LAILA TO KANG ROHIM
EPISODE 53 ROHIM EDUCATES FURQON

An obligation is something that must be carried out by someone. So too in the household. There is a duty of every member in it. Including Rohim, he has obligations to his son and wife. So the man who was the oldest child in his family never complained or glanced when he arrived home.

If it follows Rohim's daily schedule, it is very solid. Where in the morning he will go to the field. He would garden, then come home at 10 he would help his wife clean the house or take care of her son. During the day, Rohim will teach the children who will be divided into two times. From Two to 3 o'clock pass by and will change classes for children who are Junior from 4 to half 6. Then it will be continued by reading the Qur'an while waiting for Maghrib time. Because At the Nurul Iman Mosque is not a cassette reciting holy verses but Rohim or sometimes santriinya.

That day Rohim was invited to the district office because there was an event where he was asked to fill his show. A charisma from Rohim was indeed seen when he presided over the Shalawat assembly. But Rohim's tawadhu. When he was in that building respected even too many people kissed his hand.

When he hurried home. He left behind a small perfume and a small bagbih. A kyai who knows both of those things. Especially that little wood.

"Take it quickly to him. This thing is usually used by him for dhikr." Said one of the people who admired Rohim.

But nothing is in line with him. Finally he intends to drive the object himself to Kali Bening. When he arrived in front of the mosque, he saw no one. It turns out that the children are having pickle camp in the sub-district. So the man went straight to Rohim's residence.

Both of the young Ustad's eyes were wide open. How not, the man who was so authoritative in the district building was leading an assembly. But now his appearance is so muffled Compared to 180°.

Rohim is seen holding Alya who is almost 3 years old. He held the second daughter in the back. Using a long cloth. Not to mention Rohim only wears shorts and t-shirts inside. The man did not realize that he had a guest. He was busy peeling the young jackfruit.

Ustad said his regards. And Rohim answered his greetings while looking. When Rohim stood up. The man quickly walked towards Rohim. He kissed Rohim's back. He did not expect such a respected figure on the outside. Precisely at home so simple even willing to help his wife's work.

"Sit down first." Pinta Rohim takes his guest inside.

,The man took the machete in Rohim's hand. He cried bitterly and helped Rohim peel Nangka which will be made a vegetable for his students who will come home from the camp later that afternoon. Laila had recovered from her nerve pain but that day she was taking care of Furqon. Their first son was sick with ulcers almost all over his body. The shame Laila instilled as early as possible. Makes Furqon not want to leave the room because of embarrassment. And don't want to be left by the mother.

So Rohim who had just returned from the study, quickly took a machete and peeled Nangka who planned to be in coconut milk to eat the afternoon santri and his family. The man or ustadz Reza felt slapped.

"Oh my God, I have never accompanied my wife at home. Just for the reason of being tired from work. This is Ustadz Rohim, just came home directly carrying his son and helping his wife with homework.

"O Allah is indeed a figure who really runs the Akhlak of His Majesty the Prophet.," Inner Ustad Reza.

Not even that's all. Rohim even in the morning before the dawn often helps his wife just wash their clothes or babysit their children. One thing men consider that washing, cooking, babysitting is the duty of the wife.

Home is a collaboration between husband and wife. So shoulder to shoulder and help each other help in sailing the household ark is one part to reach the sadinah mawadah warahmah. Even though he deeply respects Rohim outside the house. But at home, he was only a husband, father and head of the family.

"Truly he is a figure who is not only good at advising but properly applying in his life." Ustad Reza was crying.

He was amazed at Rohim. In his assembly, Rohim once said to be patient in being a household leader. And being a partner for the wife instead of the leader will make the household feel good. And it was not just speech but Rohim did in his life.

Since that time, Ustadz easy graduate of Cairo was feeling so superstitious in Kyai village if the people of the city or people who feel better than the njai teacher or kyai in the village.

Even Rohim and his wife always take wisdom in every incident. At nightfall, Furqon who was new to SD 1 was hungry. Vegetables are finished eating santri who came home from camp. Laila's just going to the stall to buy rice. How shocked he was that he had used the money earlier this afternoon to buy kerosene and vegetable oil.

But Rohim wants his son to learn to ask the creator for something.

"Furqon..here son." Call Rohim to his son.

"Yes sir."

"Still strong hungry?" Ask Rohim

"Still sir."

"We prayed Maghrib first. Pray with God. If Furqon asks for God's Mercy. Let God give you sustenance to Father and Mother. Let Allah love sustenance. Later if Furqon is big. It is not the Father and the Mother who can provide sustenance. But God. Then ask for nothing with God first."

Furqon. He quickly put on his scabbard and ran towards the mosque while scrambling to announce the Adhan. After the prayer, Furqon's eldest son prayed that God would provide sustenance to his parents. After the Mahgrib prayer. Rohim was approached by a little old man.

"Kang Rohim. Sampeyan already this Mahgrib there is an invitation to come at the 7th monthly event of Mr. Mulyo's son." Said the man.

Rohim went to meet the invitation. But without realizing Furqon who heard that his father was invited to a seven-month celebration. Then it can be ascertained that returning from the salvation. Rohim came home with a blessing. Blessing is rice that is put in the container with side dishes and pauknya.

Rohim is a religious leader in Kali Bening village even though he is young. So the blessing for her was differentiated by the house expert. Different from the blessings of others.

When Furqon returned home, he ate the rice with a glutton. He was inwardly convinced that God is the Giver. He prayed that his father and mother would be provided with sustenance. And his prayers are directly in ijabah. He was given dinner with a side dish of mutton.

Laila looked up at her son but tears came.

"What's wrong, Sister?" Ask Rohim

"Truly Laila was ashamed of Gusti Allah. Last afternoon we were only able to feed the children with jackfruit vegetables. Tonight God will feed our children with mutton." Said Laila while hugging the sleeping Alya.

"Kata Kang Mukidi Allah Mboten Sare. Kulo zinc keturon ma'am." Furqon said with a happy smile because he felt full and could eat citrus fruits.

"We really owe it to the previous scholars. Who cultivate a good tradition and combined with Religion. So that the community can give alms by doing dhikr together and the children of the wife at home can feel some of the sustenance of the owner of the hajat. Imagine if you received this blessing a truly hungry person like Furqon. How is the alms value of the person because it gives satiety to the poor when hungry?" Rohim held back his tears.

He is grateful to live in Indonesia as a nation that is so Arif. How the predecessors of the earlier scholars brought Islam so beautifully without having to eliminate the good traditions. So that tradition is combined with religion. Including Berketan or kenduri is one of the legacy of the previous scholars in bringing Islam in a time when many people are still difficult to feel full. And people are still hard to give thanks to.

So strange now if something good and has a positive thing and can establish silahturahmi, it is said to be haram in the days of those who are just learning and understanding religion.