
Penghulu smiles satisfied with all the answers Dave, sometimes the future husband will rotate around answering this question Penghulu soa.
" It's good, Mr. Dave, there's no doubt that you're a successful person at your age, and experience makes you more mature."Answer penghulu.
Now she turned her head towards Ira starting the same question in terms of the prospective bride's point of view.
"Khumaira sister, are you sincerely and sincerely married to Dave's brother.
" I am sincere and sincere sir, without any coercion in any way, Ira replied.
" Is this marriage based on feelings of love between the two parties?" ask the ruler again.
" yes sir, we love each other."Answer Ira
" What do you like about your future husband, physically, materially, or spiritually?" ask penghulu.
"From the three sirs, I love her physique, her spirit, she takes responsibility, and makes me comfortable with her, matter of matter, every woman will love beauty and an established life." Answer Ira.
" if you like him physically what if later it is not good looking anymore even troublesome, his age is also far adrift, and in terms of material, all that is only temporary?"
" All that is alive and created, both the creation of God and man, will inevitably be corrupted over time, just as man will surely age, and also be corrupted, after this kabul, we have been bound by a promise before God, and whatever the circumstances I will accept, and accompany him until his death to pick us up, for the material, financial and income of my husband, he said, as a wife I will spend my husband's income wisely and transparently, setting aside from now on, for the benefit of the child's education, social funds as well as the old days, he said, as a wife, I am not a woman who likes to shop for luxury goods just to obey prestige and show off, as a wife I must be able to put where my husband's position and association is and must be ready no matter how my husband's condition is because the wheels keep turning, the treasure is just a deposit from God." Answer Ira.
" What about children, sexual relations, what do you think?" ask penghulu.
" As a devoted wife of my husband, I will serve the physical and spiritual needs of my husband sincerely, and if my husband wants to have children soon then I will not postpone it anymore." Answer Ira.
" What about the division of labor at home, and do you want to work after marriage?"
" The division of labor, it is necessary sir, not all homework can be done alone by a wife, and need help from the husband, especially taking care of children, the role of the father is very important as well, I want our son to respect his father and be proud to have a father like my husband, so I really need the help of my husband, when it comes to homework we can pay for Art, but for child affairs, he said, can't be assigned to baby sisters or ART "Ira replied.
" On education and work permit?"
After all the questions were asked and answered well, Penghulu continued the recitation of the sermon and prayer before the kabul after, after that, asked Budi as guardian and birth parents Khumaira to marry his daughter to the young man with the status of widower.
He shook Dave's hand and began to say his hijab.
" Daughter Dave, today this morning, I, as Ira's guardian and father, will leave my responsibility to you completely in both world and hereafter" Budi said earlier.
" Okay, Dave, let's get started, I marry and marry you Dave Aditama bin Rafi aditama with my daughter named khumaira larasati binti Budi setiawan with a dowry a set of prayer tools and pure gold weighing 200 grams in paid cash." Strengthen the word cash.
" I accept the marriage and the marriage of khumaira larasati binti Budi setiawan with the dowry paid in cash." Dave recited his mist aloud and with a single breath.
"How's witness?" ask the witnesses.
" So saha is legitimate." The word legitimately echoed in Ramon's residence.
They are happy and moved by this sacred and smooth procession of kabul.
" Alhamdulilbornobbilalamin.." the ruler then recited a prayer for the bride and groom so that the household life is blessed, happy, given many children and sustenance, sakinah mawadah warohmah, both world and hereafter.
" Brother Dave now it's your turn to pray well for your wife." Pinta Penghulu's.
Dave recited his prayer on the sweet potato of his wife, blew it three times and then kissed it gently with a fairly long duration of time.
"Khumaira sisters now kiss your husband's hand for the first time, as a sign of your first respect and devotion!" Pinta.
Ira then kissed the back of Dave's hand in reverence, as a sign of his devotion and respect.
Then proceed to sign their marriage certificate, then last photo session, each holding their marriage book and documenting it.
Completed the process of ijab and kabul full of novelty, penghulu beg to resign because there are still two more couples who will be married today.