The Desire of the Cold Militant
Little agitated
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Can Azlan see how Nadine's current expression is, several times the girl tried to sigh even move agitatedly, even intermittently glancing towards the clock in her hand.
Maybe because the breakfast hour that was deliberately extended by Azlan made the girl riled.
Ah no, it's not her eating hours that make Nadine riled up, actually the girl was afraid to meet her fiance.
"What's this water not too long?"
He had the courage and courage to ask.
Usually other people would think of interrupting Azlan's quietest meal, but Nadine obviously didn't seem to care.
On the dinner plate Azlan still left a few tablespoons of food that can be swallowed and digested even Azlan's tea glass contents just shrunk half of his portion.
Instead of answering first, Azlan preferred to sing her smile.
Actually he is not the type of person who likes to talk when eating, but sometimes talking a word two is not a bad thing.
In general, the average person says eating while talking is considered inappropriate or disrespectful even though many do not know if this Rule is different from what Rasullulah Shallallahu’alaihi Wasallam.
According to him, eating while talking is okay to do because it can cause happiness for people who are eating but it does not mean excessive to make people comfortable around.
it is forbidden for Muslims to talk or chat while eating together. This is intended, so that the atmosphere of eating becomes more comfortable and familiar.
As Abu Hurairah radhiallahu’anhu explained:
ﺃُﺗِﻲَ ﺭَﺳُﻮﻝُ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺻَﻠَّﻰ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻭَﺳَﻠَّﻢَ ﻳَﻮْﻣًﺎ ﺑِﻠَﺤْﻢٍ ، ﻓَﺮُﻓِﻊَ ﺇِﻟَﻴْﻪِ ﺍﻟﺬِّﺭَﺍﻉُ ، ﻭَﻛَﺎﻧَﺖْ ﺗُﻌْﺠِﺒُﻪُ ، ﻓَﻨَﻬَﺲَ ﻣِﻨْﻬَﺎ ﻧَﻬْﺴَﺔً ﻓَﻘَﺎﻝَ: )ﺃَﻧَﺎ ﺳَﻴِّﺪُ ﺍﻟﻨَّﺎﺱِ ﻳَﻮْﻡَ ﺍﻟْﻘِﻴَﺎﻣَﺔِ ، ﻭَﻫَﻞْ ﺗَﺪْﺭُﻭﻥَ ﺑِﻢَ ﺫَﺍﻙَ …( ﺛﻢ ﺫﻛﺮ ﺣﺪﻳﺚ ﺍﻟﺸﻔﺎﻋﺔ ﺍﻟﻄﻮﻳﻞ
“One day served some meat to Rasulullah shallallahu’alaihi wasallam. Then offered to him the front leg (animal), the part he liked. He bit him with one bite and said: I am the ruler of all men on the Day of Resurrection. Don't you know why that is?” Then he mentioned a long hadith about syafa’at.”(HR. Bukhari No. 3340 and Muslim 194).
Reporting from the Muslimafiyah page also mentioned the hadith of Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam when asking his family about the available side dishes. His family replied:
“We have nothing but vinegar.”
He did not question and still asked to be prepared, then ate it. He said:
ﻧِﻌْﻢَﺍﻟْﺄُﺩُﻡُﺍﻟْﺨَﻞُّﻧِﻌْﻢَﺍﻟْﺄُﺩُﻡُﺍﻟْﺨَﻞُّ
“Fine-good side dish is vinegar. The best side dish is vinegar.” [Moslem HR].
Imam Nawawi expressed the meaning of the above hadith:
وفيه استحباب الحديث على الأكل تأنيسا للآكلين
“In such hadith implied an understanding of extinction speaks of food to please those who eat.” (Sheikh Yahya bin Sharaf an-Nawawi, Sharh an-Nawawi ala al-Muslim, juz 7, p. 14)
On the basis of the above explanation talking while eating is not prohibited and should be questioned. However, the content of a good talk spoken at mealtime, only certain on good talk, such as telling stories about pious people or talks that can please people who eat.
Then it is not appropriate if it is said that eating while talking cannot be done. This does not apply to Muslims, because in accordance with the teachings of Rasullulah talking while eating is recommended.
"Why? does this place make you uncomfortable?'
Azlan asked suddenly.
Nadine did not answer at all, for a moment her eyeballs glanced to her left and right sides.
"I'm sorry but. Look at me..."
The girl seemed confused as if she had to explain all of her from where.
When Nadine was intending to try to talk back suddenly her eyeballs accidentally stared at one familiar figure at the other end who was walking towards the entrance.
The dark glass from the inside could be seen but not seen from the outside made Nadine slightly let out her tense expression.
He thought it was quite wretched because the figure he was so familiar with was now out there and walking towards the inside.