I can't marry you well. And when I promised I would hold a big reception for our wedding I haven't even fulfilled it until now" Garra said, looking down.

'Pooh start again.' Inner Mia, quickly quickly pull Garra's hand.

"Stop it bang Garra! It's been. Let's go walk. My family will be waiting for us. Don't be late."

Garra held her hand. "But Mia is disappointed in me right? Disappointed with our marriage. You will be sad when you see Ang's wedding later." with a sad face.

"Oh my God!!! Garra Bang! I was never disappointed. I don't want to remember it anymore. Nevermind!" Mia pulls Garra's hand. Again, the man held him.

Mia looked over, then hugged her husband. "I'm happy now. And getting happier. I never felt disappointed in you!" whispered Mia.

"Really?"

Mia nodded. "I love you bang Garra! Unconditional."

Hearing that, Garra's heart blossomed. " Me too!" then I kissed Mia's face.

"Stop!" Mia pushed Garra's face.

"Let's make up wear off!"

Garra could only sigh. "Sorry! Bang Garra is very happy."

Mia did not answer again, afraid to spread out where , chose to pull Garra's hand to step up after Secretary Ang who was already in the front room.

The servants of both men and women had been waiting since there. There is Bu Asri and Mbak Endang as well. Seeing the arrival of their secretary Ang who usually lowered his head respectfully without daring to speak a single word this time did not. They looked at Ang's secretary boldly and exclaimed.

"Mr Secretary, congratulations on fighting. May you give me a good time for today!"

Secretary Ang was not angry, he smiled kindly at them. "Thank you. Thank you for all your prayers."

"Yes, Mr. secretary. Heart on the road. And quickly go home with Madam Ang!!" sahut them.

Secretary Ang once again smiled, and stepped wide, following Garra and Mia. Also Miss Asri was behind them.

They are now in separate cars. Secretary Ang this time did not drive alone but Mr. Abu who drove his car. While Garra and Mia were in another car with Bu Asri and another driver.

Only they leave. Without motorcade. Without Grandpa Abian and Grandma Sulis. Given the circumstances of his Grandfather who had begun to be frail and tired quickly, Garra deliberately did not allow them to accompany Secretary Ang. In the end, Grandpa Abian and Grandma Sulis agreed. Waiting for Secretary Ang to come home with his wife later.

The car was traveling at medium speed, not fast and not slow. It seems very if Mr. Abu the driver this time driving with the heart of heart, considering if it is carrying the bride and groom and the car behind is the same.

Until they arrived in front of the family home Kuncoro.

All then went down after the car stopped.

Gani Kuncoro was apparently ready to welcome them alone with a few men in suits behind him.

Then they bowed to each other to salute each other without shaking hands.

"Young Master, Mr. Secretary. Welcome!" gani Kuncoro.

They returned Gani Kuncoro's greeting with a big smile and a nod of the head.

"Let's please! The event will start immediately." said Gani Kuncoro let them in and guide their steps.

They stepped in. Secretary Ang's heart began to beat rapidly when he saw a row of humans in suits and beautiful dresses there. Especially when he saw some men sitting cross-legged in front of a long short table, Ang's secretary's heart was pounding even more.

Gani Kuncoro was still standing at the back, waiting for the bride-to-be to arrive. Soon, Tiara is seen stepping in Yuri's hand with Jihan.

All eyes were on the beautiful white-clad Yuri, especially Ang's secretary. The bride-to-be looked elegant, sweet and mature, unlike Yuri's actual age.

Then Yuri is welcome to sit to the right of Secretary Ang. And Tiara sat down beside Yuri a bit further back. So did Garra and Mia immediately shift her seat backwards without being ordered, intend that the two prospective brides really sit side by side alone with the position of secretary Ang on the left and Yuri on the right.

The atmosphere was very quiet, just after Yuri and Ang threw eyes at each other. Without the smiles that usually adorn their lips when looking at each other. This time not , both frozen , the same in mastering nervousness and tension. Until I can't just smile.

Then Gani Kuncoro moved, now sitting right in front of the secretary Ang after the ruler shifted his seat and now sitting opposite Yuri. Two witnesses sat to the right of the table.

Then the ruler asked the two brides, are they ready? Secretary Ang replied yes, glancing at Yuri who just nodded.

Kabul was started with wisdom without representation. Gani Kuncoro this time who immediately became the guardian of her daughter and married her own daughter with secretary Ang without being represented by the ruler.

Secretary Ang and Gani Kuncoro shake hands.

A moment later Gani Kuncoro firmly declared a marriage contract.

"I married and I marry you Anggara Sebastian bin Sebastian brother with my son Yuri Kuncoro with his marriage in the form of money of six million one hundred fifteen thousand rupiah, (6,115,000) Cash.” Gani Kuncoro snapped his hand. Then quickly and firmly Ang answered.

