Aisyah's
17 ways.

Evening has arrived. Aisha put Adam and Eve to sleep in her room. While Riziq was sitting on the velvet carpet next to the bed while reading a book. Slowly Aisha sat down with her husband. Riziq smiled as he knew Aisyah was sitting next to him.

" Why uni?" riziq asked as he gently stroked her cheek Aisyah.

" I don't know, my mind doesn't think about our household"

" We are not well" replied Riziq.

" Hmmm, I know, but Zahra's presence disturbs the tranquility of our household Le, there's a sense of worry in me"

Riziq smiled as well.

" It was our household test. Every household will definitely be tested with different problems, and hopefully we can get through it" said Riziq.

" How to handle it?" ask Aisyah. Riziq also changed his sitting position until he now faced Aisyah.

"I explained some ways to overcome domestic problems in Islam" said Riziq. Aisha was ready to listen.

" First(1), based on the quran and as sunah.(2) completed through affection. Any problems that occur in the household do not have to be resolved through quarrels. We can solve it through love. For example, invite the uni to joke, cook together or go to the plantation"

" Thanks for asking me into the room?" ask Aisyah. Riziq smiled at his wife's question.

" (3). Give each other advice. The obligation of the husband to the wife in Islam is to give good advice to the wife, about the role of women in Islam. The function of housewives in Islam. And the duty of women after marriage."

Riziq smiled when he saw Aisyah nodding her head.

" I'll ask you to sit next to me, then hug you and say I love you "said Riziq while pinching his nose Aisyah.

" It's not advice, but you tease me" Aisyah said as she patted Riziq's hand, pinching her nose. Until Riziq laughed.

" Okay, beautiful Uniku. I advise you, in the face of every problem you must be patient and confident, believe God will always be with you" said Riziq. Aisyah smiled too.

"(4). Focus on the cause of the problem.

" The cause of our problem is Zahra, should I focus on her?" ask Aisyah.

" Prove to Zahra that our love is stronger than her ambition" Riziq continued.

"(5).Avoiding selfish attitudes. Ogoist attitudes must be present in every human being. But as a believer and a pious man, we should avoid selfishness. Especially if we are already married.Egoistic behavior can be a trigger for quarrels continuously" said Riziq.

" Have I ever been selfish with you, Le?" ask Aisyah.

"Hmmm"

"When?" ask Aisyah curiously.

" When you force me to tease you when I'm not lustful" Riziq said with a smile. Until Aisyah scrunched her forehead.

" Hey, when have I ever forced you, anyways when have you not lusted at me, you do not lust only when I am coming by the moon alone." Aisyah grumbled while throwing a pillow at Riziq. Riziq laughed at him.

" Continue" Aisyah's pinta.

" (6). Open to each other,

(7). Be an Adult."

" What's my attitude about being a grown-up Le, I'm not a child, right?" ask Aisyah. Riziq smiled.

"Your life is more mature than mine, it's almost near Salamah's. But sometimes your attitude is childish like Syakir" Riziq's god. Until Aisyah snorted in annoyance. Aisha threw the pillow back at Riziq. Riziq laughed with laughter.

"(8).Mutually forgive. You don't apologize to me when Lebaran alone uni, we must forgive each other for mistakes that are intentionally or not.

(9). Charming.

(10). Control of emotions."

" So we need to be able to control our emotions?" ask Aisyah.

" Sure"

" But I used to see the emotion of Le, before you left, you were always in control of emotions, especially when the union received Kiyai Mansyur as my future husband first. You were angry and emotional at me, until the veins on your body stood out until I was frightened" said Aisyah.

" Alhamdulilah now Uni rarely see your emotions"

" Maybe it's easier for me now to ease the emotional turmoil than to ease the turmoil of lust" Riziq said as he looked at Aisyah.

" Why does his gaze now feel scary yes, fortunately now my puerperium is not over, otherwise he must have thrown me on the bed" Aisyah grumbled in her heart.

" Continue" pinta Aisyah.

"(11). Maintain communications. Uni must communicate with me often, so that we can know each other's news so that we don't suspect each other."

" Well, the union will call you once every 2 hours to maintain our communication" said Aisyah.

" every 2 hours is called uni operprotective" replied Riziq.

" At least once an hour?" asked Aisyah with a smile.

" that's the name you don't want to be far away from me, so your sacarep" replied Riziq. Until Aisyah laughed.

"(12). Mutual trust. I give you faith, do uni also believe me?" ask Riziq.

" God willing, I trust you, Le, but never once have you betrayed my trust, Le"

" Sure"

Aisyah smiled too. Riziq continued.

"(13). Learn from experience.

(14). Accepting differences of opinion.

(15). Realize that life is temporary.

(16). Patience and sincerity. The key to overcoming problems in the household in Islam is to apply patience and sincerity. If we are able to be patient about the problems that befall us, then God will bring happiness and rewards.

(17). Be honest. Is Uni always being honest with me?" ask Riziq.

" Sure"

" Tell me something honestly without anyone covering up" Riziq said.

" I love you" Aisyah said as she looked at her husband. Riziq immediately approached Aisyah.

" What do you want, Le?, you don't look like that"

" Athaghfirullah, I forgot that the period of nifas uni is not over" said Riziq while confirming his position again.

" Union, such are some ways to overcome household problems in Islam. May we make our marriage more peaceful, happy in Islam. Harmony in islam. Sakinah family according to islam. Sakinah mawadah warohmah family." said Riziq. Aisyah smiled too.

" You memorize and learn yes uni, so that we can overcome our household problems" Pinta Riziq.

" Hmmm, hopefully Zahra quickly realized yes Le, his attitude all this time was wrong. He is not in love with you, but in ambition with you" Aisyah said, leaning on Riziq's shoulder.

" God will give us the best way, and may Zahra find the best way"

" He's like you, Le, his attitude is more mature than his age. His age is not far from the rope of his attitude is more mature than the Umi Salamah" said Aisyah, until Riziq smiled a smile at the words of his wife.

" Am I older than I am?" riziq asked with a smile.

" Hmmm"

Instantly Riziq immediately pinched Aisyah's nose back.

" I love you mother" Riziq told Aisyah. Until Aisyah looked up her face while looking at Riziq.

" You call me mother?" ask Aisyah not like it.

" Uni is indeed the mother of mother, mother of Adam and mother of Eve" Riziq replied with a smile.

Aisyah was angry, but what Riziq said was true. Until he hid his face in Riziq's chest out of shame. Riziq was already worried about his wife's attitude.