
The Tolaki tribe is a tribe that inhabits several districts in southeast Sulawesi, it can be said that the tolaki tribe is the majority in southeast Sulawesi, which is famous for its natural beauty and natural resource potential.
Very interesting thing to know, the tolaki tribe is a producer of beautiful women who may be in the archipelago is not yet well known, even though the tolaki tribe can be aligned with the beauty of Dayak Women and Minahasa Women.
2 Days I stay in the hometown hana, make me not satisfied, forced me to contact my parents in the city to add another 4 days to come home.
Hana, my best friend is a beautiful tolaki girl, has a charming face, turns out many have their own uniqueness in their customs and traditions.
"We go to the bridal party later tonight brother, we are staying at the house of the village sir aja" said hana.
I just nodded, the night I and hana to the party that turns out there is a lulo tradition as well, like in the city because lulo is indeed the art of the tolaki tribe
"Sir Viona, can lulo right?", asked Viona
"Can dong,han", I replied smilingly
It turns out that lulo here is very different in the city, making me step on several times.
"The signal's bad, hana, Viona's brother is giving up" I said
Just then, a girl fell down crying roaring, and scratched her whole body
"What happened to her?", I asked
"There was a crush, he was exposed to beuwwa, a type of sap of trees that are very itchy, but for us tolaki people, it did not make us itchy" said Hana
The girl kept screaming in the heat, so I couldn't bear to hear her
"God willing, how can anyone help?", I shouted
But no one came close
"Hana, please dong this girl, very busy" I said
I saw her blushing, and her scratching was bleeding blood, but no response from anyone yet
I became very astonished, seeing that I was crying out of pity, Hannah approached me.
"Sorry sister, this woman thought this girl got rubber, it turns out that she was insulting a man and he got sucked which resulted in it so" said hana sad
The girl continued to roar, her voice sounding so bitter, making me so very sad
It turns out that here the tradition is quite other, if there is an insult no one can treat if the dope of the insulted, unless the insulted themselves treat it.
"Come, we go home to the kades sir, later the girl is also healed" said Hana
At the house of mr. Kades, there were many guests who came, as soon as the chatter of merwka stopped when he saw my arrival and hana
"That's howa, my adopted son who went to college in the city, and the other friend, her name is Viona" said Mr. Kades
I smiled and greeted them one
"Son Viona, come sit with us" said Mr. Kades
"Hana, go inside to make tea", ordered kades sir.
"Son Viona, this is a guest from another sub-district, they came here to demand the responsibility of one of our citizens who impregnates their citizens" said pak kades
"What should not be married, sir kades, kasian right" I said
"The problem is that they demand a fine that is too high Viona, karna in the tolaki tradition is so" replied Mr. kades
"How much does it cost?", I asked again
"One buffalo whose horns are intact, 1-roll shroud and 40-sheet sarong" said pak kades
Unhappy made me very surprised
"A lot of very psk kades, what is it already with the dowry?", I asked again
"Other to Viona" said Mr. Kades
It turns out that marrying the tolaki tribe is quite complicated as well.many embellishments .
Let the guests drink tea.
The conversation continued, turns out that this demanded citizen, a poor young man who had nothing, made the kades sir so confused.mau canceled the woman was already pregnant.
"So according to the father of kades, how?"ask the guest
"I can not give a decision sir, because the request of the brothers is very much, unless you want to reduce it because the family of men, really do not have property", said Mr. Kades
I saw them whispering to each other while the kades sir was silent a thousand languages.
"Sir kades, how about we ask for 10 million" said someone who was always a spokesman
"The amount is very large sir, we have not been able to accept it", said mr. kades
I saw the atmosphere was getting hot, some of the men who came, I saw it had gone up.
"The boy was right, had been impregnated, could not be held responsible", they said
"I as the head of the village do not know about it sir, because they are equally in love with each other" replied Mr. sumringah kades
Actually, Mr. Kades looks annoyed also to those who are not polite, but for the sake of maintaining his image as a village head, he remains calm and keeps not willing to act uncontrollably.
"Sir kades, we were forced to pick up the brash father" they said
Then he stood up without saying goodbye, to the house of the man who had impregnated his family, dragged out the young man, and beaten many, seeing that, some of the young villagers did not accept their vigilante treatment
"I'm sorry sir, I really seriously love him and want to marry him, but please don't burden me with such a fine" said the young man named Sege.
"Sege, if you don't have money don't dare to impregnate, you don't know shame" they said they continued to beat up sege
Even though some citizens did it, they still did their brutal actions, making me so unbearable.then why did my heart become so sorry for the whole.
"Please stop the beating, sir, if there's anything2, you'll be ensnared by the law" I said to a straight man who beat a piece of wood
"Don't beat my son, please stop!", cried his mother
Trying to prevent the beating of his son but could not, because the man who was opposed strong, suddenly I was encouraged to help sege, and managed to hit 4 men who continued to shower sege with blows
"Sege,ayo take cover behind me" I said
Sege crawled, and took cover behind me
"I'm sorry, I'm not interfering in your affairs, because I'm just a guest here, but please tell me, what exactly are you asking for, but please don't be too mermanggurkan" I said
"We asked for 10 million" they said
"I'm asking for 5 million, this is my last offer, because you've also persecuted sege, and I can incriminate you if I want" I said
"Please add 2 million, for the cost of the party" said a woman who came to me
For a moment, I thought, but on the other hand, my human nature appears, what's wrong with helping people in need.
"All right" I said
Sege's parents fell in love with Gopoh came in front of me and prostrated, and did the same thing with his parents, making me feel wrong
"Please stand up, I'm just a human being" I said.
Sege wedding was carried out simply, only at home the bride who held a small party.
I feel very important to be in the middle of a tolaki community, and tomorrow I will leave here, a village at the foot of a mountain that holds many mysteries.
"Hana, I go first?" I said
"Yes, be careful on the road" said Hana
The Sege family took me with many thanks for donating money for the wedding, they considered me an angel, but I should not be swept away in that praise.
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