LAILA TO KANG ROHIM
EPISODE 21 Akhlak and Adab Rohim

Sources of Waras dibuyur heavy rain. Rohim is still in the mosque because Isha prayers are congregated. Abah Ucup who was from the house of RT sir reported for siskamling because he was not present in one month.

Laila who just finished her prayer. He quickly came out to hear Abah Ucup motorbike. Waroh who heard the sound of the motor is still engrossed in front of the television. He did not open the door, even though the sound of Abah Ucup motor is quite large.

Abah Ucup and Bu Salamah entered the house while running a little because of the specks of rain.

"Make Abah Coffee Spirit..." Pinta Abah Ucup on his eldest daughter.

Waroh pretended not to listen. Laila also took the initiative to make Abahanya coffee. He went to the kitchen. Abah Ucup breathed heavily.

"Hhhh.... The Spirit... The spirit..." Abah Ucup said, holding back his resentment in his heart. Those who want to be angry do not. Because remember if there is a new daughter-in-law how many days at home. He did not want to get angry or raise his voice. Because he was once a house with in-laws. He felt the heartache of every heart when his father-in-law was angry with his other child or slammed something when he was at home. So the bitter experience of Abah Ucup while living with in-laws. He made provisions when he had a son-in-law.

He did not dare to yell at his son and wife, did not dare to put things or take things violently so as to make a loud noise. He also some days has never been surly. Worried that his daughter-in-law would feel prejudiced if she was not liked in the house. Moreover, his son-in-law is a person who is considered pious in society.

Waroh was still busy with television and occasionally saw his phone. Before long, Laila appeared carrying a cup of coffee and boiled yam. Abah Ucup who did not see the son-in-law was curious.

"Rohim Ndak Ngopi Lai?"

"Mas Rohim is still in the mosque, hasn't returned yet." Laila replied as she handed the coffee cup over to Abah Ucup.

"Well that's it. Call mas. The husband must be respected. Here sit here you. mumpung Rohim no exist." Abah Ucup asked Laila to sit on the chair on her right side. The Salamah Maiden who just came out of the room immediately grabbed the boiled yam on the table.

"It's just a message. You're married now. You must obey the same obedient husband. No matter what results Rohim gives you are received, you are grateful. Don't complain (call) if it's not enough. Yes help if you can if not pray." Say Abah Ucup while enjoying the still warm yam.

Laila listened to Abah Ucup's message by saying yes.

Salamah ma'am also advised his youngest daughter.

"One more thing, if you want to buy any permission from your husband first. We are women of great lust. Anything to buy. Everything wants to be bought. The husband who seeks sustenance. Your mother is this. Never dare to credit anything if not your father's permission." Mrs Salamah sipped Abah Ucup coffee.

"Habuat. ngeneki (begini) klo there Laila at home. Males. The Laila ngandelin. Including your prettiest son." Said Abah Ucup while gently hitting the back of the hand of Bu Salamah who had just sipped his coffee.

Waroh did not notice or follow the conversation. But he put his hearing up well.

Bu Salamah was just grinning when she saw the expression of her husband. Laila occasionally turned her head towards the living room door. He awaits Rohim's return. But the awaited figure never came home.

He finally revealed his heart.

"Well, Mom. Tomorrow Laila and Mas Rohim may want to go to Sumber Sari. Poor santri Mas Rohim too long left. The congregation is also Bah." Laila.

Abah Ucup was shocked to hear Laila's words. He hopes if his Bungsu Princess can stay in his place or at least in Sumber Waras village. Not in the village next door.

"Didn't just stay here, Nduk? but can you still teach and attend her studies?" Abah Ucup asked Laila.

"Well, for santri like Rohim. When he is sent to a region to serve and also learn society, then it is the duties and orders of his teacher that he must continue to do and Istikomah. Then there is no way Mas Rohim left his congregation and moved here." Obviously Laila on Abah Ucup.

Abah Ucup enjoys his coffee. He had actually planned to make a house for Laila on the land next to his house. Because he hopes the son-in-law can preach in his village. But seeing his daughter who conveyed it made him silent. He did not know whether to allow or ask Rohim and Laila to remain in Sumber Sane.

Salamah also looked at her youngest daughter.

"Aren't you comfortable being a newlywed anyway? So choose Sumber Sari instead of staying here?" Ask Salamah to Laila.

Abah Ucup asked Laila again.

"What if Abah makes a house for you with Rohim?"

"It's not about where Bah lives. But more to the responsibility of Mas Rohim to the Jama'ah that he has long built. Some activities or assemblies in Sumber Sari will be a little disturbed if Mas Rohim is here." Laila said slowly.

Soon there was the sound of greeting spoken by Rohim from outside.

"Assalamualaik."

