
The purpose of marriage in the Qur’an there are two namely to
increased piety to God and to bring calmness within
life of. The success of a household is when piety to God
increased from before. How to get calm (Sakinah) by
mawaddah and Rohmah at home. Mawaddah bearti love in
manifest in the form of physical or material attention (Such as giving a gift
to his partner, not seen from the price of the gift but seen from
a sincere gift). The nature of mawaddah is not eternal can fade. As such
loving because of his face, his nature, his dashing, his grace, his chivalry, his wallet and his
etcetera. If love does not fade, bind it with Rohmah. Spirituality
it is the attention born of the deepest heart if it is removed
love will last and will not move to another heart. Which has
The highest spirit is a mother, the highest spirit comes from the word Rahim
and the one who has the womb is only a mother or a woman, if you want a home
ladder lasting then give rohmah higher than mawaddanya. As such
an example is giving a sweet speech before the husband goes to work.
Arka's head feels like it's about to break up accepting the fact that
his trusted employees committed embezzlement. He's not at all
thought after his employees suddenly disappeared and unknown
her whereabouts. With a gontai step Arka decided to go home, he did not
eating because you are too tired to think about what happened.
Arka stepped foot into the house, her stomach suddenly hungry
and cannot be invited to work together.
“Assalamu’alaikum,”salam Arch. He opened the shirt and
leave the sweatshirt in.
“Wa’alaikumsalam, already home turned out.” Farah approached
Arka and kissed her back. Arka also kissed the forehead back
wives.
“Iya deck, Mas laper. Can anyone eat?” ask
Carcass. His stomach was repeatedly sounding.
“Astagfirullah, Coincidentally Adek has not cooked a mas. Mas also
do not usually go home quickly,” reply Farah feels guilty.
“Ya already masakin noodles only deck, Can you?” Farah nodded
steadier. She felt her husband was not in good shape.
With a hasty step Farah cooked 2 packs of noodles
packaging. Onions, chilies and vegetables he cut into small pieces to add to the image
flavoured. Do not forget to add 2 eggs for perfect results.
A few minutes later, the noodles are cooked and can
served.
Farah poured noodles into a bowl, then she
want to put it on the dining table.
One step, 2 lanngkah and almost to the dinner table
but apparently not.
Brakkkk (sound of broken glass)
“Astagfirullah,” shrewd Farah startled. His hand suddenly
tingling so unconscious that the bowl in the hand fell.
“What's broken?” Arka who listens to the sound
heading towards the kitchen.
“Ma-sorry Mas.” Farah's eyes were already glazed over. He's cursed
himself is not careful. The guilt is multiplied
when I heard the husband's stomach.
“Yes Allah, What hurts?” ask Arka while checking
the wife's body. He made sure no one was abrasive
wife's body
“Mie his fall hiks, Adek wrong.” Farah was crying because
no power to withstand the turmoil in his heart.
“Udah is okay, Mas wrong is not adek,” said
Carcass. He brought the wife's body into his arms. The conscious hunger
it just disappeared when he saw the wife crying. She should
didn't tell Farah to cook noodles. A sense of relief also contributed because of the
his wife and son are fine.
“Ta-tapkan Mas hungry huaaa, Adek wife who is not a dick
Mas.”
“Udah yes dear, it's okay. Sit here first yes.”
Arka took Farah to sit on a chair. He immediately cleaned up the noodle spill
and the broken glass on the floor.
“Let's aja who whistled Mas.” Farah took the shovel expert
and the broom in Arka's hand.
“Adek, I told you to sit down. It's okay, mas
whistling.” Farah finally looked down obediently. He sat down and ate the fruit
provided by Arka.
Once clean, Arka immediately ordered food by
online.
“Adek want to eat what?”ask Arka.
“So have eaten with Papa kok mas outside,” reply Farah.
“Mas seems to have a problem, if you are ready Farah's story
will listen kok.”
When entering the household heresy, Farah was aware of
some things from my husband. Like for example, now he knows Arka
has a problem because the husband can not hide if there is
the problem that befell.
“Mas well kok.”
Farah understood that the husband did not want to tell her what
happen. He also will not force because it can make a noise that is not
important.
Husband and wife have different thoughts and traits,
when you want to get married, you have to know everything that is possible
will experience. Like one of the traits of a man or husband when he is overwritten
trouble, he won't give to his wife for fear of being
a burden of mind for the wife. Women tend to want to know and
it is easy to think in a negative direction. Therefore it should be in
in a household of trust and mutual understanding it precedes.