Aisyah's
Mate

Evening arrived, now Aisyah was at her home Umi Salamah. Aisyah was lying on her lap a slightly spoiled Salamah umi. Umi Salamah also stroked softly Aisyah's head.

"Mom I can ask you ? " said Aisyah as she gazed towards the sky of her house Umi Salamah.

"You ask what ? "

"When Umi married abi, how old was umi ? " ask Aisyah, making Umi Salamah smile meaningfully.

"Why are you asking like that, umi became suspicious " said Umi while smiling with a smile.

"Suspect what umi, I just ask ", Aisyah asserted.

"Wedding time with abi, at that time umi the same age as you, but Abi was a little older than umi, our age was about 4 years" said Umi Salamah.

"Umi married abi because she loves each other or because she is in a match ? " ask Aisyah curiously. Umi's eyes had started to squeak, she started to get suspicious of Aisyah with all her questions just now.

" Umi is suspicious of you, don't you already want to get married huh ? " goda umi Salamah. Aisyah even pursed her lips.

"Ih umi ko said that anyway, I just want to know, it's just that there's nothing else" Aisyah assures. Umi just smiled.

"Umi used to be married because abi was married by our parents, coincidentally the parents of umi same abi was suhabatan, after the first meeting with our abi, abi also mengkithbah umi, then we too

berta 'aruf then a few months later the same umi abi married " said Umi Salamah explained.

"So umi marriage time umi has not love same abi ? " ask Aisyah back.

"Ami was not in love with abi at that time, but Umi was convinced that over time the land could slowly love your brother, and the fact is true after marriage that love came by itself "

Aisha who heard a smile. He was sure slowly the land he could also forget about Rashid's ustad and find instead.

"Are you ready to get married ? " ask umi.

"Why do you ask like that ? " ask Aisyah back.

"If you are ready to get married later abi will find a mate for you" said Umi Salamah.

"Umi don't talk about it I'm not ready "Aisyah replied firmly. Suddenly someone said a greeting from the front door, slowly Aisyah got up and opened the door. Already seen ustajah Ulfi standing in front of the door with Riziq. Aisha smiled .

Now Aisyah and Riziq had sat before him Ulli, to listen to the lessons that would be given by his teacher.

"This time I will explain a little about the soul mate, soul mate means life partner, if you are asked about who your soul mate, it will be different answer, the answer will be different, if the person asked does not have a partner, then the answer is, I want a perfect mate, a beautiful/ handsome who is kindly/sholeh, well-established, memorized

the Quran is good, and from a good family, usually those who do not have a candidate will hope to get the perfect match. But another again if you already have a partner, then the answer will lead to the characteristics of the partner, no longer care about the advantages and disadvantages of the partner. And it will be different again if someone is asked about his soul mate when he has failed in his marriage or failed in his relationship, then the answer will usually say for now has not thought of a soul mate used to fear failure. You need not fear not having a soul mate because God has prepared each of us.

In the letter AN NUR verse :26

" Women are not good for bad men, and bad men are bad for bad women, a good woman for a good man and a good man for a good woman "

(Qs . To us: 26** )

From this verse Allah explains that a good man is only for a good woman and vice versa, The soul mate is a reflection of ourselves, if we are pious/sholeh, obedient, like to read the Quran, he said, both morality and behavior, God willing, God will bring us together with such a person." said Ulli explained at length. Riziq and Aisyah nodded.

"So if we ever fail in a relationship that means he's not our soul mate ? "ask Aisyah curiously.

"It may be, but you have nothing to fear, God will replace it with a better one" Ullfi said.

"You hear uni, you'll get in return, you're a good person you'll get a good soul mate too " whispered Riziq to Aisyah. Aisyah just smiled.

"Well, you don't have a partner now, if I ask for sure you will give the answer to want to have a perfect partner, then what do you think is perfect like ? " tanya ustajah Ulli.

"Hmm I think no man is perfect, but if asked what perfection is like then my answer is, a good woman, a beautiful woman, who is kind, understanding, smart cooking, my answer is, smart to keep and care for the husband also take care of themselves, smart to entertain the husband as well, smart to manage the last shopping money....

Not only did Riziq finish his speech, Aisyah had already cut the conversation first.

"There are so many criteria for your perfection, if your criteria are that much you will be a virgin for life" Aisyah explained.

"This would only mean if the union "grunts Riziq. Aisyah just smiled.

"Then what do you think perfect is Aisyah ? " tanya Ullah Ulli back.

"I will still answer as well as the prophet Muhhamad saw, as handsome as the prophet Yusuf as and as rich as the prophet Sulaiman as ", said Aisha.

"Si uni ends her matre "riziq grunts make everyone laugh.