"Wassalamu'alaikum." Answer the three people sitting in the living room. Waroh just shut up he didn't answer. He even felt annoyed to hear the intention of Abah Ucup who will make a Home for Rohim and Laila.

"Yo, good Laila. Already in college, want to make a home too. Basic Abah. Wong tuo is insubordinate!" Waroh grunts in his heart.

But Abah Ucup had planned that according to his promise the house and garden would belong to the firstborn. Laila only got a piece of land next to her house with an area of 25x50 meters.

While Waroh, he had talked to his wife. Her Eldest daughter will get rice fields, coconut groves, clove gardens and also the house they now occupy. Because Waroh did not go to college and not go anywhere in the past.

"Where is Him from?"

"So fitting to go home in a conversation with Pak Takmir Bah."

"O.... What's really?"

"He wished I would take one night to do a study for such fathers in the village next door."

"Well that's good. And you want to?"

"Well contact me that if Friday night there is already an assembly in Sumber Sari. So I invite Pak Takmir to take turns for example this Sunday at Sari source next Sunday here Bah. You see, I cannot leave the congregation at the source of Sari." Rohim clearly.

Laila who appeared brought a cup of coffee. Rohim was happy too. He is a coffee lover. He immediately sipped the coffee. What a opium for Rohim this coffee made by Laila. He felt his size was right.

"Him, Laila just said you're going to Sumber Sari tomorrow. Why so fast?" Ask Abah Ucup.

A good communication has been built well by the newlyweds. Rohim answered exactly the same thing as Laila. So Abah Ucup did not feel offended because the child was too soon to leave his house.

"Yes already then. But not tomorrow. Just day after tomorrow. Not good tomorrow, tomorrow it's Tuesday. Not much danger. Laila was born Monday Legi. At primbon Ndak can travel Tuesday pahing." Abah Ucup.

Laila just wanted to answer but Rohim first answered his Abahan's request.

"Yes Bah."

Laila glanced at her husband.

"Your morals to your parents are taken care of Mas. And you have the knowledge that we should stay away from belief to believe in good and bad days." Inner Laila.

When you arrive in the room. Laila asked her husband why he did not explain to his parents about believing in good and bad days based on primbon.

"We did study in the cottage, but Abah was my father-in-law, old man. My teacher often brawls (says) Dik. So the person does not pinter but does not have morals or adab. Later slowly can love enlightenment with Abah the problem. If now directly give advice, then the Mas this teacher njai. The preaching of Ndak can, who can even worry Abah even Ndak Suka in the beginning of the mas so his mantu. Later we both slow down his understanding love. It's important to make Abah comfortable first. That person if it is comfortable, want to be given any advice is easy to enter the heart especially the moment fit Dik." Rohim was clear to his wife.

Laila was again amazed by the explanation and method of preaching that her husband did. Her husband should be respected in Sumber Sari despite his young age. The husband's character and his way of preaching are so beautiful, friendly and gentle. He prefers to reach the human qolbu first. Rather than the arguments and obligations that should be done.

"What day did you forget the day after tomorrow?" Ask Rohim who has changed his clothes. He also lay on a bed that will squeak when climbed.

"Wednesday."

"In ta’limul mutaallim, what day is Wednesday?" Rohim is looking to see the understanding of his wife who he said long mondok in Java.

"There's nothing that starts on Wednesday, except it's going to be perfect." Laila answered while lying on Rohim's side.

Where in the explanation it provides an understanding that Wednesday includes all activities such as choosing a day to start work, starting trading, starting gardening, starting a store, starting a house, building a house, starting studies and others include studying.

(Source of Ta'limul Muta'allim)

"We santri yes his reference to what was taught to ulama ya mas... Hehe..." Laila's laughter made Rohim pull his wife into his arms. One thing that makes the couple again laugh. Because when Rohim pulled Laila's body, their bed rang again.

"Ngeeett"

"Hehehe. This is the danger of your bed. His voice will make ears that hear thoughts that are not." Rohim whispered in his wife's ear.

I don't know why Laila's heart was so happy after marrying Rohim. Every hour, every second of his love for the man named Rohim was getting bigger. Not because of his good looks, but because of his character and the way Rohim treats him. So soft, so full of love. They fell asleep that night in love.

When she woke up at three in the morning, Laila looked at Rohim who was still sleeping in the same position before going to bed.

One that Laila observed several days to be the wife of the najai teacher. The man had something called Istikomah. Even Kopiah or Peci her husband will always be in the same position when the husband will rest. Even the sleeping position of the husband from the beginning of sleep to wake up will still be in the same position.

Laila's lips again said the word love for the husband.

"Hopefully I can also give you good manners as a wife. That our love may last and continue to grow until we age...."

"Aamiin..." Answer Rohim.

Laila blushed in embarrassment because her husband had woken up and heard her words.