
Laksmi asks MUA to fix Ira's makeup, because soon the groom will be arriving at Nugraha's residence, Ira's heart is beating faster, Ira's, his hands broke out in cold sweat when a voice sounded that the groom-to-be was already present with the family entourage.
Likewise with Dave, he was getting stubborn and nervous, although this was the second, but Dave was so nervous, he used to only marry in the KUA office with a simple process, but the recipe was luxurious.
This time there are several series of events, even the predecessor of a kyai, who turned out to be Budi's best friend at the boarding school.
Witnesses and witnesses were also present there.
Dave sat down at the place that had been provided, Laksmi and Nila picked up the bride-to-be to be paired near the groom. Ira is led by her mother and sister-in-law, her face is auspicious, hypnotizing invited guests.
Especially Dave's family who doesn't know Ira.
" Wah Dave is very lucky, his wife is very beautiful, still young and rich, his patience has been fruitful, God gave him 1000 times better replacements than his former wife. Whisper whisper of dave.
Dave's eyes to the point of not blinking to see the charm of his future wife.
" Dave eling, not flickering lo, flashing Dave." whispered Rafi teasing her son.
TWins approaches Ira and leads her along, holding the edge of her danger.
Ira was sitting next to Dave, she did not dare to raise her face, embarrassed, nervously mixed into one.
" Is everything complete, the bride, the guardian, and the witness?" ask penghulu.
"It's complete sir." replied Budi.
" Okay before we start kabulnya ijab there's something that must be complete, all documents complete?" Ask penghulu.
" Thank God be complete." Answer Dave. Penghulu opened the document in front of her.
" Name Dave aditama, age 30, last post-graduate education, self-employed employment, status of a widower?" Pengulu ascertains Dave's status, name and age and education, and job.
"Yes, sir, the status of a 2-child widower, the letter is complete there." Answer Dave with certainty. The bully interfered, then read Ira's personal documents.
" Name Khumaira larasati, age 19 next month, SLTA's last education, self-employed employment, unmarried status?"Penghulu makes sure what he reads is correct.
" Yes, sir is right." Answer Ira.
" I sincerely and sincerely married Khumaira, without any coercion of any party." Answer Dave firmly.
" Good, because a marriage is for once in a lifetime, even if you have experienced a failure to marry, a divorce is perfectly lawful but hated by God, but if indeed a household that is not healthy even in accordance with religious law, then divorce is the best way, then now I beg brother Dave later, then, won't compare your current wife to your ex-wife, because everyone will have their own advantages and disadvantages." Penghulu breathed for a moment then continued her question.
" Do you love Sister Khumaira? because now this is again viral and rife contract marriage? " nya penghulu.
" I love Khumaira inside and out, both physically and heart God willingly for the world and the hereafter." Answer Dave.
" What if one day, and without us wanting khumaira's sister to be physically disabled or have an illness you would still love her?" Ask Penghulu.
"I have committed to love him sincerely, will be ready to accept his shortcomings, and will cover them with the advantages that I have, unless he is mentally disabled, in the sense of not being crazy, he said, but crazy in quotation marks, for example, she betrayed this sacred promise, for example by cheating, demanding something completely she had over my ability, overriding her duties, her obligations as mother and wife." Answer Dave.
"I agree with your thoughts brother Dave, you're a strict and committed type of man.
"You are the head of the household, and work, how do you manage your finances, sorry this is very personal but we have to ask the bride and groom?"
" It's okay, kyai, I'm happy. In household life both parties must be transparent and open to each other sir, both regarding finances, income, expenses, and how we take care of our finances, I will be transparent, he said, and giving up entirely the household expenses, the education of the child, etc., to the house treasurer, this is my net salary, will be taken for this, it is already detailed and the rest is the affairs of the treasurer." answer Dave firmly.
" For heredity, and sexual needs, what is your attitude as a husband, is it going to delay having children or wanting many children?"
" As a normal man and already married the need for sexual is important, will glue the relationship of both parties, and add to the harmony of the household, and as a man who thank God is already well established in terms of financial then I will not delay having a child, and in accordance with the Javanese saying, many children have a lot of sustenance, I agree with all that, but I must not be selfish, all must be discussed together, how good sir Dave replied without any hesitation.
" This last what about the education of the child, and will you allow your wife to work?" Ask penghulu.
"On child education, I will try the best for my child, especially religious education, this is about my experience of not understanding religion, but I will continue to strive to be a good priest, early education is very important sir, let alone the role of the mother in that, mother's education is also important as a teacher who is very influential on child development, especially the mother's role in that, after this I allowed my wife to go to the highest level of education, but not to find work, but for the benefit of our family and children. I am a normal and healthy man and all the financial needs of the family will be entirely the responsibility of me not the wife." Dave paused for a moment.
" He is like a diamond in his family, he is loved and spoiled, now it is an honor for me to get it, so I will take good care of him and care for him, will not let both hands do rough work, just serve the husband and take care of our children, dress up in front of the husband, and comfortable in the eyes." replied Dave.
"That means essentially you forbid your wife to work, what if she is in good stead, the need for makeup, skin care fashion is expensive do not want to burden the husband so heavy?" Tempta Penghulu's.
" That means she's a wife who doesn't believe in her husband's abilities, and at first I've explained, I'll be transparent and open about my finances, mine is hers, he's free to use what I have as long as he uses it in a wise way" Dave replied.
Everyone present there agreed with what Dave thought.