"I accept the marriage and the marriage of Yuri Kuncoro bint Gani Kuncoro with the dowry paid in cash!"

Penghulu turns to the witnesses asking "how is the witness, is it Sah?"

The two witnesses immediately replied together firmly "Well!"

All breathing a sigh of relief, secretary Ang was seen smiling without looking at anyone. Then the ruler read the marriage prayer. After that they sign the marriage document, only the marriage record is not a marriage book.

The last handover is the dowry, then the embedding of their wedding rings, after previously they took off their engagement rings and kept them.

If their engagement ring was embedded in the sweet finger of their left hand, then this time their wedding ring was embedded in the ring finger of their right hand.

The event closed with the condolences of the couple on both parents Yuri.

Tiara and Gani Kuncoro have similarly teary eyes, embracing Yuri in turn.

"Yuri, congratulations, son! You're Madam Ang now. Be the wife of Sholehah. Be devoted to your husband to the limits of your age" said Gani Kuncoro, wiping away the tears of Yuri who also fell.

"Yes Dad! Forgive Yuri, if you haven't been able to be a good son to me."

"It's okay, it's okay. You're a good boy, you're a sweet boy. You should be happy Yuri. Be happy with your husband, be happy with him." Gani Kuncoro kissed Yuri's forehead many times.

Secretary Ang who had finished sungkem on the two parents Yuri was not aware if his tears escaped. Somehow that feeling raged in his heart. Between his matchless happiness and also sad to hit his heart. If only his parents were still alive, maybe they would smile happily here with him.

Secretary Ang lowered his head, wiping his tears with the end of his sleeve.

'Dad, mom. Looky. Your son is married. Be happy with you there.'

It is time for Ang and Yuri to approach Garra and Mia.

Garra enthusiastically welcomes Ang's secretary's hand and hugs her secretary for the first time in her life.

"Congratulations Ang! You finally gave up your single days too."

"Thank you Young Master. All this thanks to your support as well."

"Haha. You have to remember one thing Ang? Even though you're older than me, you're my sister-in-law at the moment! So you have to respect me more than ever!"

"Of course Young master. I will remember it always." both of them laughed after releasing a hug.

Mia also changed who hugged Yuri.

"Congratulations on your marriage, my sister! Always happy, huh?"

"Sister Mia!" Yuri hugged Mia tightly, and for the first time she called for an older sister to Mia, as soon as it sounded warm in Mia's ears.

"Thank you, Mia. You're my best brother!"

Both of them smiled happily.

Then Yuri doesn't forget about Jihan.

"You've become a wife. So that means you're not a leak anymore. You can't whine anymore Yuri!" jihan said in Yuri's arms.

"Yes . I won't whine anymore. You just calm down. Don't you forget to catch up, will you??" answer Yuri.

"You're this? With who, huh? Cat??"

"Haha,.. Who knows, after this you're proposed to a prince! Don't date Jihan much. You'll be an old virgin."

"Huh! You huh? Just got married is old-fashioned."

Everyone laughed happily.

So happy they are at this time, even Mia and Garra forget about the great question in their brains that had been astonished by the number of dowry Secretary Ang who for them felt strange. 6.115.000?? Why that? Why not just six hundred million Ang? Or Six billion ? What is the meaning behind the number 6.1.1.5? The date of their birth?

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Oh yea!

Please know why Yuri was sitting on the right and Ang on the left?

Shouldn't a man be sitting on the right? Not on the left.

So here's why.

Before the wedding ceremony, the groom must sit to the left of the bride. After the sacred vows are made alive and lawful to be a couple, the groom will sit to the right of the bride. In the wedding procession Ang and Yuri also. After the pronunciation of kabul, Secretary Ang then placed his position to the right of Yuri.

It was as a symbol of changing status in the life of the bride. Like the word, Ang and Yuri who used to be 'foreigners' have now been united in marriage. They are no longer two people but one in marriage.

In Javanese philosophy, the change of sitting also illustrates a ban which later turns into a blessing by getting married. That is, In this case it is sexual activity that when before marriage will be a sin, but when married will be a blessing.

This position difference also applies in the installation of the ring. This is the reason, why singles should use the ring on the left hand ring finger. And this is also the reason why the wedding ring is paired on the ring finger of the right hand.

Hopefully it can be an additional knowledge for us and hopefully in the future there is nothing wrong if you find the same thing that happened in the position of Secretary Ang and Yuri earlier.

But remember brother, huh?? It only applies to those who use such customs. Not compulsory! Not found any evidence that mentions it. Even if in the Qur'an, the bride-to-be is not allowed to attend the wedding. You can only be behind the veil.

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