
"Now we come to the next event, namely the marriage advice that will be conveyed by ustadz Fahri to him is welcome," said MC invited ustadz Fahri forward.
"Bismillahirrohmanirrohim, assalamualaikum warohmatullahi wabarokatuh. I thank you for trusting me to give you this marriage advice. Actually, this advice is not only for the bride and groom, but as the introspection of ourselves all who are married. In Islam, marriage is seen as a sacred and noble thing. And in its implementation must follow the provisions written in the Quran. By marriage, it means a man and a woman have justified what was previously forbidden by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The pledge to be faithful to each other has been spoken out in marriage. To keep the pledge, it is necessary to have marriage advice so that marriage can survive until death separates. Marriage may feel wonderful with promises in the beginning. However, marriage will not be forever sweet.there will be fights, sleepless nights, and other difficult times. However, the good times will feel so happy."
"There may be some examples that the lesson can be taken. First, when angry with your partner, never say you hate them. This will lead to regret later on. Second, tell the truth about what you think and feel every day to your partner. Remember, your partner is not a mind reader so you should not expect it to be. Third, do not compare efforts. You may have worked, so who will do the homework? You feel you have worked harder than your partner so expect your partner to serve you. This should not happen because it will cause a fight. Fourth, always give sincerely, if you are too objected to the attitude of the couple, then talk carefully. Compromise is a must thing to do. Tell Him you love Him even if you are upset with Him. This will reduce your frustration, believe me. Fifth, if you are in the wrong relationship, do not survive just because it has been comfortable. You deserve to be happy, then stop if the relationship can not be fought again. And lastly, the discussion with a cold head. You need to both clear your mind before you can discuss with your partner. To get a clear mind, of course you need to ensure the right time. You can choose the time of tomorrow to dampen your emotions temporarily to save the marriage. Such marriage advice that I can say more or less apologize. Wabillahitaufik wal hidayah, wassalamualaikum warohmatullahi wabarokatuh," said ustadz Fahri at length.
"We would like to thank Ustadz Fahri for the spiritual flush or marriage advice he has given. With the advice that has been conveyed hopefully can be useful for both the bride and the rest of us and make the two brides become a happy family, harmonious and sadinah, mawaddah wa rahmah, and also make the two brides a happy family, aamiin aamiin Allahumma aamiin" the MC said.
"And the next event that we are really waiting for is the marriage contract. To the father of our penghulu please," continued MC.
"All right let's start, please Mr. Rukman shake the hand of brother Reza," said the father and Rukman nodded as he welcomed Reza's hand.
"Bismilahbornrohmanirrohim, I married and I married you Reza Alfiandara bin Vino Albiandara with my biological son Agistha Sellysa Navanka binti Rukman Navanka Dewa with a dowry a set of prayer tools and precious metals weighing 88 kilograms and eight million eight hundred and eighty-eight thousand rupiahs were paid in cash" said Rkman steadily while holding tightly to Reza's tanga.
"I accept the marriage and marriage of Agistha Sellysa Navanka binti Rukman Navanka Dewa with the dowry paid in cash," replied Reza steady with one breath.
"AH!" the witnesses said.
"Alhamdulillah" said everyone present at the same time.
With full of joy and happiness, now Agistha and Reza have officially become husband and wife. Agistha kissed Reza's back for the first time and Reza recited the prayers in the Agistha's tubes and then kissed Agistha's forehead.
The Lord also recited a prayer for the two brides. Rachima, who was sitting in her chair holding Kania's hand, cried when she heard the word legitimate. As well as Yusti, tears of happiness flowed on the two of them.
After the agreement was completed, Reza and Agantha signed their marriage book and then took a picture.
Now Kania has stood in front to read a word with meaning.
"Dad, Mother, gazing at the sparkle of the clear eyes that are upon you, the most beautiful pair of eyes that have never been separated looked at us with love since we were still in the holy womb, in the cradle, in the cradle, to grow up today. Mother's father's beautiful eyes are a source of strength, the eyes in which we are his world, the eyes that only want us to laugh, the eyes that sometimes we make cry. Forgive us, father, mother…"
Agestha and Reza also rested on Rukman and Vino and then took turns.
"The pair of hands that began to haze were also those that embraced, hugged, rubbed our heads, when the world began to be cruel. The hands were always receiving, wide open, when we came home in disappointment, with tears. Hands that work hard, are willing to be sliced, burned, injured, for we can be happy and reach for the mind. We can't repay you, our love is nothing more than your love that overcomes the world and its content. Forgive us mother's father, for wrong and sin, for the distress we made . Our powerless giving you a nail of proper reply to your merits, your unfettered sincere love."
Now Agistha and Reza are taking a stand with Rachima and Yusti. Tears began to flow rapidly accompanied this sungkeman event.
"Dad, mother, we beg your blessing for our marriage. Pray for us to be able to bind our love firmly, for we know it will not be easy. But we believe, with the sincere blessing of father and mother, this marriage will be happy. Like the marriage of the mother's father who until now increasingly adhering to the intertwining, unfettered by the rain and not fragile by the heat."
"Mother's father, we love you very much. We love you, very dear. For that, forgive us if you have not been able to be the child that your father wanted. So whatever we are after this, we are the sons of your little daughter who still need reprimand and advice if we are wrong we still do. Guide us to live a new life. May my father and mother always be healthy, and always happy. Believe me, even the sky is falling apart, killing our love for father and mother. Thank you, thank you, and thank you," said Kania who also joined in crying washed away.
Sungkeman event is over. Then the closing ceremony and also the prayer reading were led by ustadz Fahri.
"Hopefully the do’a that we all aspire to be granted by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and thanks to ustadz Fahri who has led do’a. So many events that I can bring today, I personally apologize if there are words that are not pleasing to the hearts of all attendees. Thank you, enjoy the meal, wassalamualaikum warohmatulli wabarokatuh, and happy new life for Agistha and Reza may be a sadinah family, mawaddah and warohmah," said MC closed the wedding ceremony this morning.
After the event is over, guests are welcome to enjoy the dishes provided by the Navanka family.
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