
โโ โโฆ๐MUTIARA HIKMAH ๐โฆโโ โ
"Like a bird perched on a twig, it does not believe in its strong or sturdy trunk. But, he believed the flapping of wings he had would never make him fall."
Get to know yourself, discover your potential, until it becomes your motivation
ุฅุฐุง ุนุฑูุช ููุณู ููุง ูุถุฑู ู ุง ููู ููู
"If you have recognized yourself, then the words of others will not hurt you"
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"Well you want to get my forgiveness, then kiss my whole face Now!" Said Frans, with his eyebrows up and down, making Irma's eyes rounded in shock.
"HUH?!" Irma was shocked to hear Frans' words.
"Why?, don't you want to apologize from me hm?" frans asked with a face that was still focused on driving, only occasionally he glanced at Irma.
"You want, but time has to be?"
"Why?, am I not halal for you?"
"But if you're embarrassed if anyone sees how?" irma said while lowering her face in embarrassment.
"Alright then you'll do it in our house." Frans said still flat
"Our house?, aren't we going to Brother's house?" asked Irma who looked confused.
"Yes, we're going to my parents' house because I want to introduce you as my wife, and after that I'll take you to our house, since you are now my wife then you should go to my house, understand Now?." Clearly Frans, Irma's heart suddenly warmed, because she heard Frans' words saying the word "My wife"
"Yes, how's ana's stuff?" asked Irma who still looked confused because she also thought about her home as well.
"It looks like it will be just ask the word to bring it" Frans said casually.
"Eh, who's the Word?"
"My assistant!"
"Eh, isn't his Assistant brother bang Azzam, why have an Assistant as well?"
"Why?, is there a ban on having an Assistant?"
"Eh, no shit, no,
"Now don't ask me much questions!" frans flat said.
"But ana does not want, ana's belongings under a man akh bang" Irma protested, "Let you go alone to pick her up" He continued.
"Hmm yes already then, later I deliver" bales Frans, making Irma happy to hear it.
"Thank you very much." Said Irma, and only in the Frans bales with..
"Hmm."
And at the same time Frans car was about to enter the gate of his house but his house looks different, because in the yard is installed, tents with many chairs lined up there, making Frans frenzy in wonder.
" What is this?" he asked who he was asking, because if he asked Irma he would not know.
"What's the matter bang?" Irma asked who looked confused as well.
" I don't know either, yeah let's go down" take the frans, please, then they went down at the same time and then they both entered the house of Frans' parents, who were already crowded, including Azzam and Naisha.
"Assalamu'alaikum" greetings Frans and Irma.
"Wa'alaikumus salam" bales them in unison.
"Darling, is this your wife?" asked a middle-aged woman who suddenly emerged from the crowd.
"Yes mah, Irma introduced this to my mother" Frans said introducing Nani Wijaya to Irma.
"Oh, your name is Irma?" tanya Nani Wijaya greeted Irma.
"Yes my Aunt Irma" bales Irma while calling out Nani Wijaya's hand and then immediately he kissed.
"kok Aunt anyway?, Mama dong Darling." protested Nani Wijaya, who was clearly seen that he was very happy because finally his son who had a wife.
"Eh, I'm sorry Tan, uh Mah" said Irma who looked very nervous.
"Have no hesitation, come with Mama Now, you have to dress pretty" said Nani who immediately took his new daughter-in-law." Your fans should change their clothes too!" he said to Frans
"Eh, what's wrong with this?" frans was confused.
"Kok what the hell, this is the Walimah'urs show you're the kid!" said the Mama.
"Eh, why is this sudden?" ask Frans again.
"Thanks bro, but why make this show so anyway, guekan shame" Frans protested when he was near Azzam.
"Ngapain shy, this let everyone know that you're married" bales Azzam." Don't argue with that, you change your clothes!" Tell Azzam again.
"Haiis, it's hard to argue boss, yes then I change clothes first" said Frans who finally left, heading to his room.
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While On the other side..
"Congratulations, witch, anti-end, become Lady Frans Now" said a veiled woman while in Frans' room.
"Syukron ya Nai, ana is also not unexpected, like Nai's dream, like yesterday ana. fiancee same Devta, but why is now ana so wife bang Frans huh?" irma said it was like she could not believe what was happening.
"So you're sorry?, because instead I'm your husband huh?" the baritone voice of a man, surprised Irma and Naisha, who were busy chatting.
"Eh, no, it's just that ana was grateful because it's not that jerk who became ana's husband" bales Irma as it is.
"Good then, hurry now, for everyone is waiting.!" frans said a little ketus, making Naisha who saw him become a little upset.
