The Desire of the Cold Militant
Husband and wife communication

Nadine gasped softly from her deep sleep when she felt someone's hands tightly hugging her waist.

As soon as Azlan realized it was the moment Nadine gave her a smile, she thought she really should get used to the changes that were happening in her life.

For a moment the woman tried to fix her sleeping position, she let her head rest on Azlan's arm.

Nadine stared at the man's face for some time, she noticed the Sturdy jaw as well as the face of the man before it for quite a long time.

he could see how soundly Azlan was asleep in his sleep, a face so calm and an expression drifting in his dreams filled his eyes.

With a smile rising behind Nadine's lips, the woman slowly moved her hand to touch her Sturdy jaw.

He tried to feel Azlan's face from his forehead, nose, cheeks, chin and even his lips, trying to close his eyeballs and enjoy each curve of the man's face for a long time.

"Tell me, do you like it?"

Suddenly Azlan's voice surprised him when he was still so enjoying the handsome face.

As Nadine quickly opened her eyeballs, she tried to pull her hand from Azlan's face but hurriedly pulled her hand and let the beautiful fingers touch her face.

"I love it when you touch it"

Azlan continued again later.

Nadine's face momentarily reddened, feeling quite embarrassed because she was caught staring and touching her husband's face.

"Did I disturb your sleep?"

His question was not good, Nadine bit her lower lip softly, feeling guilty for having built Azlan by accident.

"I'm sorry"

Continue again.

Instead of answering, the man expands his smile.

Later Azlan always displays his best smile, the only person who is lucky to see his smile is Nadine, if others do not expect to get it.

"That's not at all disturbing"

Answer Azlan quickly.

She still enjoys the touch of her fingers and Nadine's hands on her face, purposely guiding her soft hands to continue enjoying her face.

"I love it when you touch my face"

Azlan said again while closing his eyeballs for a moment, then he opened his eyeballs slowly.

"You know nad?"

"The real life in our household has just begun"

The man began to talk to Nadine, looking at her wife's eyeballs inside.

"Maybe I am not a perfect man like the man of the time of the Prophet but I will strive to be a responsible husband of the world and the Hereafter, because perfect is not enough because basically humans will never be a perfect figure"

Hearing Azlan's serious remarks, for a moment made Nadine silent, she looked at her husband's eyeballs while watching the movement of the man's lips.

"We know Building a household is certainly not as easy as turning the palm of the hand. All sorts of things must be prepared. Starting from mental, physical, financial, and so forth. Because, if it will not appear various quarrels that can lead to separation"

"In a fight condition, sometimes there is a feeling of sadness and disappointment. Mommy Hazel always said, The wife is usually the first person to realize a problem. Sometimes the wife also wants to complain about her feelings for the husband. But finding the right words to represent her feelings is very difficult, because a woman is very difficult to express her feelings"

"Therefore if one time such a thing happens as I described earlier, do not forget to remind and convey your feelings through good communication, do not forget, so that I don't become an ignorant and selfish husband in our marriage hmm?"

Pinta Azlan.

"Because men are actually difficult to understand women, for men sometimes women look like an array of puzzles that are difficult to understand, therefore let's use healthy communication if one day there is a difference of opinion"

Nadine remained silent, letting Azlan finish his words.

After convincing Azlan to finish his words, the woman then touched her husband's chest gently.

"Do you know why the communication between a couple often fails?"

Ask Nadine then.

Azlan looked silent, the man shook his head.

"One is because men and women have different communication styles. Women tend to use feelings more, while men put their logic first when talking."

Nadine said slowly.

"men usually directly talk about a specific thing by relying on the content of the mind and logic. In contrast to women, in addition to using thought and logic, they usually add an element of emotion and feeling to express what is experienced."

"when women complain, they usually want to see how responsive a man is and how he reacts to the problem at hand. Women want to know if this partner is caring enough and reliable or not."

"It is not uncommon to make women often seen as negative, even labeled as nagging. This is also because women do tend to be easier to express their emotions whether sad or happy compared to men."

"When talking, women prefer deep chat to build a connection with a partner. Sometimes the words spoken are no more important than the emotions they feel so men need to see the meaning behind the conversation going on. However, in fact it is quite difficult to be accepted by men."

"Because it is not uncommon for a couple to lose their best communication, in the end his unconnected communication makes them both bored and choose to separate because Tired"

"So let's listen to each other's complaints when we go through passive communication or get a sudden difference of opinion, let's take a moment to understand each other and find the best time, he said, let go of all the work and get the best timing time to get balanced communication when we have a hard time understanding each other"

Nadine said again.

Azlan immediately nodded his head slowly As he developed his smile again.