LAILA TO KANG ROHIM
67 Old Men Can Also Durhaka

For almost a week Rohim was in his native land. The news that his mother was sick made Rohim come home long enough. Wanting to go home together but impossible because the condition of their third daughter Mida is not too strong for a trip far enough.

Laila who is giving ASI to Mida must be surprised by the ringing of her Motorola phone. That thing in 2010 is no longer an expensive thing. Because at that time the phone has appeared that can send messages where the users have their own id.

"Assalamualaik." Said Laila while hugging Mida.

"Getishalight." Rohim said across the street.

"Where is Mother Bi?" Ask Laila.

"It's improving. Now I can walk. Mi, Abi wants to discuss something. Yesterday Abi Sowan to Kyai Rahmat. There will be opened classes for easy ways also adept at reading and studying the yellow book. This Abi Rada could be our provision going forward to transfer our sciences to our students." Rohim

"Please Bi. If Abi wants to take sanad there first. God willing Laila will look after the children here."Said Laila while rubbing the forehead of Mida who is still enjoying her ASI.

"Abi believes that Umi will be ridho. But what Abi asked was enough money now on Umi for the needs of Umi and children. Because in order to get the book, Abi has to be here for 40 days." Rohim said worriedly.

"Say there's no need to worry. Abi's wife created God, and so did our children. Every creature of God has its sustenance. We're just gonna pick him up. Umi should ask, Abi still holds what money?"

What a couple who are so supportive of each other for good. The husband who worries about his wife is worried about her husband.

"Abi is still enough to be here. The honey that Abi brought yesterday is still 50 liters. If it's good for Abi's living expenses while here." Rohim said steadily.

"Memi is still enough here. Later, it will enter Ramadan. Umi can sell clothes and gloves that Abi sent yesterday. It's good to eat." Laila assured her husband that she would be fine.

The couple hung up the phone by hugging their cell phones.

"Protect the servant's wife there O Allah. Hopefully every tiredness, every sweat he drops to take care of our children becomes his reward that he can be proud of later in the day." Said Rohim who knew his wife better.

"May my husband be facilitated in all his affairs and I be given patience in keeping the children at home." Laila Slowly.

When Laila has finished giving her ASI, Mida also she invited to the kitchen. But from the front came the voice of a woman who gave her greetings. Laila answered the greeting. He immediately went to the front. Arriving in front he saw Bu Toha.

"Look Mi, I'm confused."Said Bu Toha looking down.

"Why Ma'am?" Ask Laila slowly.

Laila also laid Mida's body on a small mattress in the room. Ms. Toha told me that she was 3 months late. She was confused and embarrassed because she was not too young but pregnant again. While Rendra's son is still less than two years old. She told me that she and her husband did not really want the child. Laila was in her heart a bitighfar. He who understands that one of the signs of the end of time many parents who do not love children. And today either Ms. Toha who came to her and complained about the condition of pregnant again but did not want it.

"Mr Toha, be careful. One of the Ridho of God that is in our children is by us being asked first of all to our children, then how God will be pleased with our children. If we as his parents, we have not been born yet we already consider it a disaster." Laila.

"Lah wong his father Rendra was up to beristighfar and said innalilahi when I said I was pregnant Mi. I'm stumped. Once upon a time when Rendra was pregnant too, I forgot to take the Pill." Ms. Toha still looks confused and sad.

Without Bu Toha realizing when they as parents do not want and do not love their children then God will not be happy with their children. How God will be pleased with them. Laila also told Toha that there are many couples who do not have children but so want to be given children. But still be asked to be patient. So it would be nice to welcome the child from the womb by loving him and loving him since in the womb.

"How will God love our children if we do not love them. We are parents can be parents who are ungodly, one of them is yes it does not love children." Obviously Laila to Bu Toha.

The look of sadness on Laila's face. He knows one of the signs of the end times where many parents do not love children or become ungodly parents.

Laila recounts the time of Umar bin Khattab's friend.

"Mom, in the time of Sayidina Umar he had received a complaint from a father. The father complained his son was disobedient to him. And Sayidina Umar called the child. Until the child and parents meet. Sayidina Umar asked for clarification from the child. I know, the boy because he was taught poorly to denounce his parents." Laila.

"Astaghfirullah's... How do you keep Umar's friend ? Is scolding the boy Umi?" Ask Bu Toha curiously.

"No. Sayidina Umar actually scolded the father, because based on the narration of the child. His father did not give his mother a living and did not teach her religious knowledge. Where the point is Sayidina asserts the father to carry out the obligations as a parent, as a husband. Among them choose a good mother, give a good name, and teach the Qur'an. So don't blame the present times we sometimes see children just as much as parents." Laila.

He often saw in the lives of neighbors and some worshipers whose children were just being rude to parents. Sometimes children do not get rights as children from their father and mother. Right of clothing, right of food, right to be loved, right of attention. Even many mothers will be very sweet with the neighbor's child but with the child himself talking always snapping, always hurt the child.

Ms. Toha was silent. He became worried. Rendra also used to concede KB. He forgot to take the Pill and Rendra was born. The condition of the child is so close sometimes often makes the mother angry, snapping at her baby. Though dozens of times toddlers in the snaps will not understand their mistakes but they learn how to reprimand others in a way that he often sees and hears from the mother is yelling and yelling staring at the person.

Ms. Toha shed her tears. She was sad because she thought her pregnancy was a disaster. He is also grateful to have a vent that can provide solutions and certainly will not go anywhere to become public consumption.