"Well, can't you, good talk, and not so rude?" reprimand Naisha for not liking to see Frans' treatment a little harsh according to her.
"Abang knows, Prophet Muhammad โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ always give a will to do good to women what else is a wife. Men should be gentle and do good to women because of their condition. Moreover, a husband cannot escape the role of wife.
One who can take care of all the needs of the man. Allah SWT said: "And associate with them properly (in a good way)... " (QS an-Nisaa :19)
"Because the woman is of the most crooked rib, as said in a hadith:
The Prophet :
ุฅูููู ุงููู ูุฑูุฃูุฉู ุฎูููููุชู ู ููู ุถูููุนู, ูููู ุชูุณูุชูููููู ู ูููู ุนูููู ุทูุฑูููููุฉู, ููุฅููู ุงุณูุชูู ูุชูุนูุชู ุจูููุง ุงูุณูุชูู ูุชูุนูุชู ุจูููุง ููููููููุง ุนูููุฌู, ููุฅููู ุฐูููุจูุชู ุชูููููู ูููุง ููุณูุฑูุชูููุง ููููุณูุฑูููุง ุทููุงูููููุง
โVerily the woman was created from the ribs, she cannot be straight for you on one path. If you want to be wise with him then you can be wise with him but there is a bend in him. If you insist on straightening it, you will break it. And the break is his talc.โ
(CHR. Muslim)
Obviously Allah Taโala created a woman from a crooked rib, until whenever the bone will never be straight, then when trying to straighten it there will be broken, because protecting a woman cannot be by force. Must always be soft in the face of every movement.
Allah Taโala says :
ููุง ุฃููููููุง ุงููููุงุณู ุงุชูููููุงู ุฑูุจููููู ู ุงูููุฐูู ุฎูููููููู ู ููู ูููููุณู ููุงุญูุฏูุฉู ููุฎููููู ู ูููููุง ุฒูููุฌูููุง ููุจูุซูู ู ูููููู ูุง ุฑูุฌูุงูุงู ููุซููุฑุงู ููููุณูุงุก ููุงุชูููููุงู ุงููููู ุงูููุฐูู ุชูุณูุงุกููููู ุจููู ููุงูุฃูุฑูุญูุงู ู ุฅูููู ุงููููู ููุงูู ุนูููููููู ู ุฑููููุจุงู
โO mankind, fear your Lord who created you from one self, and from whom Allah created his wife; and from both Allah bred many men and women. And fear Allah with (using) His name you ask each other, and (keeping) the relationship of friendship. Verily Allah is ever watchful and watchful over you.โ (QS and Nisaa :1)
So do not be a man who easily spills anger on a woman or her wife. The husband must be able to withstand any anger that always wants to come out. For the strong man is the one who can restrain and not vent his anger.
Prophet Shallallahuโalaihi wa sallam said:
โููููุณู ุงูุดููุฏููุฏู ุจูุงูุตููุฑูุนูุฉูุ ุฅููููู ูุง ุงูุดููุฏููุฏู ุงูููุฐูู ููู ููููู ููููุณููู ุนูููุฏู ุงููุบูุถูุจูโ
โThe strong person is not a wrestling champion, but the strong person is the one who is able to hold back while temurโ. (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim from Abu Hurayrah)
From Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu anhu that there was a man said to the Prophet โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ Give me will.โ. He replied, โYou don't get mad!โ The man repeated his request over and over again, then the Prophet, โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โYou must not be angry!โ
(HR al-Bukhari).
Allah Taโala says:
ููุจูู ูุง ุฑูุญูู ูุฉู ู ููู ุงูููููู ููููุชู ููููู ู ูููููู ููููุชู ููุธููุง ุบููููุธู ุงููููููุจู ูุงููููุถูููุง ู ููู ุญููููููู
โBecause of Allah's mercy are you gentle with them. If you are being rude again being hard-hearted, surely they are distancing themselves from your surroundings.โ
(Ali Imron: 159)
Shaykh Salim bin Id Hilali in Sharah Riyadhush Shalihin revealed"
"the content of the Prophet's hadith about Allah Taโala created women from crooked ribs. Namely, a man should be weak to women because of their weakness and weakness of their intellect. Women may not be forever straight in some circumstances. Therefore, men should adjust themselves so that household life can be harmonious."
"Now you understand!, all this time you are silent because Irma is no one Brother. But still you should not be rude to any woman, understand bang" obviously Naisha is at length.
"Understand Nai, thank you for the enlightenment" said Frans, who seemed to have regrets in him.
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